How To Date A Man Who Wears Women's Lingerie
Even if you don't read past this first paragraph, you'll have probably learned most of what you need to know about dating a man who wears womens lingerie. So listen up (read up?) here it is: Forget about trying to change him. Seriously. This isn't a 'phase', this isn't a 'stage', it's not a 'hobby', and you can't break him of it. If you're currently going along to get along with a man who wears lingerie and thinking that you'll one day be able to stop him from wearing that freaky stuff then do yourself a favor and either accept that he will probably always wear women's lingerie, or break it off with him.
It's true that you might one day be able to guilt and / or pressure him into no longer wearing lingerie, but do you know what will happen if you 'win'? His desires will go underground. He will sneak around behind your back wearing lingerie when he gets the chance, his lingerie related fantasies will increase considerably. (We all want what we can't have.)
Why is this? Well, for most men who wear lingerie, the desire started when they were very young, oftentimes before puberty set in. These are times when psycho-sexual preferences can be determined very strongly. By the time you met him, his lingerie desires are practically hardwired in. Can they change over time? Yes. Some men do just loose interest, but if he does lose interest it won't be because you want him to.
Trying to change a man is never a great idea. It leads to resentment, anger, frustration and a sense of being trapped in a relationship. He'll pretend to change, and on the outside he may even do it for a while, but eventually you are going to find a pair of panties that aren't your size. You'll feel betrayed and hurt, he's lied to you!
Understand that telling a man who loves to wear women's lingerie that he can't wear women's lingerie is like him telling you that you may never engage in your intimate fantasies (whatever they may be).
Ideally, relationships are about fulfilling one another's needs as far as is possible. If the whole 'lingerie' thing is just too much for you, then it is better to move on and find someone who fits your preferences and preconceived notions of manhood.
If you love him, if you want to be a part of his life, and to have him as a part of yours, then the following articles may help you come to terms with his lingerie wearing habits.
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