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hey i am having a problem like i was with a guy /not my bf exactly but he really

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    wateryposted 7 years ago

    hey i am having a problem like i was with a guy /not my bf exactly but he really do care about...

    me,but we naver was in relationship with him for more than 8 years? after that i went to abroad for my studies,and things has changed,like he dont care me ,he never call me, and i was soo concerned abt it? coz i dont know whats really going,when i call him or texted him he used to say get the hell out of his life & those things dont call me.i donot know for some reason why i cal him coz i was in so madly in love with him,so after a month i added a one of his close freind on facebook....i was just chatting to him thru skype and msn?he is a nice guy very imotional guy and very romantic i shared

  2. zzron profile image55
    zzronposted 7 years ago

    Maybe its time to move on to someone else who cares and who wants to be with you.

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    wateryposted 7 years ago

    No i dont want to move on ...just wan be with him sad is is possible?

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    AlliRGposted 7 years ago

    Oh Just dont try to do anything about it, Hes just a person.Like any other person that dont care.. Just dont waiste your time on some stuck up loser that dont care about anything besides himself.

  5. Shahid Bukhari profile image61
    Shahid Bukhariposted 7 years ago

    First tell me where did you go in this wide world, and what were you studying there for eight years ...

  6. juiwei2000 profile image59
    juiwei2000posted 6 years ago

    Time change, people change, it is difficult to know what changed within these eight years.  People response towards their own evlaution of situation, so I guess to understand his response we must firstly know, what is going on inside his head and what trigger it.  I don't know whether he had romantic feeling for him, maybe you broke his heart without even knowing it.  You can't possibly expect him to wait for you, forever, that is not how things work.  When it come to dating I always remeber the metaphore of water and gold.  Water are essential to live, gold is not, but yet, gold are more valuable then water, why?  Because gold is rare, water isn't.  I guess, when you thought you have him, you don't know to charish it, because his love was like water to you and now you lost him, it is too late for you to regrate it.  Maybe, you never really loved him, but now knowing him he don't love you anymore, whatever effection you can get from him become rare and become like gold.  You have to ask yourself the question, do you really love him, or do you just want what you can't get.  But honestly, I think you lost your chance with him, time to move on.