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A word called 'Home'
If you are happy alone then you are auspicious and on the other side you are happy together with your partner then you are luckier than the lucky one who is happy being alone, but if you are happy with your family then you are the luckiest one.
We all want to live in heaven after death with the blessings and grace of God. How contrast that we want to live after death without living fully in the present life, gifted to us by the almighty. We are giving less importance to our life and fears more of death. We neglect our present. We are all implanted by the concept of heaven and hell after death since childhood.
We never noticed that God presents a gift to each and every human being known as heaven in the name of home. Heavenly home is the place where we find selfless love, endless affection, and true care. But every time people are not fortunate enough to have this heaven so it is our duty to acknowledge the importance of our sweet home and Godlike parents.
Home is the place from where we want to run away in search of worldly adventures at a very young age. We want to be independent, free and tame-less. In the early phase, teens think that the security, extra-care and the discipline of their parents are like prison for them which are an obstacle in their right of freedom. They seek many ways to run away from their parents and home. They run after their dreams to compete in this materialistic and unstoppable race. How heartbreaking that we survive due to them and we try hard to run away from them.
We should not fail to remember that home is paradise where we find peace, love, sense of security and delight. In mother’s lap we can get eternal sleep. In father’s arm we can get unscratched protection. In the fight with siblings, we can find a fantastic bond of true candid laughs. Once we are self dependent, we have our own voyage of life to start. It’s a heartless rule of nature to build a new home for next generations. And then we are the parents, in this phase, yesterday’s history becomes today’s present. Every mature person knows this bitter truth that there is no turning back, no way back to home after farewell and goodbye. Some are lucky but not all of them. Afterwards we will just look for the way reverse to home which can bring us to our ultimate dreamland on earth where our guardian angels would love us unconditionally but they are not there anymore. Don’t underestimate the presence of your loved ones’. Treasure, every single moment with them.
Today’s generation should learn to live in present so that they can live their lives as much as with those who will not be there when they want them the most. They should enjoy each and every moment that passes in home.
we desire heaven because we think it gives us eternal peace. We forget peace that we can find it at home only with those who loves us unconditionally. That is heaven so don’t waste life in seeking heaven outwardly. Where you find pure love that place is paradise and these people are God on earth and that is your true heaven.