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Start a Family Blessings Jar

Updated on December 19, 2017
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Karen Hellier is a freelance writer and eBay entrepreneur. She happily lives in the mountains of North Georgia with her husband and her dog.

Description of Blessings Jar

One of the best ways to teach our children to be grateful is to start a Family Blessings Jar. Family members can periodically place small pieces of paper with something they are thankful for...a "blessing" written on it. Then, every so often, maybe once per month or every other month, if you have a small family, everyone should gather round, and the blessings can be read. Small children love to have the opportunity to read the blessings out loud. And they sound much sweeter when read by sweet, small voices. Of course, the whole family can take turns reading. This event can be done around the dinner table after the meal is over, or by a fireplace in the family room. It's nice to do it where the family usually gathers so everyone has a seat. Bring a box of tissues, though; the comments can be sweet from the kids and bring a parent to tears.

What Container to Use

There are actually blessings jars out in the world for sale...usually at those gift shops that sell jars that say, "Rainy Day Fund" or "New Boat Fund," etc. I have seen one for Blessings and have purchased it for my family. You can purchase a pretty jar at a thrift store, or on eBay ( see below for ideas) Or you can just make your own. It can be a jar that the kids help decorate or an unpainted wooden box that you can get at a craft store, and the kids can paint and decorate themselves.The important thing is that it be personalized, and each member of your family agrees to participate. It should be placed in an area where the family will see it often, such as the kitchen, dining room, family room, etc. A place where everyone will see if often so they will be reminded of their blessings and hopefully take the time to write one ( or more) down, and add it to the jar. It helps to leave a pad and pen near the jar to make it easier for people to just jot something down and then drop it in the jar. It also helps if someone mentions out loud that they have a blessing and it will get the other family members thinking and writing as well.

What Should We Write?

The description of the blessing can be long or short. It's totally up to the person writing it. Young children may not be able to write well so can have help from an adult. Here's an example of some of the blessings family members have written:

Mom: That my children are getting along better.

Daughter, age 8: That I got an awesome new hamster named, "Honey Roasted Peanut' and I love her.

Mom: When I was running errands today I saw two deer run across the street and I was so grateful that God shared them with me.

Daughter, age 9: That I have such an awesome mom! I love her so much, and she always makes me happy.

Mom: My husband and three children are my biggest blessings.

Mom: That we all had an awesome trip to the butterfly farm today and the butterflies loved Dad almost as much as I do!

Dad: It's a new year, and I am so thankful for God, my family, friends, and good health!

Daughter, age 8: That our lost dog came home.

Mom: That my daughter took me to see Mama Mia for my birthday today and it will always be a special memory.

Dad: That my birthday is over, but I will always remember the generosity of my wife, whom I love so much!

Not only is the writing of the blessing itself a wonderful reminder to be grateful, but then it has the same effect again when it is read aloud as a family. It's nice to keep all the blessings in a larger box, or maybe use a scrapbook album so that the family can look at them in years to come and it will bring back a lot of special memories.

Copyright by Karen Hellier, 2012

© 2012 Karen Hellier


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      Karen Hellier 5 years ago from Georgia


      I hope you and your daughter use this idea. It can be a real blessing to your family. And reading the blessings out loud together is so much fun. It brought tears to my eyes when my children read them. Please pop back in and let me know how it goes if you do use this idea. Thanks for your comment.

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      TeachableMoments 5 years ago from California

      Beautiful idea. Lately I find myself discussing with my daughter the importance of being grateful for what we have. Your Blessings Jar is a great way to help everyone in the family be an active participant. I think my daughter would really enjoy this idea. Thank you.

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      Karen Hellier 5 years ago from Georgia


      Yes I agree. And it's really fun to look back a few years later to see what kinds of things they were thankful for when they were younger. It's fun and brings out a lot of laughter.

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      JP Carlos 5 years ago from Quezon CIty, Phlippines

      What a unique idea. This is really great especially for children. it's really important for them to be appreciativ of their blessings.

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      Danette Watt 6 years ago from Illinois

      A wonderful idea to reinforce being grateful for all the small and large things in our lives. I wrote a hub on the connection of gratitude and happiness. I think that it's something very important to teach our children.