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Good Personality For You
We can't deny that we are as a social being in anytime and anyplace we connected with other people. This is our destiny as a human. Do we need quality of life? Of course we do. But How to find them? the secret is inside us. We know the quality of ourself trough our personality. The problem is do we have good personality. I believe we have good side inside us. We need to learn and know what is the best personality for us. Like: sincerity, humility, loyalty, positive thinking, cheerfulness, responsibility, self confident, greatness of the soul, easy going and empathy.
Those are looks complicated, Maybe some of us felt doesn't have one of them. With the type and character of person who likes to live alone or who are shy (close their self). But don't worry it can be treated. And I believe with pureness of heart and strong desire, we can learn and change ourself into better person. ..amen.
I dedicated this hub for us. With the big hope we can learn much and know our personality side. Finally we can increase our personality better than before. I will explain the good personality one by one.
Sincerity have the best place for everyone. And it become top rank of good personality. Sincerity makes others feel safe and appreciated. We don't need to lie and I think others will do the same with us. Because we sure not be fooled or deceived by other people. People who have sincerity always tell the truth, do not like making it up, pretend, make excuses or distort facts. That's why the person who have this personality always has many friends and they always accepted in everywhere.
It doesn't mean we always lose, or become a looser. This totally different with low self-esteem which is a weakness. But humility expresses the strength. Only the person with strong souls who can be humble. The humble can recognize and appreciate the excellence of others. He could
make people feel better. Do not feel bored to praise others. That's the key to keep it up. It look difficult but nice to try.
We life in the modern era. Everyone want something instantly. And most of them felt it easily to achieve that. Because of that Loyalty has become a rare commodity and has valuable price. People who always loyal is reliable to be trusted. He always kept his word, had a strong commitment, willing to sacrifice. It needed in our life. Like in dating, family, relationship and society. Once we try the future seems easy.
Maybe we often hear this word. And I believe this magic word good for motivation and make our life have new spirit. People with positive attitude (positive thinking) always try to see things from a positive lens, even in a bad situation. They never complain and felt something bad is kind of "gift". They prefers to talk about the good than the bad things to other people. They would rather talk about hope than despair and always find the solution than judge others. That's why I always
I had wrote about this that we live once. Why we life in sadness, if we can brought this life into happiness. We must enjoy this life, in any circumstances. Now we talk about cheerfulness, it not always shown with smile or laugh. but It can be expressed from the attitude. People who always cheerful are the people who can enjoy their life, they do not like to complain and always achieve the happy life. They have a potential to entertain and encourage the spirit of another personDo you want to be part of them?
We life in this world fulled of responsibilities, Like for to families, children, partners, wealth, occupation, and even major responsibilities is to keep the peace. and at the same time we have big responsible to all the gods gave to us. The person who have responsible in their personality shall carry out their obligations seriously. If they made a mistake, they brave to admit. Even if the felt disappointed and hurt, they would not blame anyone. Whatever happens, they will responsible with anything it entrusted to them. and once again this is about trust.
We have self confident if we appreciate ourself. By self confident allows the person to receive himself, appreciate him and respect for others. People who believe themselves easily adapt to new environments and situations. They knows what to do and they can do it well.They can easily find new friend and always accepted in the new place.
Greatness of the soul
Have you ever forgive other people who wronged you? you have good personality if you can do that. Greatness of the soul can be seen from a person's ability to forgive others. This person does not let himself be ruled by hatred and hostility. When facing difficult times, it not letting himself get lost in sadness and despair.
I like this part. Because we can really enjoy the fullest of our life without any burden. With a little note, we don't forget with our responsibility. The people who has this personality consider that life is lightly. The problem also exist but they don't want it influence their life. Even tried to play down the big problems. They don't like to bring up the past. They don't want a headache and stress with the problems that out of their control. I hope we can be wise in facing all the problem and learn from the problem to get the solution.
This is wonderful part of good personality. People who empathize not only as a good listener but also they can put themselves with the right position for someone else's. When there is conflict happen they always looking for the best solution for both parties, does not like to force their opinions. They always tried to comprehend and understand others.
I think we can learn together from this hub. We can develop and increasing good personality. We can explore the potential inside us, with the big hope good personality appear to the surface. I believe we all have it and God create us with good personality. Let's use it for kindness.... amen