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Tips To Overcome Failure
There are many reason why people failure. Such as, fired from the company, abandoned by a loved one, breakup, businesses destroyed. Many people suffer when they fired from their work. Because financial crisis. Many company was collapse and bankrupt. Similar conditions experienced by a someone who facing divorce or separation in a relationship. Love affair which suddenly ended, and many people felt that their life doesn't mean anymore. How to overcome failure, here some tips to solve that problem.
Thoughtful doesn't mean daydreaming. Reviewing back cause of failure. Whether internal factors such as the errors or disability from themselves. External factors such as the company's financial condition. The new beginning doesn't start with a rash or risk disappointment for the second time. We can learn from the past.
Accept failure as a fact
When receiving a failure try to asking yourself. How it could happen? what should be done. Before continuing the life or choose another way. Better try to accept failure as a fact of life.
Try to share attention to another things. Such as share somethings that it looks simple. But the fact said that it is an important thing in life. If we feel failure in working, stay focus to family or someone who loved. Or the people around us who care with us. life has many aspects that we can enjoy and grateful.
Start a new life
Don't ever think that failure is a final of everything. Failure as the beginning of a new life. With a failure, the opportunity to start a new life will open wide. Fortunately for people who felt a failure, because they get a moment to grab the opportunity and gain new experiences. Never considered failure as a disaster, but a gift. Blessing in disguise.....
Fill the emptiness
Half of people able to deal with such of love breakup without much difficulty, even got a new partner soon. How this can be done. Because they are able to fill the emptiness. They had no time to felt the sadness. They immediately wake up from the broken heart. It mean after breakup, we don't need rush to find a new partner. But fill the emptiness with friends, family or doing useful activities.
There are people who don't find difficulty to accept failure. They assume that accidents could happen to anyone. We can't deny the accident.
Recall (Memorize Back)
Hard to forget sadness is death of a beloved. To accept the fact, we are who left have to wise that we all going to die. We may remember the past, but Life must go on!
The key to solve this problem
We can try this tips to overcome the failure.
- When someone getting stress, they difficult to rise. So, environment around us have an important influence. Try to involve friends, relatives to reduce suffering caused by the failure.
- Pull the straight line to separate between the past and present. Much better to face the reality, than life in sadness.
- Show an objective attitude and thinking clearly. There are many people out there who face severe problems.
- If someone else can bounce back after a failure. why did you give up?
- Let the time solve the problem. All the sadness and trauma will disappear with the time.
- it doesn't wrong when we consult to a professional. like a psychologist.
Failure can make life more meaningful. Our life not always on the "TOP". life is full of uncertainties and various of trial and error. Sadness will push someone more powerful and give a lot of energy. There is a small quotes "failure is a delayed of success". So, don't be afraid to failure and don't be afraid to sadness. Rainbow will appear after rain. We all know that rainbow is beautiful.