BrokenHeartSeven (how to mend a broken heart)
FIND NEW INTERESTS NOW
It is extremely rewarding and vitally important to your recovery to begin on new interests and projects...and to remember that nothing comes to he who waits...or to she who waits...depending on which camp you fall into. It's also a bit of a myth to say that 'time heals all wounds' and if you are placing your faith in that notion you'll be waiting a long time. Time helps...to a great extent...of course...but you really need to take large steps to help move it along if you don't want to be spending too long in recovery. Don't just sit back...you have to forcibly attack the situation and find these new things to do. Tempting as it may seem to sit there staring at the wallpaper and feeling sorry for yourself and blaming circumstance (and your ex) for the way you feel...you must avoid it. You have to take action. We've covered the goal-setting...which is a similar way of escaping the rut...but this is the art of giving yourself the drive to follow through on all that you can dream about. Do it. Take action. Dive into the arena of direct action. It doesn't matter what you seek out in the way of new interests...big or small...just do it. Learn to draw cartoons. Pick up a violin. Write an essay. Build a sandcastle. Build a real castle.
Anything...just as long as you are actively looking for these things to do. Keep busty...that's the key.
AFFIRMATIONS
MY LIFE IS ENRICHED BY THE NEW THINGS I SEEK OUT
I AM ALWAYS ON THE LOOK-OUT FOR EXCITING CHANGES
THERE ARE GREAT THINGS TO DISCOVER AND I FIND THEM ALL THE TIME
LIFE IS VARIED AND RICH WITH COUNTLESS POSSIBILITIES
I ALWAYS FIND NEW THINGS TO DO
THERE'S A PANDORA'S BOX OF JOY AND IT'S THERE FOR ME TO RAID
THE OPPORTUNITIES ARE THERE AND I DON'T LET THEM PASS ME BY
THERE IS ALWAYS A BETTER WAY AND I WILL ALWAYS FIND IT.
THE CHOICE IS WIDE...THE CHOICE IS MINE
ALL GOOD THINGS ARE THERE FOR ME NOW
AFFIRMATION SONG
I FEEL FANTASTIC
I FEEL CREATIVE
I FEEL MAGNIFICENT
I FEEL OUT OF THIS WORLD
I FIND THE GOOD THINGS
I FIND THE GREAT THINGS
I FIND THE NEW THINGS
AND THEY ARE OUT OF THIS WORLD
I FEEL SUCCESSFUL
I FEEL ABUNDANT
I FEEL POWERFUL
I FEEL OUT OF THIS WORLD
I FIND THE GOOD THINGS
I FIND THE GREAT THINGS
I FIND THE NEW THINGS
AND THEY ARE OUT OF THIS WORLD
EMPOWERING QUESTIONS
WHAT CAN I DO TO IMPROVE MY LIFE NOW
WHAT NEW THINGS CAN I FIND TO REACH MY HAPPINESS LEVEL
HOW CAN I BECOME A PEAK ACHIEVER
WHAT DO I NEED TO DO TO GET THE BEST THINGS FOR MY LIFE
WHAT ARE SOME GREAT NEW THINGS I COULD DO RIGHT NOW
WHAT IS MY BEST ROUTE TO HAPPINESS
WHAT CHOICES CAN I MAKE TO FILL MY TIME WITH BETTER THINGS
HOW CAN I IMPROVE ON MY PERFORMANCES NOW
WHAT DO I NEED TO DO TO BE A WINNER
HOW CAN I FIND MORE THINGS TO DO
NOTE FROM ANDY (AUTHOR)
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What do you think ?
How do you feel ?
What is your opinion ?
Are you working on something similar ?
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Thank You
Andy
