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My Fairy Cottage

Updated on December 15, 2011
Everyone has their safe place.
Everyone has their safe place. | Source


I am building a fairy cottage. It’s probably not what you think. A miniature version maybe? Naw. An outdoor, tent-like structure? Nope. A fun place for my young daughter? No way! I’m going to let you in on my secret. I am building a cottage utterly and completely for myself. I am filling it with crystals, jewels and all manner of sparkly things.

It might seem odd, but this space is my closet; my small, 3X4 closet.

I’ll start from the beginning. I am an avid collector of fashion jewelry. I am a ravenous, you-can-not-stop-me collector. It doesn’t have to be expensive, just shiny. It might surprise you that I am allergic to all metals. I accept and embrace my allergy and have found a way to enjoy jewelry without wearing it. I love to display my collection in my room. Now I’m putting it to use in my cottage.

My loved ones joke that I’m really a raccoon. I boldly laugh at that, as I covertly adjust my human costume. Raccoons are adorable creatures of the night. They are protective of their identity, hence the mask. They have excellent taste in baubles; enjoy dumpster diving and have manual dexterity that wows even the most skilled surgeon.

I know what you are thinking. At least one of those qualities does not apply to me at all. My manual dexterity sucks.

I am facing my 40th birthday and continue to construct my cottage. I am filling this space with 3M hooks and glimmering treasures. Right now it feels as if the entire world is caught up in a tornado and it keeps spinning and spinning around me. There are so many aspects of my life that are out of my control, the only way I can handle this life storm is to create a shelter; this shelter that is built with my own hands and in my own time.

I don’t work on it every day. Some days I tear down what I did the day before. I started this project thinking that when the weather cools I might spend some time in the space to read or to write in my journal. As my work progresses, I have begun to realize it is not so much about the cottage as it is about my ability to create an extraordinarily beautiful, safe place for myself, a place that is mine alone.

I know a psychologist could have fun with this. He or she would agree that I am looking for that shelter in a storm. They may believe it is neither the healthiest nor the most productive way for me to find peace. But this is what I know: I know that it works for me. With every crystal I hand, every string of lights I drape, and each glittering pendant I place, I am getting closer to finding myself. I am getting closer to realizing that I am okay, I am safe and that I can handle whatever life tosses at me – one bauble and 3M hook at a time.


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      delaneyworld 6 years ago from Peoria, Arizona

      Thank you so much for reading! It is easy to create a place that feels special. I think we all should have something that is our haven. :)

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      delaneyworld 6 years ago from Peoria, Arizona

      Thank you so much. I love having just a tiny, magical place. Thank you for reading!

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      Rebecca Mealey 6 years ago from Northeastern Georgia, USA

      Best of luck! This sounds awesome!

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      moonlake 6 years ago from America

      I know just what your mean about the glitter of your jewelry and a place all your own. Nothing wrong with your little small room and a place where you feel safe.

      Enjoyed reading your hub. Voted up.

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      delaneyworld 6 years ago from Peoria, Arizona

      Thank you Annie and New 2011 Mom. I appreciate it so much. New 2011 Mom - I get quite a bit of my stuff from Goodwill and at 90 percent off sales! Even on Ebay, I find some items that are under $2.00 with free shipping. It's amazing what you can find. My budget is quite limited too - you never know what you might stumble upon! Warm wishes to you both!

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      New 2011 Mom 6 years ago from Pennsylvania, USA

      Honestly if you find something that helps you then why not do it? I see no problem with doing things like that, and I can only imagine how beautiful your place looks with all the jewelry you must have. I wish I could do something like that, but I have no money to go and do something like that.

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      annie 6 years ago

      I love this image. I have a men's white dress shirt that still hangs in my closet. I used to attach all my pins, necklaces and other costume jewelry when we lived in.our apt and had limited space. All the stuff is still there. I have some stuff I'd love to send u for your 40th. For your room. Cause I loved your description. Just adore your writing so much! Message me your address and I will add a bauble to the cottage :)

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