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Toy Shopping | Best Toys for Kids Age 1-7

Updated on December 20, 2011
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Tracy has been working in the field of education for many years specializing in both Waldorf and Montessori methodology.

© Copyright 2011 Tracy Lynn Conway with all rights reserved.

Another holiday season is rolling around and it is time for parents to choose holiday toys for their children.

When choosing gifts for their child most parents consider:

  • their child's wish list
  • their own ideas of what the children would like
  • and perhaps some educationally directed toys that may be a benefit to their child

Most often, even after carefully choosing toys, no matter how much time and effort parents spend on making the choice, the life of most of these toys is fairly short. Most toys being sold today involve a quick turn over of overpriced items that are heavily marketed to both parents and children. One year my son loved dinosaurs and wanted the whole collection of animated dinosaur toys ranging in price from $30-$100 dollars, he was interested in dinosaurs for some time but the expense still didn’t seem justified. At $100 dollars a pop, an American Girl Doll will empty your wallet practically before you finish selecting the eye color of the Just Like Me Doll for your sweet daughter. And at over $100 dollars a doll you will find yourself wondering “how will I ever save for college?”

In an effort to sell more toys, some toy companies tout their products as educational and parents buy into this, I know I did. With my first child I actually bought into this idea that I could 'educate' my child with a certain toy. I remember buying Baby Einstein videos that were supposed to expose my children to a foreign language while watching toys move around on the screen and an electronic music game where my child was supposed to move blocks around that played various classical music. The problem with the video is that study after study shows that kids, and especially children under 2, should not be watching TV but rather engaging in real world activities. The problem with the music toy was that it was also minimally engaging and therefore didn’t really hold my child’s attention. I would have been better off purchasing a few musical instruments and playing some classical music CD’s for her.

Another marketing strategy that most parents don't realize is that the toys are often being sold to the parents. Many toys feed into an idea of what the parent imagines would be fun to play with, but adults have matured and are no longer able to play as a young child does. Childhood play is something that human beings learn from and grow away from. If you compare the play of a 3 year old with that of a 6 year old you will see that the older child has a more sophisticated way of playing. Since adults have grown away from this part of their lives they can't really envision what a child needs to play with and then are easily manipulated by advertising. Many toys are simply designed to put money in the pockets of toy manufacturers and I believe there is an injustice done to parents, especially new parents that don’t know better.

I have since learned that it is real basic toys that are the best things for kids.

The best toys for kids are the ones with the greatest possibilities, these are the ones that make the child think and create their own ideas of how to play. A plain wooden truck can turn into a police car, ambulance, school bus, pet mobile etc. The child decides, not the toy manufacturer. When children engage with open ended toys they have to ask themselves questions like “what do I want this truck to be?” they can role play with ideas from their life experience, this internal dialogue turns out to be the building blocks of a life skill known as executive function, it is this function that helps people with things like self-control and knowing who they are. In an article on the topic of children’s play by National Public Radio writer Alix Spiegel states:

It turns out that all that time spent playing make-believe actually helped children develop a critical cognitive skill called executive function. Executive function has a number of different elements, but a central one is the ability to self-regulate. Kids with good self-regulation are able to control their emotions and behavior, resist impulses, and exert self-control and discipline.

In the novel The Love of Seven Dolls a toy maker gives a young girl a piece of wood and says to her "For your first born...(here)... "is a toy I have made for him that is not yet any, yet is still all toys, for in his imagination when he plays with it, it will be whatever he sees in it, or wishes it to be."

Waldorf Educators have hit the nail on the head when it comes to what kids need in the toy department. Toys like wooden blocks, nondescript vehicles, dolls, dress up clothes offer not only toys that allow the child to engage their imagination; these toys will be around for a long time. A set of wooden blocks my still be a bit expensive but they will last and be played with by the children in the family whether they are male or female. If Toys- R-Us only sold the toys that children really played with the stores would be a fraction of the size they are today.

Waldorf Suggested Toys

AGES 1-3

  • Dolls
  • A basket for a doll bed
  • Soft Balls
  • Basket of logs
  • Soft Animals
  • Push Wagon

AGES 3-4

  • Simple dolls
  • Doll bed
  • Doll house
  • Dress up clothes including *Hats *Jewelry *Old purse *Old gloves
  • Child size broom and other cleaning tools
  • Table with fabric that can turn into a store, house, shop etc. by imaginative minds
  • Paper and crayons
  • Play dough

AGES 5-7

  • Dolls
  • Puppets
  • Project basket with *construction paper * whole puncher *yarn *tape *paper clips
  • Fabric/silks
  • Dress up clothes
  • Wooden blocks
  • Hard animals
  • Paper and crayons
  • Clay
  • Bees Wax

Outdoor Ideas

  • Buckets
  • Shovels
  • Rake
  • Ball
  • Wheelbarrow
  • Wagon

Also suggested

  • Lego


Source of Waldorf suggested toys: Anonymous

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    • Tracy Lynn Conway profile imageAUTHOR

      Tracy Lynn Conway 

      6 years ago from Virginia, USA

      Marion, I really love your comment. I even want to see what the boxes will turn out to be. You have a pair of very lucky boys there with you for having such a smart Mom. Thank you so much for the comment, compliment and vote, you have made my day.

      Best, Tracy

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      marion conway 

      6 years ago

      Tracy i realy enjoyed reading this and every thing you said i can relate to and the number 1 toy on my boys toy list this year is lego,blocks and ofcourse an empty boy that hours of fun will be passed painting to be what they want it to be and i realy enjoy waiting to see what they turn the box into,

      well done you did your self proud on this,VOTE UP!

      all the best marion

    • Tracy Lynn Conway profile imageAUTHOR

      Tracy Lynn Conway 

      7 years ago from Virginia, USA

      Prasetio, with so many toys to choose from and deceptive messages from advertisers it is really hard for parents to make good choices. Thank you!

      Best, Tracy

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      prasetio30 

      7 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Very inspiring hub, Tracy. We should be able to choose toys appropriate for their age. I hope many parents will read this hub and they could give the best toys for their children. Well done and vote up!

      Prasetio

    • Tracy Lynn Conway profile imageAUTHOR

      Tracy Lynn Conway 

      7 years ago from Virginia, USA

      Jinn1128,

      Thank you! I certainly wish I knew these things before I had children.

      Tracy

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      JIN1128 

      7 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

      This is so useful for the people that are first time parents!

    • Tracy Lynn Conway profile imageAUTHOR

      Tracy Lynn Conway 

      7 years ago from Virginia, USA

      Cogerson, I agree with you, as it has been said over and over again, that the box that the gifts came in ends up being the most fun. I also think it is funny that after opening what seems like an endless amount of toys on Christmas, that any kid has the nerve to say "Is that all?" I suppose that opening the gifts is also more fun than the playing with them. I was going to use a photo of one of my kids playing in a box for this hub and I still might add it. So glad that you can relate and thank you so much for the votes!

      Tracy

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      UltimateMovieRankings 

      7 years ago from Virginia

      Great suggestions and you presented the information in interesting and informative format. I agree with you about basic toys being the best...my wife and I are always amazed when every Christmas after the carnage of present opening is over...that the biggest empty box gets played with more than the toys they got for Xmas. Voted up and useful.

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