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2012-04-25

Don't go there. Hubbers.

We Love Drama!

Well, most drama, at least...

We love drama on HubPages- the joy of seeing characters' lives unfold in a series like mckbirdbks' Emerald Wells Cafe series, the excitement of watching Hubbers power through a Hub Challenge, and the suspense one experiences after one publishes a new Hub and waits for the community's reaction.

Well, I suppose there is one type of drama we don't enjoy so much, and that involves hurt feelings and conflict amongst Hubbers- both on and off HubPages. Drama and conflict may be inevitable online, but they don't have to be part of your life on HubPages if you don't want them to be.

For some advice on dealing with online drama, stop by the Pro Tips section of this newsletter. With a bit of self-control and perspective, it can be quite easy to manage sturm und drang in a classy and stress-free manner.

Happy Hubbing,

Simone Haruko Smith
Community & Marketing Manager

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Pro Tips

By Smurfy (Own work) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

How to Deal with Online Drama

Would you rather not get caught up in online drama? Take our tips to heart! They make a big difference.

  • Be careful about your wording - don't say things that might be easily misinterpreted.
  • If someone attacks you in the comments of one of your Hubs, delete that comment.
  • If someone attacks someone else in a comment on one of your Hubs, delete it.
  • If someone attacks you in a public place that goes against that site's policy, flag the comment or post, but do not respond.
  • If someone attacks you while acting within the host site's rules, do not respond.
  • If someone attacks someone you care about, do not respond, and encourage that person to do the same (though if they don't know about the slight, it might be best to leave them in the dark).
  • If you MUST respond to someone's negative behavior, kill them with kindness. Always be the better man.
  • Remember that unkind words are only as powerful as you make them.
  • Keep in mind that very few people actually care about what others are saying about you.

For more detailed advice on dealing with online drama, stop by our blog and listen to our latest podcast.


Hub Nuggets

This Week's HubNuggets

Every week, 18 Hubs from three different topics are nominated by the HubNuggets team. These Hubs are written by people who are new to HubPages and really ought to be 'discovered' by the HubPages community!

For this reason, we feature them in the HubNuggets competition, in which they are rounded up and presented to the community, which is invited to vote for the best Hub from each category. On Wednesdays, the polls close nine finalists are selected. In addition to being featured in the newsletter, the winning Hubbers are awarded with special HubNugget Accolades.

This week, Enelle Lamb gathered nominees from the Health, Home, and Religion and Philosophy Topics while battling the ultimate beast: writer's block! Thankfully this week's winners are splendidly inspiring. Have a look!

Simone Smith

      Health
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Bullying 101, Definitions of Bullying

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Paranormal Belief and Creativity: The association between paranormal belief and creativity

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Celtic & Ancestoral themed poems

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What Was the Strangest Experience You Ever Had?

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Hubber to Hubber
vocalcoach

vocalcoach, From Nashville, Tn., 1069 Fans, 126 Hubs, Joined 23 months ago

Audrey Howitt Interviews Vocalcoach

Snag some background on an inspired artist, teacher, and writer

Audrey, thanks for taking the time to chat with me today. Can we begin by having you tell us a little about yourself, some of your background, where you’re from, that sort of thing?

I grew up in Southern California where music and movies were a daily part of life. We were so poor that getting a new pair of shoes was a family celebration.

Both my mother and my father were a strong influence where music was concerned and saw to it that I studied voice and piano. I was trained classically and worked very hard. Music was my escape from a difficult childhood. I started singing publicly at the age of 3 and never looked back. Music was my friend. I didn’t know back then that it would become my life’s work and joy.

How long have you been writing, and how often do you write?

Writing comes pretty easy to me. My father was a gifted poet and I stole some of his talent. My earliest writings were spawned in grade school. My, my, what an imagination! Words were like little angels with wings carrying me to places unexplored. I’ve written complete vocal courses for the singer which have been published and thousands of articles mostly on a technical nature focusing on how the voice works.

I know that you are dealing with a personal loss and I know this is a difficult time for you. How have you coped with your loss, and have you used your writing to help heal?

It is natural in life to have trials and we all do. But it isn't natural for a mother to lose a child – at any age. I lost a huge part of myself when cancer took my son leaving my four grandchildren without their father. They were his life and he was their only parent. My grief was never-ending. And then I found HubPages.

How did you discover HubPages?

I had been writing for eHow as well as my own website. One of my writing buddies mention HubPages, I investigated and joined up. I had no idea that his major step would be the catalyst for changing my life forever. Through writing, support from Hub friends I have found a way to replace grief with peace.

You also sing, are a voice teacher and a piano teacher. How long have you been doing this, and how did you start teaching? What musical genre or genres do you teach? Do you enjoy writing about music? Do you perform? Where?

Singing professionally along with being a pianist has been a way of life for me, providing excitement, growth and good income (subsidized by teaching.) I have performed for the governor of Hawaii and at major hotels, cuise ships, fairs, churches, weddings, and funerals…you name it.

I have always loved teaching, even as a child. Instructing others is as natural as breathing. I find tremendous joy in being a part of a persons progress. Serving others in any capacity is my passion. So it is natural that I pursued a teaching degree in music on a college level. I started the first music program for Kauai Community College as well as my own School of Music on Kauai .

Do you write outside of HubPages? What else do you write? Where else can we find your writing?

I’d like to write a book of poetry for children focusing on self-esteem. In fact one of the poems I wrote for HubPages is being considered with offers of more to follow. My complete vocal course can be found on my website www.singtome.com along with more articles on singing. I’ve recently joined Wissley.com.

What else would you like to explore both on HubPages and in your own life?

Knowledge “turns me on” which is why I love HubPages so much. I feel like Columbus discovering America as I dive into the endless array of magnificent Hubs. My one regret is that I wanted to go to school for the rest of my life. To my surprise I’m doing that right here on HubPages.

Who am I, and am I lovable? Deep questions that are being answered as I write. Through writing here on HubPages I ‘m discovering more about myself every time I write. Through comments left on my Hubs, confirmation that I am loved permeates my very soul.

What, if anything have you learned about yourself in the process of writing for HubPages and what advice would you give to a person just starting out on HubPages?

To those who have recently joined HubPages, you are beginning an exciting journey of self discovery. This is the place to unleash the power of words. Be bold as you write and make your content original and always helpful. As you write, stop often and ask the question “How is this helping the reader.” Write regularly and often. Always leave a comment after reading a Hub. Encourage and support fellow writers. Remember to keep your sense of humor and most importantly – enjoy the journey!


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