ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel

Romantic Gifts of Love: The Gift of an Experience

Updated on October 14, 2018
Karen Hellier profile image

Karen Hellier is a freelance writer and eBay entrepreneur. She lives happily in the mountains of North Georgia with her husband and her dog.

Planning a picnic with a loved one can be a fun surprise!
Planning a picnic with a loved one can be a fun surprise! | Source

It's often so hard to find just the right birthday, Christmas or Valentine's Day gift for the one you love. Many people get so stymied and frustrated, they give up and tell people that Valentine's Day is just another holiday created by the greeting card companies. Come on, be honest, haven't you heard someone say that at least once in your life? Probably at one point, it was the person you've loved who's embarrassed that they don't know what to get you, so they threw that old complaint out there.

Well, special days don't always have to be celebrated with an actual gift. An experience can last longer and have more meaning for the one you love. Just make sure you talk to them about it first. Tell them you're not getting them an actual "gift" that can be wrapped this year, but something better.

Here are some great ideas to get you started:

  • Go out to dinner at a favorite restaurant...maybe the one you went to on your first date, or one that has become your favorite. Talk about a special time you had there, and let the romance begin.
  • Does your loved one have a certain hobby that you don't relish? Plan a day that the two of you go off and do this. If it's golf, go golfing with him or her as a gift. Hiking? Plan a hike and bring a picnic lunch. Have a loving attitude and try to enjoy it for their sake, even if you are bored to death!
  • Purchase 2 tickets for a concert for their favorite band, or singer, or classical music, etc.and wrap them up or put them in a card. Tell them you are going together, even if it's music you don't particularly like. If the concert is a month or two away, the excitement of looking forward to it will last longer than chocolates or flowers.
  • Rather than buy your love a new outfit or suit that you don't know if they will like, make a day of it by getting them a gift card to their favorite clothing store, and tell them you are going shopping together. Add lunch as a bonus, and you'll make it an extra special experience.
  • Is there a "chick flick" or action movie they've been dying to see? Buy tickets in advance, and surprise them by saying you're going together and the popcorn is on you!
  • a series of chick flicks or action movies, build a fire in the fireplace, eat pizza in front of the TV and settle in for a night that will be extra special for them.
  • Hate to cook? Plan a romantic meal, just the 2 of you, and YOU do the cooking. If you have kids, bring them to a neighbors or grandma's and stay in and have a romantic dinner, made by you with wine and candlelight.
  • Give them a spa day with the girls, or guys night out with the boys. Purchase a gift card in advance to the spa or a pub and tell them to have a great time. When they come home, they may be so happy and relaxed that romance will bloom!
  • Has he always wanted to take flying lessons, or has she always wanted to try Yoga? Purchase a gift certificate for one of these experiences. Flight schools often have introductory offers at a good price to get people hooked on flying. It will be a gift they know you bought just for them.
  • If you have kids, give her or him a day off from parenting. Make up a gift certificate that says just that. Make sure their favorite foods/refreshments are in the house, and take off with the kids for the day, giving the other parent the day off.
  • If you're on a budget, you can do something for each other that doesn't cost any money at all. Plan together to do one thing that the other one has been wanting you to do...put up a new shelf in her closet, clean out a bathroom closet that has old makeup and lotions in it that you never got around to cleaning out, paint a room that badly needs it, etc.
  • Take them on a day trip but don't tell them where you are going. Visit the places you used to go to when you were first dating...walk in the park or go to your favorite beach. At night you could go listen to a band you both used to like, or go dancing somewhere you used to go. Keep it a surprise for the other person, and it will be much more romantic.

There are many options out there for gift experiences instead of gifts. And if you involve yourself in it as well, it's a gift you'll both remember long after the actual special day.

Copyright by Karen Hellier, 2012.

Gift Giving Poll

Do You Prefer Giving a Material Gift or the Gift of an Experience?

See results
A day trip, like this one to Vermont that my husband took me on, is always a fun gift. I love Vermont so it was a special experience.
A day trip, like this one to Vermont that my husband took me on, is always a fun gift. I love Vermont so it was a special experience. | Source
A meal at a favorite restaurant makes a great birthday gift!
A meal at a favorite restaurant makes a great birthday gift! | Source

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2012 Karen Hellier


This website uses cookies

As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at:

Show Details
HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the or domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)
ClickscoThis is a data management platform studying reader behavior (Privacy Policy)