If this guy is shy as you say, then maybe YOU should go ahead & make contact first. This is no big thing nowadays! Maybe HE wants you to! [especially if he's real shy!] But be VERY careful, as 'nowadays' you never know WHO you'll meet..
I've met alot of people in my life, who proved to be someone they weren't. Do you watch TV? Well, that should answer alot of your ?'s becuz there's alot of 'sickies' in the world.. But if you don't want to take the first step, then just wait & see if he WILL~
In any case, maybe it'd be best to just meet someone else? He's not the only fish in the sea! K? K! Take good care, *Dawnna*