Eight Ways to Eliminate Negative Energy in Your Life
Love and appreciate you
We are constantly in a quest to be more accepted by society. Do things that we do not necessarily want to do, but just because they are acceptable to people we are constantly seeking approval from, we end up constantly pleasing other people more than we please ourselves.
A good example will be constantly attending family gatherings where you know you are going to be ridiculed and made to fill less, but just because we have a syndrome of what people are going to say if we do not go. You end up spending the most important resource you have which is a time in places you are not appreciated for who you are just because you are constantly wanting to belong. You spend over 5 hours in an event where you are so miserable just because you have to show face and please someone.
What about you? When are you going to start to please you more, love and appreciate you more? When are you going to realize that you matter most and focus those five hours on yourself? Are you so afraid to spend time with you that you will rather spend it with people who resent you for whatever reason?
It is time to learn to love and appreciate you. Learn to celebrate you. Learn more about you and enjoy spending time with you. more than anything crush on you every day. You are special, you are unique, there is only one of you in this whole world. you are amazing. LOVE YOU.
Your time is important
Please learn one important lesson here, your time matters most. Allocate your time and your presence to people who will appreciate you for who you are not to people who would like to change you. Why to waste such an important resource - time with people who wish to change how you look, wish you were thinner, wish you were married, wish you didn't divorce and wish you had kids wish you did not have kids out of wedlock. The list is societal expectations for us as women are endless.
Appreciate Your Flows
We all have them. We do have flows and so many scars. The same flows and scars are what makes us be who we are. It is time to show them off. Never hide them again, be who you are. Let your light shine, refuse to dim it. People are looking forward to embracing you. Do not try to be what you are not. Be original you. It is very fulfilling. Time is to precious to waste on being an imposter just because you want society to accept you
What are your goals
Work on your dreams. Without vision, people perish. You have a God-given gift. Work on perfecting you. You are very important. Only you matter here, work on yourself. If you have to go back to college, do it. If you have to find a job do it. Do not waste any time. Make a life for yourself independent of other people. Let what drives you, drive you to make yourself a better person. If it is for your kids, do it for them to be a better person. They deserve a better mother
Positive Affirmations
Be the best motivator to yourself. There are days when you cannot get up, but motivate yourself to get up and keep saying it loud that this day is going to be better than yesterday. Be your own mentor, before you find a mentor. Keep telling yourself, each day I am going to work towards being a better, mom, aunt, uncle or father. Keep saying and becoming a better person each day. A better person does not say hurtful things to his/her child just because he/she is hurting. you cannot be telling your child you are stupid. Work on becoming better and give positive energy to everyone around you, more especially to people that you love. Your child is not stupid, he has just made a stupid decision that does not make him a stupid person.
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Move from the comfort zone
| What are your goals
| Love yourself
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You are important
| Only you can change you
| Positive Affirmations
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Your time is important
| Appreciate your flows
| Keep loving yourself
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keep prioritizing you
Self Love
Keep crushing on you
No one can love you better than yourself. You know you. You know your strengths and your weaknesses. You cannot afford to lie to yourself. You know the truth about you.
