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Behaviors in Spiteful People
How would you treat a spiteful person?
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Spiteful people are less confident
My life changed in many ways, and have met several people from all cultures.
I had an upsetting experience and wished I did not go there.
There are many types of people and most of these people have petty behaviors.
It is sometimes difficult to fathom what such individuals are capable of when in the company of others.
The experience is tougher when you are with an unfriendly group. The people who you don't have much to discuss with and you got to be there but under tough circumstances.
I have learned lots about the local people and maybe they have learned of me too. At times I think I know them and then there are those times when I don't know these people.
Some people are nice and true to you and others are false and pretend to be a friend, or a good neighbor.
This is how I see these people and have learned of such people.
Petty people are spiteful, manipulative and aggressive.
They are MEAN and have bad behaviors.
These people try to paint on their masks when with certain people as I have experienced.
She is that person.
I tried hard thinking of where can I place this person or what should I make of my experience and finally, everything came to me nicely.
The attitude surprised me.
I can see she is insecure, and justifies her behaviors with some lame excuse. The inappropriate behavior is a bother when you don't understand it. I am glad I understand this type of behavior.
Jealous, anger, spiteful and unhappy with herself is what I gathered from the way she behaved towards me.
Nobody can control the feelings of others but this is too much.
She is toxic!
I encountered this behavior and now want you to know more about such behaviors.
There were eight of us and at supper and there should have been fourteen. Others didn't arrive for the planned supper. I knew the reason for them not attending and got stuck in this mess with that spiteful person. Everything was silent no one spoke much to each other. The soft conversations among the six people left me on my own.
I didn't feel weak, I felt strong and positive but wished I hadn't gone there.
After eating, the little conversations continued and for a moment I sensed something wasn't right. She signaled to other woman to look at me, and I turned around and looked at this woman for doing that. I didn't smile just looked at her and she looked away.
They knew I had picked up their vibes.
Culture makes us different and that is how I am different in this foreign place.
The spiteful woman is just jealous and does this with everyone. Once the person leaves their after a visit, she turns around and starts to talk about that person to others who are still sitting at the table.
A behavior that I find immature and selfish.
Petty people have not much else to do but to be this way.
I did not think it was necessary for her to behave that way.
It is an upsetting experience and another lesson learned.
The people we encounter are of all sorts and we have no choice but to come face-to-face with such people. I controlled my actions and know that I won't be going there anymore. A person with such traits is not easy to be friends with and I have no intention of having her in my life as a friend or foe.
Just not worth my time and energy.
I chose to be respectful and continue with my strong values. I won't allow anyone taking advantage over me. She hurt my feelings and I was frustrated. I could have said a lot but I walked away from her poor behavior, and did not want to stoop down to her level.
I am the bigger and better person.
I left feeling frustrated but in my heart I know she will never be the person I am.
We are from two different parts of the world and that is what makes us what we truly are, different.
Her mean behavior won't change and I can't help the way she is but, I can be that better person.
I learned from this experience and walked away with pride.
Why did she signal to that other woman about me?
What made her feel that way about me?
Interesting isn't it?
My life is better because I think positive and prefer to be with positive people. Occasionally, I meet up with petty people and that don't go with me.
Each time I get together with petty people i feel frustrated and the sense of unhappiness comes over me.
I moaned about about that but got over it faster through my positive thoughts. Some people go out of their way to make other people's lives a misery. This person is one of those people who somewhat felt the need to spoil my moment.
In my case, I don't need this person in my life, just an acquaintance.
I feel better when I don't see her or talk to her it is just how it is.
This personal experience allowed me to feel better after writing about it.
I find that such individuals are insecure in many parts of their lives.
This woman is insecure about her personal life.
She tries to be something she is not, and can't see what she is doing to herself.
Her life is unhappy and doesn't like it when others have better than she has.
A spiteful person who seeks issues to make a comment on and that is how she behaves in the presence of those she dislikes.
Her behavior is rude, spiteful aggressive and toxic.
My behavior hurts her so she tries to get out her petty behavior to contribute to my good behavior.
She talks about people when not in their presence and speaks in a friendly manner when with those people. I understand where she comes from and don't I don't need in my life.
I will distance myself from that woman and confident to be that way.
I realize she is displeased with herself. In this way she shifts blame and changes her focus to make it look as if the other person is the bad one, or the problem. In fact, it is the other way around she is the problem.
That shows jealousy, misery, problems, anger, envious, nasty, mean, bitter, just filled with spite and enjoys hurting the feelings of others. Vex, and annoy,with the intention of that to be malicious to others.
The bigger person seeks a fix in this type of behavior and she seeks problems to solve her problems.
She is angry not getting what she wants and of what I can easily have and achieve.
Her mean behavior is hurtful and spiteful to a few others as well. I walked away peacefully.
Everything I do bothers her and she shows that in her spiteful behavior toward me.
I finally saw spite in its purest forms from this person.
She started behaving more in this way after not being able to compare herself with me anymore.
Whatever she can't do I can and this affects her badly.
Spiteful people react with such behavior when they fail to get what others have.
She wants to hurt others to feel good from her actions.
Her low self-esteem allows for the petty behaviors.
I don't play her spiteful games. When i looked back at her directly she knew that I figured out what was going on win her actions. I made her feel powerless. Hopefully she will see that I don't play her spiteful games.
You see, I deserve better and chose to not see this person anymore.
Why are people spiteful?
Words to enlighten your self-being
There's a natural law of karma that vindictive people, who go out of their way to hurt others, will end up broke and alone.