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BrokenHeartFour (how to mend a broken heart)

Updated on July 26, 2013
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ReInvention

This is the time to get rid of all those stupid harsh questions you've been asking yourself since your relationship disintegrated. What did I do wrong? What's up with me, then? Why did my ex leave me? How have I sunk so low?

Get rid of all that negative junk by building up a new world for yourself. Create a new landscape. Try something new.

You might want to seek a new job...engage in new projects...change your lifestyle...lose a bit of weight...invest in some new clothes...start a great blog...write a book...get a haircut.

There's a whole new world waiting for you out there . With every little new thing that you try you are changing your life and moving away from the rut you deemed yourself to be in. Now is the time to hold your head up high and to be genuinely proud of all these little improvements you are making in your life.

Relish that splendid new feeling of enrichment you have as you add all these new aspects to your life and as you change from being the person so blindly reliant on your ex into this new accomplished individual...this person who is now in total control of their own destiny.

Be proud of yourself and be happy that you have all these new life-skills and character-strengths that you have to offer to all those people in and around your life.


This might also be the ideal time to choose a new regime of healthy eating to go with the new regime of exercise which we will tackle in a future chapter. It's all part of re-inventing yourself...shedding a few pounds...toning those muscles...eating more of the right foods and feeling great about looking even better.

AFFIRMATIONS

I CONSTANTLY FIND NEW WAYS TO IMPROVE MY LIFE

MY LIFE IS BETTER WITH STEADY IMPROVEMENT

I AM ALWAYS ON THE LOOKOUT FOR A WAY TO CHANGE MY LIFE

THERE IS A BETTER WAY AND I WILL FIND IT STRAIGHT AWAY

I AM ALWAYS LOOKING FOR CHANGE TO MAKE MY LIFE BETTER

THERE ARE NEW THINGS TO EXPLORE AND I WILL FIND THEM

I LOOK TO THE FUTURE AND I ADAPT TO MAKE IT COUNT

I SEE NEW OPPORTUNITIES IN EVERY WAKING DAY

FANTASTIC NEW IDEAS COME EASY TO ME NOW

I SEEK OUT THE HAPPINESS AND SEARCH FOR THE CHANGE

AFFIRMATION SONG

EVERY MORNING OF EVERY DAY

I'LL ALWAYS FIND A BETTER WAY

I GET THE THINGS I REALLY NEED

I WILL PROSPER AND SUCCEED

I AM ALWAYS ON THE MOVE

THINGS TO SEE AND TO IMPROVE

THINGS TO CREATE AND THINGS TO DO

THINGS FOR ME AND THINGS FOR YOU

EMPOWERING QUESTIONS

WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE THE BEST OF MY LIFE

WHAT NEW THINGS CAN I EXPLORE TODAY

WHAT ELSE CAN I DO TO CHANGE MY LIFE

HOW CAN I MAKE VAST CHANGES FROM WHICH I CAN REALLY BENEFIT

WHERE CAN I LOOK NEXT FOR SOME FRESH INSPIRATION

WHAT ARE SOME NEW WAYS TO BRING SOME EXCITEMENT INTO MY LIFE

HOW CAN I CHANGE THINGS AND HAVE SOME GREAT FUN ALONG THE DAY

WHAT NEW THINGS CAN I DO NOW TO BRING VARIETY INTO MY DAILY ROUTINE

HOW CAN I KEEP CHANGING AND MOVING FORWARDS ALL THE TIME

WHAT NEW AVENUES CAN I EXPLORE DAILY TO KEEP ONE STEP AHEAD OF THE PACK


NOTE FROM ANDY (AUTHOR)

IF YOU LIKE THIS ARTICLE OR FOUND IT USEFUL OR ENTERTAINING IN ANY WAY WOULD YOU PLEASE SHARE IT FOR OTHERS TO SEE...AND PLEASE MAKE A COMMENT BELOW TO LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK OF IT....GOOD OR BAD


I would love to hear your thoughts on this article...so if you have any opinions to offer...or experiences or examples to share...please put them in the 'comments ' section below.


Perhaps you have your own story to tell ?

What do you think ?

How do you feel ?

What is your opinion ?

Are you working on something similar ?


I will respond to all comments and I look forward to hearing from you


Thank You


Andy



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