Confusion Aplenty


What do you say to someone who is too stupid to see that their constant criticism is very close to damaging a relationship. When no matter how hard you try you always do something wrong, Sometimes it's bi and sometimes is so minute that you can tell it's just picking. I don't know about you but to me that type of constant pounding is detrimental to my sanity. 9 time out of 10 I don't know what to do, shit or go blind. Why aren't your talking, would you just shut up, I'm trying to listen to this. What do you do how do you balance life when it's lived in constant fear that it doesn’t matter what you do it's gonna be wrong.

You try so hard to please and all you get is slapped in the face by arrogant stupidity. I've lived with it all my life in my mother and now I'm married to to it and it's worse because it's a man. He expects me to know what he wants without him having to open his mouth, and when I don't I get yelled at. When I ask him something he yells at me because I should have know that,, or what kind of drugs are you hopped up on today, I know you are I can tell, I'm all knowing, and because I'm under stress and you're to stupid to find a job, I'm gonna make sure your life is miserable.

What do you do when you love him so much that it literally hurts because you can't make things better for him. It hurts because he blames you for the stress, “If you were working” things would be so much better around here., “ If you would quit taking your medication you might be tolerable'.. When you stop “Why are you acting so crazy” “WHY DO I EVEN TRY?” I certainly can't live up to his standards. Oh Well there goes that Life Interrupted again, and then there; another day

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LorenAyBe 5 years ago from Belgium

Thanks for sharing, just remember that:He creates his own stress, he chooses to be negative.


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Valerie P Brown 5 years ago from Jacksonville, FL Author

Thanks Loren I needed that.

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