How to deal with a lying boyfriend who wont stop communicating with an ex-girlfr

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  1. moiponetsoka profile image61
    moiponetsokaposted 11 years ago

    How to deal with a lying boyfriend who wont stop communicating with an ex-girlfriend?

  2. MickS profile image60
    MickSposted 11 years ago

    Are you suggesting how to deal with a lying girlfiend would be different, it wont - dump.

    1. dashingscorpio profile image80
      dashingscorpioposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Very true!

  3. moiponetsoka profile image61
    moiponetsokaposted 11 years ago

    @MickS no its just that my boyfriend sends love messages to his ex and when i confront him he says nothing is going on. i dont know what to do anymore because i really love this guy

    1. MickS profile image60
      MickSposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      As I said, dump.  All the while you don't take positive action, he will continue to lie and take advantage of you.

    2. moiponetsoka profile image61
      moiponetsokaposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      @MickS thanks for the advice.

    3. dashingscorpio profile image80
      dashingscorpioposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      moiponetsoka, There are only 2 reasons why someone won't give you what you want. 1. They don't have it within to give. 2. They don't feel you are worth the effort. Only you can decide if you can continue with things this way. You can't control him.

  4. Alaina Smith Cain profile image60
    Alaina Smith Cainposted 11 years ago

    You have the power within yourself to solve your own problem, literally! You have the power to make this man forget about her completely. You have the power to get this man to be exactly who you want him to be, the only problem is......you don't know it. All women have the power to have a faithful, honest, hard-working, warm, and loving man who will protect her with his own life if he has to, but none of us have ever really realized how much power we actually have and how powerful that power is!!!  It is our sex! Don't get it twisted, I'm not speaking on how good we are in bed. I'm talking about we can just spread our legs and do nothing and get a brother sprung! That's just how good it is! But even too much of a good thing can turn out to be bad for you, and that's where we mess it up! It's only a matter of time that he will grow tired of the very power that he, at one time, would kill to get! We need to let go of these myths that men think about sex all the time, if that were true men would have sex and do nothing else, ever! And men only think about sex when they haven't had sex in awhile, I mean if you just ate a big meal to the point you can't move do you think you would be hungry any time soon? Case in point: cut off his power! Don't have sex! You want him to forget about her, give him nothing for him to compare her to! If he really wanted to be with her he would be already, simply cut him off from the "nookie cookie" and see how much better and how much more attention he will give you.

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    JThomp42posted 11 years ago

    You poor thing. You are in a pickle. I think you need to be strong and get rid of this guy. He is never going to totally commit to you. He has shown you this over and over.

  6. dashingscorpio profile image80
    dashingscorpioposted 11 years ago

    Each of us is entitled to have our set of "deal breakers". No one is stuck with anyone!
    There are only two ways to experience joy and peace of mind in relationships: we either get what we want or we learn to be happy with what we have.
    Trying to (change) someone only leads to frustration on our part and resentment on the part of our mate. You're far better off moving on to find someone who (naturally) does the things you like.

  7. duffsmom profile image60
    duffsmomposted 11 years ago

    Don't handle it, walk away. If he will not stop when you have asked him to, how much does he really care about you and your feelings?

    You have to think beyond your own feelings for this guy.  Think about yourself in terms of self-respect.  You do not have to be treated like this and should not tolerate it.  Walk away, there are wonderful men out there who will appreciate you and be kind and respectful.  Don't settle.

    You say you really love this guy?  Then the question becomes why would you love someone who would treat you like this?  It will hurt to walk away but you will get over it.

  8. penlady profile image60
    penladyposted 11 years ago

    It's simple: dump him! And don't take him back either.

 
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