fatfist A stalker and an insulting man please help.

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   Nell Roseposted 14 years ago

   I need some help as this is really upsetting me. Recently I had someone comment on my Black Holes the Universe  hub, and he insulted everything about it. this I could put up with, but because he kept on and on I deleted his comments. Now I have just gone over to his hub profile to see if he has done it to someone else, he has done it loads of times, and to my horror he has written a whole hub about me with my picture at the top, insulting and treating me like a piece of thick rubbish. I am so upset I can't even write this, and it is making me feel like I don't want to write on here any more. I can take critisism like anybody, but this man won't leave me alone. I did report it but nothing seems to have been done. Please help below is the link to the page he has written. Nell
   
   
   
   
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      wildernessposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I read a little of the hub, but got too disgusted to go beyond a few paragraphs.  What drivel!  He/she obviously has a real problem and not only with information and science.
      
      What he has done goes beyond any normal boundaries, but I am too new on HP to offer any real help except to ignore it.  If, as you indicate, he/she has done this same kind of thing (I didn't check - not much interested in reading such trash) there will soon be no one to talk to here.
      
      Rest assured that I found what he posted of your hub to be quite readable, interesting and true as far as we know.  His garbage on the other hand, was just that - garbage.  Buck up and stick with us - this, too, shall pass.

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         Nell Roseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Hi, wilderness, thank you so much for taking time to read it, and you have helped me calm down a bit now. I was just so annoyed, it was two in the morning and I got over emotional about it, I just want him stopped. on the other hub that he wrote, to an african pastor, he was racist. simple as that. but we will have to see what happens. thanks again nell

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      Maddie Ruudposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Hi Nell,
      
      I've taken down the hub and sent a warning to the user.  If he continues to harass you, please email us about it.

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         Nell Roseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Hi, Maddie thank you so much for your help. I do not mind critisism or a healthy argument, but this was just insulting and there was no need for it. I wouldn't have minded it if he had apologised for his words, then we could have had a decent discussion. But to have my picture posted above this was just so wrong. thanks you again for your help. I feel much better now.

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   ediggityposted 14 years ago

   It seems to me you two just have different views and opinions on Black holes.  He was upset you took down all of his responses, so he posted them in a hub.  I wouldn't let it get to you too much.  If it were me, I would leave his comments on my Hub page.

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      saddlerider1posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I understand what your saying here ediggity and one can remove or leave any and all comments should they so desire, however in this case to actually do a blog about Nel and place her picture above the blog is not acceptable and this blog should be removed by HP immediately.

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   rebekahELLEposted 14 years ago

   here is what each hubber agrees to:
   
   In Your use of the Website and Service You must abide by the following restrictions and prohibitions on use. As a Website user or Author, You may Not:
   
       * Publish Hubs or Hub or Author Content that include any content or links that are pornographic, defamatory, libelous, tortious, vulgar, obscene, invasive of privacy, racially or ethnically objectionable, hateful, promotes or provides instructional information about illegal activities, promotes any act of cruelty to animals, or is otherwise offensive.
   
   I think he has crossed the line, also in his profile.

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      saddlerider1posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      If that is the case, why is HP  not monitoring more closely who they are allowing to write in Hubpages? this dude or dudette:0) has obviously crossed the line in most of the categories stated as a website user?

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         Maddie Ruudposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         There are way too many users for us to look at each account individually every day and make sure everyone stays in line.  If you run into a problem, you should report it to us, as Nell's done, and we'll take care of it, as I've done.

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            saddlerider1posted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Maddie I respect your position and coming to Nel's aid and I fully understand that there are far to many users for you to police, however this site violates many of your rules, not only should that hub he posted against Nel be deleted but that site should be shut down. It;s very malicious and has to much hate within it;s hubs.

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   Daniel Carterposted 14 years ago

   Have you not reported this as an attack? It seems pretty clear to me that it is. Please send the link of his hub to HP staff. I'm sure they'll take care of it.
   
   You don't deserve this Nell. Lots of us stand with you.
   

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      saddlerider1posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I have a lot of respect for Nel and she does not deserve this treatment. I hope that HP they cut the hub, Yippy Yi Oh Kyee....I just read that its been deleted and the Hub that was posted abusing her is now deleted. Thank you HP for acting quickly. Bravo

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         Nell Roseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Hi, saddlerider thank you so much for your support. I don't usually get mad at this sort of thing, I am a grown woman and have had loads of the proverbial thrown at me in the past for one thing or another, but this really upset me. I think it was the picture that did it. if he could have just had a normal conversation, then that would have been fine. and also if I was face to face with this person then you can let of steam and rant and rage until it is sorted. It is so frustrating knowing he is hiding behind a computer. But thanks again for your help much appreciated.

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      Nell Roseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Hi, Daniel thanks for your support, I think it is sorted now. I was just so mad, especially with the picture. I know I may be paranoid but I thought that also he might start clicking on my ads and get me into trouble, and maybe click down my hubs etc. If I notice that my  score starts going down, or I have ad problems, I know where it is coming from. thanks again

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   eltravoseposted 14 years ago

   I would just ignore it.

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   Uninvited Writerposted 14 years ago

   He is still attacking a hubber in his profile who hasn't been on the site for what must be at least 6 months by now.

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      Nell Roseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Hi, he is obviously delusional and has mental problems. I think he should be shut down, but the trouble with that is he will go straight over and join up again under a different name. this way by keeping him on, we can keep an eye on him. thanks

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         Uninvited Writerposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         They can ban the IP

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            Nell Roseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Thanks Uninvited Writer, I think I am getting a bit paranoid now!

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      Sufidreamerposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      It is also continuing to attack that particular Hubber offsite, too, using vile, personal language. A cowardly little keyboard warrior, methinks.
      
      Sorry that you were subjected to this, Nell

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         Nell Roseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Hi, Sufi, on my God! so is this what I have got to look forward too then? is he e-mailing the other hubber or what else is there? thanks

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   ralwusposted 14 years ago

   I love HP. Another problem fixed. Sorry you had to go through this Little Nell.

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      Nell Roseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Hi, ralwus, thanks for the support I was so mad I was jumping! lol I have calmed down a bit now. Anyway how are you doing? there are more important things than some stupid man on here.

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   waynetposted 14 years ago

   Never mind Nell, take comfort in the thought that these kinds of people are cowards and never amount to much in the real world!
   
   We still loves ya!

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      Nell Roseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Thanks waynet, I agree with you that they are cowards, I think I should challenge him to a duel!! lol

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   Rafiniposted 14 years ago

   Nell - I'm sorry you had to go through this and I'm glad it was taken care of so quickly for you.

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      Nell Roseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Hi, rafini,thanks so much, and yes I hope it is sorted now, thanks to the crew they were very quick. What I can't understand is why someone would join hubpages who obviously likes writing, just to do this? there are certainly some odd people out there!

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    tantrumposted 14 years ago

    Sorry about waht happened to you. But I can't see where the stalking is. He left only 3 or 4 comments about why he disagrees with you. A bit harsh, I admit. But you should see what comments I get sometimes. Mediocre hubbers leaving F words and cursing. I just laugh about it.And leave them published. No big deal ,I think. BTW I just followed  Fatfist, because I like the way he writes. And no, I don't have the least idea who he is. I didn't know he existed if it wasn't for this thread.

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       Nell Roseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Hi, tantrum, it wasn't the fact that he wrote a few comments, that I could put up with, it was the fact that the wrote a whole hub about me, with a great big picture on the top of the page, and then wrote every word that I had written in my hub, and insulted me and the work. it was the insults and the language that annoyed me. everyone who saw it was disgusted. I don't know if you read it? and have you read the other one to the african pastor? thinly veiled racist remarks about his brain and being like an ape! anyway, they have taken down the hub about me know. I didn't want that floating around the internet. thanks, and why do people swear at you? lol

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