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Tips To Overcome Failure

Updated on December 14, 2009

There are many reason why people failure. Such as, fired from the company, abandoned by a loved one, breakup, businesses destroyed. Many people suffer when they fired from their work. Because financial crisis. Many company was collapse and bankrupt. Similar conditions experienced by a someone who facing divorce or separation in a relationship. Love affair which suddenly ended, and many people felt that their life doesn't mean anymore. How to overcome failure, here some tips to solve that problem.


Thoughtful doesn't mean daydreaming. Reviewing back cause of failure. Whether internal factors such as the errors or disability from themselves. External factors such as the company's financial condition. The new beginning doesn't start with a rash orĀ  risk disappointment for the second time. We can learn from the past.

Accept failure as a fact

When receiving a failure try to asking yourself. How it could happen? what should be done. Before continuing the life or choose another way. Better try to accept failure as a fact of life.

Share attention

Try to share attention to another things. Such as share somethings that it looks simple. But the fact said that it is an important thing in life. If we feel failure in working, stay focus to family or someone who loved. Or the people around us who care with us. life has many aspects that we can enjoy and grateful.

Start a new life

Don't ever think that failure is a final of everything. Failure as the beginning of a new life. With a failure, the opportunity to start a new life will open wide. Fortunately for people who felt a failure, because they get a moment to grab the opportunity and gain new experiences. Never considered failure as a disaster, but a gift. Blessing in disguise.....

Fill the emptiness

Half of people able to deal with such of love breakup without much difficulty, even got a new partner soon. How this can be done. Because they are able to fill the emptiness. They had no time to felt the sadness. They immediately wake up from the broken heart. It mean after breakup, we don't need rush to find a new partner. But fill the emptiness with friends, family or doing useful activities.

Considered reasonable

There are people who don't find difficulty to accept failure. They assume that accidents could happen to anyone. We can't deny the accident.

Recall (Memorize Back)

Hard to forget sadness is death of a beloved. To accept the fact, we are who left have to wise that we all going to die. We may remember the past, but Life must go on!

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The key to solve this problem

We can try this tips to overcome the failure.

  • When someone getting stress, they difficult to rise. So, environment around us have an important influence. Try to involve friends, relatives to reduce suffering caused by the failure.
  • Pull the straight line to separate between the past and present. Much better to face the reality, than life in sadness.
  • Show an objective attitude and thinking clearly. There are many people out there who face severe problems.
  • If someone else can bounce back after a failure. why did you give up?
  • Let the time solve the problem. All the sadness and trauma will disappear with the time.
  • it doesn't wrong when we consult to a professional. like a psychologist.

Failure can make life more meaningful. Our life not always on the "TOP". life is full of uncertainties and various of trial and error. Sadness will push someone more powerful and give a lot of energy. There is a small quotes "failure is a delayed of success". So, don't be afraid to failure and don't be afraid to sadness. Rainbow will appear after rain. We all know that rainbow is beautiful.


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      prasetio30 6 years ago from malang-indonesia

      your welcome, fluffy77. I am glad you want to give your opinion about this topic. I hope this hub useful for you. Cheers..... ~prasetio

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      Fluffy77 6 years ago from Enterprise, OR

      A very refreshing HUB for sure. I have learned some things here, I think this is something we can all benefit from reading. Thanks so very much.

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      prasetio30 7 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks, Dinesh. I hope you enjoy with this information. Take care!

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      Dinesh 7 years ago

      i m glad to read it.thanks alot

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      prasetio30 7 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks IdeaMorphist for coming and give nice comment. I am glad you liked this hub.

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      IdeaMorphist 7 years ago from Chicagoland

      How uplifting. Thank you for sharing!

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      prasetio30 7 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Jenna for stopping by. I am glad this hub is useful for you. God bless you!

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      Jenna Pope 7 years ago from Southern California

      Great article. Well written, and it spoke to me personally.

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      prasetio30 7 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks ethel smith. you add a great comment. I hope this hub inspiring us.

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      Eileen Kersey 7 years ago from Kingston-Upon-Hull

      We all need to remember that no-one succeeds at everything, all the time

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Your welcome, Hello. I believe you can do this.

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      Hello, hello, 8 years ago from London, UK

      Thank you for your great thoughts and advice. I could do with this.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Leop. I hope we can learn a little thing after reading this hub when we are facing failure.

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      Leop 8 years ago

      First, want to say thanks for writing about this. This is very important and I totall y agree with you on this matter especially on how to deal with it. Great information.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Veronica, Pete and breakfastpop for interesting to this hub. Failure can happen at any time. We can't deny it. But we still have many chance out there. With exploring the potential inside us.

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      breakfastpop 8 years ago

      Good solid advice.

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      Pete Maida 8 years ago

      Good tips are a very important subject. We have all had our share of failure and dealing with it is a major key to any future success. As you said, when one door closes another opens. People must move on to stay healthy.

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      Veronica Allen 8 years ago from Georgia

      Good tips preasetio30. With the way things are going now-a-days, it's good to have tips like these to bring positivity back in our lives.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks ConradM for coming to this hub. Sometimes if we don't solve the problem. It will getting worse and accumulated become a big problem. I hope this small tips useful for us.

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      ConradM 8 years ago from San Francisco, CA

      Great tips here, regardless of what you're intended outcome is