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BrokenHeartSeven (how to mend a broken heart)

Updated on February 14, 2014

FIND NEW INTERESTS NOW

It is extremely rewarding and vitally important to your recovery to begin on new interests and projects...and to remember that nothing comes to he who waits...or to she who waits...depending on which camp you fall into. It's also a bit of a myth to say that 'time heals all wounds' and if you are placing your faith in that notion you'll be waiting a long time. Time helps...to a great extent...of course...but you really need to take large steps to help move it along if you don't want to be spending too long in recovery. Don't just sit back...you have to forcibly attack the situation and find these new things to do. Tempting as it may seem to sit there staring at the wallpaper and feeling sorry for yourself and blaming circumstance (and your ex) for the way you feel...you must avoid it. You have to take action. We've covered the goal-setting...which is a similar way of escaping the rut...but this is the art of giving yourself the drive to follow through on all that you can dream about. Do it. Take action. Dive into the arena of direct action. It doesn't matter what you seek out in the way of new interests...big or small...just do it. Learn to draw cartoons. Pick up a violin. Write an essay. Build a sandcastle. Build a real castle.

Anything...just as long as you are actively looking for these things to do. Keep busty...that's the key.

AFFIRMATIONS

MY LIFE IS ENRICHED BY THE NEW THINGS I SEEK OUT

I AM ALWAYS ON THE LOOK-OUT FOR EXCITING CHANGES

THERE ARE GREAT THINGS TO DISCOVER AND I FIND THEM ALL THE TIME

LIFE IS VARIED AND RICH WITH COUNTLESS POSSIBILITIES

I ALWAYS FIND NEW THINGS TO DO

THERE'S A PANDORA'S BOX OF JOY AND IT'S THERE FOR ME TO RAID

THE OPPORTUNITIES ARE THERE AND I DON'T LET THEM PASS ME BY

THERE IS ALWAYS A BETTER WAY AND I WILL ALWAYS FIND IT.

THE CHOICE IS WIDE...THE CHOICE IS MINE

ALL GOOD THINGS ARE THERE FOR ME NOW

AFFIRMATION SONG

I FEEL FANTASTIC

I FEEL CREATIVE

I FEEL MAGNIFICENT

I FEEL OUT OF THIS WORLD

I FIND THE GOOD THINGS

I FIND THE GREAT THINGS

I FIND THE NEW THINGS

AND THEY ARE OUT OF THIS WORLD

I FEEL SUCCESSFUL

I FEEL ABUNDANT

I FEEL POWERFUL

I FEEL OUT OF THIS WORLD

I FIND THE GOOD THINGS

I FIND THE GREAT THINGS

I FIND THE NEW THINGS

AND THEY ARE OUT OF THIS WORLD

EMPOWERING QUESTIONS

WHAT CAN I DO TO IMPROVE MY LIFE NOW

WHAT NEW THINGS CAN I FIND TO REACH MY HAPPINESS LEVEL

HOW CAN I BECOME A PEAK ACHIEVER

WHAT DO I NEED TO DO TO GET THE BEST THINGS FOR MY LIFE

WHAT ARE SOME GREAT NEW THINGS I COULD DO RIGHT NOW

WHAT IS MY BEST ROUTE TO HAPPINESS

WHAT CHOICES CAN I MAKE TO FILL MY TIME WITH BETTER THINGS

HOW CAN I IMPROVE ON MY PERFORMANCES NOW

WHAT DO I NEED TO DO TO BE A WINNER

HOW CAN I FIND MORE THINGS TO DO


NOTE FROM ANDY (AUTHOR)

IF YOU LIKE THIS ARTICLE OR FOUND IT USEFUL OR ENTERTAINING IN ANY WAY WOULD YOU PLEASE SHARE IT FOR OTHERS TO SEE...AND PLEASE MAKE A COMMENT BELOW TO LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK OF IT....GOOD OR BAD


I would love to hear your thoughts on this article...so if you have any opinions to offer...or experiences or examples to share...please put them in the 'comments ' section below.


Perhaps you have your own story to tell ?

What do you think ?

How do you feel ?

What is your opinion ?

Are you working on something similar ?


I will respond to all comments and I look forward to hearing from you


Thank You


Andy



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      Andy Fraser 

      5 years ago from Maidstone England

      ah thank you. I hope it's not too confusing because each stage...or tip...is on seperate number...and this is Broken heart Number Seven. I'm sure you knew that. Cheers for the comment :)

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      Derrick Bennett 

      5 years ago

      This is very moving; this is a great way to start my day (by reading this hub). Thanks

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