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Valentine's Day and the Married man
Love is in the air
When you are young free and single Valentines Day is a simple affair a card, a red rose, a meal for 2 at a nice restaurant and home to watch a Movie on TV and hopefully at the end of the evening you have romanced your partner enough to have a little loving.
A simple formula that works year in and year out for many horny young men.
When you are married it becomes a whole different ball game especially if you have Children.
A married man not only has a few complications thrown into the works but he has a wife that knows him better than he knows himself, and she knows every move he will make on Valentines day simply because he does the same thing every year.
Valentine's Day and the Married Man
Lets Face it, to a married man Valentines day is only really special because he knows that if he plays his cards perfectly all day it will lead to an unforgrettable night of passion in the bedroom with the love of his life. nothing more nothing less.
The problem is though that after a couple of years marriage, we begin to forget the meaning of romance and fall into a routine of buying a card and some flowers, and nothing more, we take our wife's for granted and assume that they will be so overjoyed with these wonderfully thought out gifts that her knickers will fall to the ground in an instant and she will ravage your body where you stand.
It Aint Gonna Happen Man
5 Minutes of your time and 0.1 percent of your imagination and spending a couple of dollars will leave your wife feeling worthless, dejected and unwanted, and your chances of getting her into the bedroom for a night of loving will fall faster than the Dow Jones Index. more than likely you will end up sleeping on the sofa with the dog sniffing at your ass all night long.
Valentines day is a day to sweep the love of your life off her feet, to make her feel special and feel loved, to let her know that she is the most important person in your world, Valentines Day is her day and if you play it by the rules it will be your night.
Setting the Mood
Getting it right on Valentines day takes careful planning and imagination especially if you have children, during the week on the run up to the big day you must become a General and come up with the perfect plan that will 1, sweep you wife off her feet and 2, keep the children out of the way whilst you work your magic. and most importantly come up with a plan B should plan A come a cropper.
Plan the whole day minute by minute, from morning till night, pamper your wonderful other half, you have the advantage of knowing things that she likes and what she dislikes, use that knowledge to your full advantage, Valentines day is like any other day it lasts a whole 24 hours not just the 5 minutes it takes to buy a card and some flowers.
By knowing what your wife loves, you can make the whole day a very special day for her, give her little treats at different intervals during the day, spend quality time talking and remembering romantic moments that you have shared between you before and after you got married, watch her favorite movie, listen to her favorite music, serve her favorite food, whisper sweet nothings in her ear, keep the romance flowing the whole day and the night will take care of itself.
A Point To Remember
Valentines day is a day of romance and love and sharing intimate moments with your partner but so is every other day of the year.
If you treat your wife like a doormat or talk down to her call her names or disrespect her in public or in private the rest of the year chances are that all your efforts on Valentines day will go down like a lead balloon, treat your wife the way she deserves not only on valentines day but every day of the year after all Love may be a powerful thing but if you dont look after it and protect it you can lose it in the blink of an eye.....