What would you do if your child was humiliated by one of her male teachers after falling (The Teacher yelled at her while she was on the floor telling her that if she was going to roll on the floor she needed to take herself out in the hall and roll all she wanted to never asking your daughter if she was okay or why she was on the
Then you take your daughter to the hospital and find out her arm is hurt severely when you start asking the school questions the teacher openly admits making the comment and apologizes then you as a parent ask the school administration what they plan to do to secure your daughters safety and you get issued a criminal trespass warning (within the C.T.W paperwork it states that you can not contact anyone in the district via phone, email, snail mail etc... and if we do it will be considered harassment and the school district police will arrest you) stopping both you and your spouse from having any involvement to your child's safety and well-being while in the care of the school.
Now almost two months have gone by and your daughter comes homes telling you that the teachers are yelling at her, making her stand in the back of the classroom because the teachers thinks your child is talking out of turn for asking questions in regards to the assignment, the teacher is allowing other kids to write on the back of your child's shirt, and then today you find out your child was told by this same teacher to shut up and finally be the example of what kids are to be like (When your child was responding to a child that had pulled her hair and then marked all over the back of her shirt).
Then you go to attorneys for possible representation and the minimum you can find one for is at a $8,000.00 to represent you and your child.
This is what is happening to my child and my family and I really need some advice and some insight. Would you please leave your comments below in the intent of giving me some insight and guidance:
First, no teacher should act in this fashion nor allow other children to bully your daughter!!! It's as simple as that!!!
Have you gone to the school board or any PTA meetings and reported this? Keep the shirts that are written on. Do you have the ability to get a pen recorder? It's a recorder that looks like a pen and can record up to 30 minutes. You can get them at Radio Shack or on line.
Talk with the principal, talk with the teacher, record their answers especially of the teacher who is bullying your daughter. Some states allow this without advising you are recording so check the law. Most times you only have to say "I am recording this conversation". This recording can be shown to your attorney no matter what the law says. Get the school board involved.
Oh, this has just ticked me off to no end. I would then get an attorney who will take this on contingency and sue the crap out of the teacher, principal and school for allowing such horrible acts. Our children are supposed to be safe when they go to school, not terrorized by teachers who are grown adults.
When your child is on the playground, is there anyway you can 'secretly' tape her to show the proximity of a teacher to your child when she is being bullied? Get as much evidence you can!!!
See my hub on Bullying and Suicide. Talk to your daughter and if she is withdrawing, not playing her favorite game or playing with the family dog take her to a doctor. Is she complaining of stomach aches stating she is too sick to go to school? These are things you need to look for, emotional and physical changes. Bullying can have long term effects and it's called emotional abuse. Spend as much time with your daughter as you can, tell her that you love her and that she is doing nothing wrong.
I was an investigator for major insurance carriers for 20+ years and believe me, it's easy to record someone especially when they don't think they are being watched. You can even plant a small camera on your daughter to record the activities at school. (don't tell her she is wearing one)
My thoughts may have been all over the place here, but hearing your story pisses me off to no end! This should not be happening to our children. That teacher does not deserve his job and should be fired! The teacher thinks he is 'not touchable' at this time and will not stop bullying your child.
Hell, get into the classroom and plant a bug so you can see the recording on your computer. I'd get as much evidence as I could to nail this person.
I don't understand why you would be issued a criminal trespass warning, nor have I heard of them used in this way. I don't know where you live, but this doesn't sound legal. Most lawyers will give a free initial consultation. I've never heard of anything like this happening where you're not able to communicate with those who are in care of your child. Do you have a civil action advocate or group in your community? Sometimes local news media have investigators that act on your behalf.
I would find a new school. It's terrible to see that a teacher didn't even ask if she was ok, regardless of how she was acting.
Are the members of the school board aware of the situation? Have you contacted your government officials?
Number one on the list is to keep your cool. If you were issued a criminal trespass warning preventing you from speaking from anyone in the school district either the entire district is ganging up on you or a visit to the school turned ugly and confrontational.
You won't solve a problem by yelling or threatening anyone at the school - the result of being extremely obnoxious, issuing threats or yelling is going to be just what happened - the school takes offense and takes action to stop the abuse.
Sit back, calm down and find other actions you can take to stop this. Sarra's suggestions are a great starting point, seems to me. Get some solid evidence to back you and apologize all over yourself for whatever caused the CTW to be issued while very politely requesting an additional visit with the principal or higher authority.
Going public is a possibility, but make absolutely sure you can back up what you say - a return libel or slander suit is a distinct possibility if you cost some teacher their job or even a black mark on their record.
What would I do? Hmmm, I would hurt somebody really really bad.
by Ohma 8 years ago
Recently I noticed that my 13 yr old grandson was having some trouble with his grades. I had a talk with him and discovered that the 2 classes he was having trouble with both just got new teachers that were according to him unable to control the class. Confused I contacted the school and was told...
by Anne009 8 years ago
So my son is very boy-ish.. aggressive (yet very loving.. almost too loving!), kinds of a dare devil- kamakazee kid I call him, and very, very outgoing. Many of the kids in his school are very reserved and quiet- their parents have often commented to me that he is just 'wild' and they always seem...
by Baileybear 7 years ago
http://www.watoday.com.au/wa-news/youtu … 1bx3m.htmlApparently both boys got suspended. I can totally see how the bigger boy snapped. Sure, he went overboard, but I doubt anyone will attempt to bully him again
by suebee62 5 years ago
Would you allow your child to sit under the teaching of an adult, if the teacher bullied your child?What would you do?
by starme77 8 years ago
I seen this and it has caused alot of controversy, my daughter, having been the victim of the same kinds of cruel treatment from her peers these past few months causes me to believe these kids should be prosecuted and the adults held liable also - take a peak and tell me what ya'll think .......
by hotnewmama 6 years ago
What if they think your 6 year old has ADD?Our son is very smart, but has a hard time focusing in school. He has tested to be in 3rd-5th grade levels in different subjects but is only in 1st grade. We have tried working with the teacher and him to get him to pay attention better and focus on what...
Copyright © 2018 HubPages Inc. and respective owners. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. HubPages® is a registered Service Mark of HubPages, Inc. HubPages and Hubbers (authors) may earn revenue on this page based on affiliate relationships and advertisements with partners including Amazon, Google, and others.
|HubPages Device ID||This is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.|
|Login||This is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.|
|HubPages Traffic Pixel||This is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.|
|Remarketing Pixels||We may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.|
|Conversion Tracking Pixels||We may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.|