Dear Men, Bro, and Husbands: Do not feel ashamed if you are the victim of a Narcissistic woman. It is not your fault if you are dealing with such cruelty. Perhaps the change occurred after the exchange of marriage vows. You also might be dealing with a Borderline, or just a user. You are not alone!
As parents, we don’t want our children to mimic our mistakes, but history often repeats itself. Maturation means the blessed saturation of God’s wisdom upon our lives. We can change the course of yesteryear thru the rebirth of living a better example. He makes all things new again!
Narcissist, dressed in a cute wolf costume, tricks Little Red Riding Hood into believing he is a sweet ball of fluff. How could Red have known any better? Narcissists hone their shape-shifting skills early on, mastering their fraudulent personas to fool even the most discerning.
Would you prefer your betrothed to consider you a rare jewel, a fine porcelain statue, or a piece of bread? Three young men chatting about their love crushes each behold a different thought worthy of our attention. One particular lad is wise beyond his years!
Appearances can not always judge evil and innocence. Sometimes we need to look deeper into what is behind people's words, actions, or behaviors. Though discernment is important in keeping ourselves safe, we should put judgement into God’s All-Knowing Hands.
Red Rose Bay is touted as Shared-Psychosis Way by a majority of people. Yet, even without any concrete evidence, a group of the town’s citizens are convinced of a strange and rare sighting that seems impossible. How is such a phenomenon as Shared-Psychosis born?
Narcissistic Relationships: Honeymoon (Idealization) Phase is when the Narcissist mirrors his/her victim causing addiction in the recipient; Devaluation Phase entails cunning actions and words placed to lower the target’s self-esteem; and Discard Phase is the painful period of ghosting.
There are many activities we can do- or not do- to benefit the lives of others and ourselves. These things hold great merit and honor. But the correct path to freedom is not by our own earnings, but via an ongoing intimate relationship with our Savior, Jesus Christ.
Realists tend toward logical thinking, whereas Idealists take to the floral path of dreaming. Sometimes, extreme fantasies are an escape. And overly logical views can lead to pessimism. Though both traits can also carry positive rewards, balance is important to a healthy mind!
Exciting expectations often entails exposing peace-disturbing situations, or behavior.
Burning bullies’ bridges bring burdened bearers bountiful bliss!
Jealous journalists, sensitive as they are, get their jewels shaken up by a few notorious jailed jesters!
Wandering westward, weakened wills woefully weather western, wayward winds, withstanding wickedly wrathful whippings, without warrant.
Prayer is power! It is the greatest weapon we can freely use to our greatest advantage, while also expressing our deepest gratitude and reverence, as well as our every need and worry to our Holy Father. He hears each word spoken from our heart. We need only trust in Him.
New creation, we shall stand strong; and even if we fall seven times seven, we shall rise up, again, and continue this day filled with God-Given song!
Lying eyes might be looking down at you; beware! Do not get too caught up in the glare of this icy-azure stare!
Alcoholism is a set of song lyrics that I wrote to go along with the same rhythm and beat as: “Fool, If You Think It’s Over”, by Chris Rea. My heart goes out to each, and every one (including family members), who suffer the horrors of alcoholism.
Heroic Sons are my song lyrics in tribute to my beloved sons who are not only my heroes, but heroes to the public, as well. It is not their occupations that make them my heroes, however; it is their courageous souls. Enjoy these lyrics with “Nights in White Satin”, by The Moody Blues, below!
First Responders (Brawn and Brains), brave life-threatening dangers every day. What we consider epic, once-in-a-lifetime catastrophes are every day occurrences for these valiant heroes! These song lyrics are dedicated to these paladins who risk their lives to defend and protect us from monsters!
Toxic personalities can be more readily realized for their astonishing acting skills after their productions are entirely over, as opposed to during the height of their performances- when we are wholly drawn in by the song and dance. I am speaking of Narcissists, and their cunning deceptions.
Cavalry Scouts are the eyes and ears of the battlefield. This tribute to brave soldiers, and all heroes in the military, can be sang along with the popular Tears for Fears song: Everybody Wants to Rule The World. My deepest gratitude goes to these brave men and women of the United States Military!
Abusive women can be vicious manipulators, and traumatized men need to have a voice, too, and know that they are not alone! These are actually song lyrics, that I wrote, to be sung along with the same rhythm and beat as Barracuda, by the popular classic group known as Heart. Videos included!
Litter boxes and bad cat behavior can go hand-in-hand. My own stubborn, green-eyed feline refuses to keep his litter-box tidy; this is a gross understatement. Into the litter-box goes the clean Kitty-Litter, and right back out, it comes flying, at ridiculous speeds!
Mimicry can be sang along to the same beat and rhythm as, “Who Can It Be, Now”, by Men At Work. Videos included!
Firefighters Tribute, Paladins Strike, can be sung along with the two videos included in this post! One video is Instrumentals, and the other is Vocals. This classic, well-known hit that has the same beat as my metaphorical song lyrics about Firefighters is “Come Together”, by the Beatles. Enjoy!
Soldiers Tribute, Eagle’s Wings, can be sung along with the classic song “Billy Jean”, by Michael Jackson. As you read the lyrics below, please remember our heroic soldiers and veterans! Thank you!
“Crocodile Tears” can be sung to the same tune as “Born To Be Wild”, by Steppenwolf. I love the rhythm of this cool tune from 1968! I consider it to still be a big hit!
An aerial yoga swing is not only a healthy way to do yoga poses, but it's also an incredibly fun way to do them! Let me explain how I safely installed my aerial yoga swing.
My strange addiction is described in my rhyming poem below. It is wonderful to have a passion in life, but it can become way too intrusive when it causes me to neglect, or even forget, my necessary activities of daily living!
“None to Perish!” is about desperation attempting to take over our lives, as we pray, wondering why The Lord does not come right away to take us to Heaven. This poem explains the reason why The Lord is waiting for just the right moment!
Grateful hearts are joyful hearts that have an overflowing desire to share their gifts of Divine Truths, love and happiness with others!
Fleeting moments are utterly precious! Despite the distractions of our everyday life, taking notice and truly appreciating these blessed moments will nurture our souls and give to us the most lasting of rewards!
Spider-Man’s Narcissistic brother is terrified of one thing, and rightly so. Since this one thing could actually result in Big Brother’s demise, he will protect it at any cost, no matter what harm might come to innocent others. Of course, not having a conscience allows him this tyrannical freedom.
Narcissists will lead their followers down a dangerous path of cunning lies, deception, manipulation, and prolific brainwashing tactics. Narcissists are corrupt leaders, void of any accountability.
Endless love is a treasure that flows with sweet fragrance and its tender passions enchant our path with a vibrant energy from the unprecedented joy it brings. Endless love is eternal!
“Reality Bites The Dust” has the same rhythm and beat that can be sang along with Queen’s, ‘’Another One Bites The Dust’’. Enjoy!
Opposites really do attract as evident in this rhyme below- including our own relationship memes! Spock is ever logical, and I am passionately emotional; yet, we are almost perfect for each other! Well, almost...
Confessions are not always easy to disclose, but it’s time that I tell you mine. Being an Oompa Loompa was an inborn passion of mine that my parents put into good use by honing in on my natural Oompa Loompa skills at the tender age of 15. Thus, my career took off at the factory!
Narcissists gain our confidence with convincing facades of helpfulness and kindness. Then, once they have our trust, they will turn our entire world upside down.
Bulldog Humor highlights Thor, our English Bulldog! Thor has brilliantly mastered this skill of flying, with his new purple wings! To boot, when he hovers above me, I get a face full of drool. Magnificent.
“Don’t Swim With Sharks” can be sang along with the song lyrics sung by, Flock of Seagulls, “I Ran”. Two videos included. These are man-eating, hungry sharks; so, do be careful!
Definition of Love: The precious bond between a mother and her sons. There is no greater love than that which a mother has for her children. Such a love defies every, and all words, as well as any possible action. It is utterly indescribable in any earthly terms imaginable!
Spilling emotions can bring about changes in our overall moods, just like the change of seasons. We all have ‘high and lows’, but how we act them out requires inner-reflection, awareness, and self-control, as well as knowledge of cause-and-effect.
“Whispers of Thunder” has the same beat and rhythm as “Sound of Silence” by Simon and Garfunkel, made into rhyming song lyrics. Video included. Enjoy!
Backwards people can make for unique, colorful and interesting personalities! Yet, there are some who see others’ differences as a justifiable reason to shame, bully, or even dehumanize them. Being different is completely all right as long as we remain authentic and true to our ourselves and others.
What is an Angry Dragon? This rhyming poem describes the Angry Dragon of debilitating Depression, Anxiety, and/or PTSD. The heroes of an Angry Dragon are its sufferers who live every day of their lives in its grip.
Danger Zone by, Kenny Loggins, is the choice rhythm and beat in which this short story, Donut Zone, made into fun song lyrics (below), can be sung. Videos included: Instrumentals and Vocals. So, sing-a-long, and enjoy!
Heroes, such as firefighters, risk their lives everyday keeping us safe. This is a tribute to these brave and valiant individuals. Firefighters are a great blessing from The Lord, and speak of His Goodness thru their sacrificial actions. Thank you, Firefighters, Fire Engineers and First Responders!
“Kingdom of Heaven” are Christian song lyrics that I wrote, which can be sung to the same beat and rhythm as “Killing Me Softly”, by Roberta Flack. Videos included- Instrumentals and Vocals. Enjoy!
“Riders On The Storm” (by, The Doors), is the choice rhythm and beat in which this short story, made into fun song lyrics, (below), can be sang to. Video included. Enjoy!
Dealing with a Sociopath requires desperate measures. Pet guillotines do the trick! However, for obvious reasons, these are dangerous pets that need to be kept caged unless they are on attack-mode. My pet guillotine is trained to sense incoming Dark Personalities!
Two hearts waltz to the deep-flowing rhythm existing within each other’s impassioned embrace, hypnotically gliding across the floor where time has mysteriously ceased.
“Need for Speed” is a short story that can be sung to the same rhythm and beat as “I Can’t Drive 55!”, by Sammy Hagar. Video included. Enjoy!
“Let’s Play Blackjack!“ has the same rhythm and beat as “Enjoy The Silence”, by Depeche Mode. Video included. Enjoy!
Bullies on the Web can be sung to the same rhythm and beat as “Riders On The Storm”, by The Doors. Videos are included. Enjoy!
Joy and love to the world can be felt, along with magnificent peace from within, when touched by The Holy Spirit- though Jesus Christ.
“Love Hurts”, by Nazareth, is the choice rhythm and beat in which this short story, Cats Kill, made into fun song lyrics can be sung to. Videos included- Instrumentals and Vocals. Enjoy!
Though we might be able to take shelter from the assaults of the outside world, what should we do when we are plagued with abuses from the inside world- our inner-minds?
How can we find freedom? Sometimes the things which we are so passionately searching for are already within our possession. We just need to believe and trust in the Love of God to reach these infinite heights. Let us ask Him Who is faithful to show us our wings! Actively ask, and we will receive.
Love is a never-ending gift. It is worth our energies, time, and devotion. When all is said and done, what is life without love? The giving of this precious resource is just as fulfilling as being on the receiving end. Love is a life-giving and a lifesaving tonic to both the giver and the receiver.