My mum is angry at me, because I throw away all my love interest, for principle,

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   peter565posted 10 years ago

   My mum is angry at me, because I throw away all my love interest, for principle, your thought?
   
   I believe real man should be financially independent and only real men, have the right to date decent women. Growing up from a rich family, my mum was very hostile towards me getting a job, having to deal with that, I didn't got a job till 24. As a result, despite having many love interest in college, I threw them all away. I know girls wait for guys, to ask them out, so all I need to do is say nothing an eventually she will stop waiting. My mum whom really want to see me having a nice girl, as girl friend, is still very angry. But I feel very strongly about my moral values.  Your thought?

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   dashingscorpioposted 10 years ago

   Life is a (personal) journey!
   You get to live (your) life as you choose. It doesn't matter what anyone else says or thinks.
   Only you know what makes {you} happy.
   Having said that if you are "unhappy" with the way things are going then maybe you should consider making changes.
   If you want something different you have to do something different!
   Best wishes!

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   ChristinSposted 10 years ago

   I'm wondering who gets to determine the so called "real men" who are the only ones allowed to date decent women.  My "real man" was not rich financially when we met, but he was a hard worker, honest, loving, respectful and I have done my best to be a strong partner, best friend and wife to him.  I'm glad I didn't wait around for him to be a "real man" or I'd have truly missed out on a wonderful gift of the amazing human being he is.  I think you should analyze your current opinion - money is what makes men "real"? wow.  I guess if I was a gold digger I'd have that attitude too.  I hope that isn't what you end up with someday.

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