Behaviors in Spiteful People

My life changed in many ways and have met several people from many cultures. I had an upsetting experience and wished I did not go there.

There are many types of people and most of these people have petty behaviors. It is sometimes difficult to fathom what such individuals are capable of when in the company of others.

The experience is tougher when you are with an unfriendly group.

The people who you don't have much to discuss with and you got to be there but under tough circumstances.

I have learned lot about the local people and maybe they have learned of me too. At times I think I know them, and then there are those times when I don't know these people.

Some people are nice and true to you and others are false and pretend to be a friend, or a good neighbor. This is how I see these people and have learned of such people. Petty people are spiteful, manipulative and aggressive.

They are MEAN and have bad behaviours.

These people try to paint on their masks when with certain people as I have experienced.

She is that type of person. I tried hard to think of where I could place this person or what should I make of my experience and finally, everything came to me nicely.

Her attitude surprised me.

I can see she is insecure and justifies her behaviours with some lame excuse. The inappropriate behaviour is a bother when you don't understand it.

I am glad I understand this type of behaviour. Jealous, angry, spiteful and unhappy with herself is what I gathered from the way she behaved towards me.

Nobody can control the feelings of others, but this type of behaviour can be a lot to cope with from some one as that.

She is toxic!

I encountered this behavior and now want you to know more about such behaviors. There were eight of us and at supper and there should have been fourteen.

Others didn't arrive for the planned supper. I knew the reason for them not attending and got stuck in this mess with that spiteful person. Everyone was silent, no one spoke much to each other. The soft conversations among the six people left me on my own.

I didn't feel weak, I felt strong and positive but wished I hadn't gone there. After eating, the little conversations continued and for a moment I sensed something wasn't right.

She signalled to another woman to look at me, and I turned around and looked at this woman for doing that. They knew I had picked up their vibes.

Culture makes us different and is how I am different in this foreign place. The spiteful woman is just jealous and does this with everyone.

When the guest leaves after a visit, she begins a gossip about that person to those still there. A behavior that I find immature and selfish.

Petty people have not much else to do but to be this way. I did not think it was necessary for her to behave that way. It is an upsetting experience and another lesson learned. The people we encounter are of all sorts and have no choice but to come face-to-face with such people.

I controlled my actions and know that I won't visit there anymore. A person with such traits is not easy to be friends with and I have no intention of having her in my life as a friend or foe.

Just not worth my time and energy.

I chose to be respectful and continue with my strongest values, and won't allow anyone to take advantage of me.

She hurt my feelings and I was frustrated. I could have said a lot, but I walked away from her poor behaviour and did not want to stoop down to her level.

I am the better person, and I left feeling frustrated, but, in my heart, I know she will never be the person I am. We are from two different parts of the world and that is what makes us what we truly are, different.

Her mean behaviour won't change, and I can't help the way she is but, I can be a better person. I learned from this experience and walked away with pride.

Why did she signal to that other woman about me?

What made her feel that way about me?

Interesting, isn't it?

I think positive and prefer to be with positive people. Occasionally, I meet up with petty people who don't go with me. Each time I get together with petty people I feel frustrated, and the sense of unhappiness comes over me.

I moaned about that but got over it faster through my positive thoughts. Some people go out of their way to make other people's lives a misery.

This person is one of those people who somewhat felt the need to spoil my moment.

I feel better when I don't see her or talk to her it is just how it is.

This personal experience allowed me to feel better after writing about it. I find that such individuals are insecure in many parts of their lives.

For example:

This woman is insecure about her personal life. She tries to be something she is not and won't see what she is doing to herself. Her life is unhappy and doesn't like it when others have better than she has.

A spiteful person who seeks issues to make a comment on and that is how she behaves in the presence of those she dislikes.

Her behaviour is rude, spiteful aggressive and toxic.

My behaviour hurts her, so she tries to get out of her petty behaviour to contribute to my good behaviour.

She talks about people when not in their presence and speaks in a friendly manner when with those people.

I understand where she comes from but don't need her in my life, and I will distance myself from that woman and be confident to be that way.

In this way, she shifts the blame and changes her focus to make it look as if the other person is the bad one or is the problem. It is the other way around, she is the problem.

That shows jealousy, misery, problems, anger, envy, nastiness, meanness, bitterness, just filled with spite and enjoys hurting the feelings of others. To annoy, with the intention of that to be malicious to others.

The bigger person seeks a fix in this type of behaviour, and she seeks problems to solve her problems. She is angry, not getting what she wants and of what I can easily have and achieve.

Her mean behaviour is hurtful and spiteful to a few others as well. I walked away peacefully. Everything does for me she becomes envious, and she shows that in her spiteful behaviour toward me.

I finally saw spite in its purest forms of this person. She started behaving more in this way after not being able to compare herself with me anymore.

Whatever she can't do, I can, and this affects her badly.

Spiteful people react to such behaviour when they fail to get what others have.

She wants to hurt others to feel good about her actions. Her low self-esteem allows for petty behaviours. When I looked back at her directly, she knew that I figured out what was going on with her actions.

I made her feel powerless. Hopefully, she will see that I don't play her spiteful games. You see, I deserve better and chose to not see this person anymore.