A Circle Of Women
How the Circle of Writers started: My mother
My father once told me that I taught myself to read at age four. He said he came home one day to find me reading the comics. Humoring me he sat me on his lap and asked me to read to him…I did, and he was astonished.
I don’t recall that memory, although I do recall an early love for books, reading and words, which was no doubt my mother’s influence. She was an avid reader and her love for books spread to her children. Her emphasis on the importance of knowing how to read began before we could talk. Our nighttime ritual included a bedtime story and all six of her children would crowd against her in hopes to see the pictures.
When my oldest brother started school she volunteered at the elementary library. She also wrote. After my father died in 2008, I inherited my mother’s cedar chest and discovered yellowed newspaper articles she had written about community activities.
My Writing Experience
My interest in writing started at age 6. I began writing poems and short stories. I give these to family members as gifts. I won a class writing contest in sixth grade and loved my English class in high school…every assignment became an opportunity for expression. That was also my flower child period, in which I played my guitar singing the songs of love and protest I had written.
But, other than journal entries, I eventually stopped writing. I lost inspiration and confidence. I did not believe I had any creative talent. For three decades I hung onto the belief that I ‘could not write’…until my mother’s death. In my grief my writing intensified; I would dream of her and the spiritual work that I was involved with in California, and stay up into the wee hours of the morning journaling.
In February of 2005 I discovered a women’s writing group that was holding a weekend workshop in Santa Cruz-about four hours drive south from where I lived. The workshop was hosted by IWWG, (www.IWWG.org), the International Women’s Writing Guild. By choosing to attend the workshop I validated my own right, worth, and gift of writing. It was a turning point in my life.
Not one to feel comfortable in large groups of women, I was hesitant and nervous. But, my desire to learn the craft of writing, and the opportunity to have my work critiqued, overrode any reluctance to attend. What I walked into was amazing and nothing less than a womb of transformation.
A warm welcome is never forgotten
On the night of arrival I entered the conference room to find the chairs set up in a circle. “Oh, oh,” I thought anxiously, “Group.”
My experiences with groups of women have not always been positive. In the past, I had some painful, negative situations in which there was much criticism and judgment. It left me wary whenever I was faced with similar situations. I tentatively sat down on one of the chairs aware of the tension in my body.
What unfolded was therapeutic and nurturing. A celebration of being welcomed home. I was bathed in the warmth, hospitality and genuine interest of stranger after stranger who wanted to know who I was and what my writing was all about. And, I had my first introduction to the founder of the guild, Hannalore Hahn, an amazing woman with a fascinating life story, and a sincere love for empowering women through the written word.
By the time I went to bed, I realized I had been initiated into a ‘circle of women’ like no other. Every woman in the group had a voice. Every woman’s work was just as important as the others. Everyone was in process in exactly the place that they were at, and it was perfectly fine. It was a circle of acceptance and validation.
When I left California later that summer, I thought briefly that my ‘voice’ and creative outlet would be stilled once more, thinking that my supportive group was left behind. However, I discovered that my heart had opened to my own worth and my soul was a rich source of creativity that has an endless flow.
My continued desire to hone my craft led me to Hubpages, and in a decisively synchronistic way. Encouraged by a friend to submit my stories to an online site I thought he told me ‘Hubpages’. I later contacted him with the news that my hub: Soul Work: Joywon a Hubnugget Award. I wanted to thank him for encouraging me to investigate the site, but he was confused and claimed he had never heard of the Hubpages website. He denied having steered me in this direction and confessed it was a different website he had mentioned. I am grateful for that turn of events because I have received nothing but positive support from everyone here.
Picture of A Family of Writers
My Family of Writers: Sister and Daughter
To my delight, I have had two family members join Hubpages since my initial start in May 2010. My sister, Hubber Danette Watt, is a freelance writer who writes for the local newspaper in her home town. Danette has been a professional writer long before I ever dreamed of actually writing for a living, and who consistently encouraged me to submit my work. Besides being supportive, she has offered her sharp eye as an editor, on occasion. Danette's profile page will explain her education background and, as a seasoned writer, you will find her writing style is informative and filled with interesting, useful facts.
When my daughter, Cara joined she never whispered a word of it to me. I was pleasantly surprised one day to discover her work after returning from my Christmas visit with her. Cara is an elementary school teacher with two young children whose photos you’ve probably caught in my family hubs. Her writing is filled with valuable information from the perspective of a young mother and experienced teacher. She has some great ideas, not only for her hubs, but for future books. You can check Cara’s work out under the Hubber name: cardelean.
My youngest daughter, Christa, is not currently a Hubpages member. She is a busy mom and home health nurse who has verbalized submitting informative articles to nursing journals. While I gave her all of the support and encouragement a mother offers her child, I also suggested she join the Hubpages community. She too, has a lot to say about a variety of subjects. She declined for the time being, but we’re working on her…
The Author Wins Honorable Mention from Writers Digest
A new writer: My Granddaughter, Olivia wins an award
In the meantime, my granddaughter Olivia, Christa’s oldest child, is a writer coming into her own at age 10. A very creative artist, both in drawing and writing, she has been scoring high in her writing class and was asked to read one of her stories to the entire school, in acknowledgement of her work.
Christa sent me a couple of Olivia’s stories, and I was so impressed with them that I submitted one to the Writer’s Digest 79th Annual Writing Contest June, 2011. Later, I happened to be visiting her during Halloween weekend when Olivia received word that her story had been selected for Honorable Mention in her category. I was thrilled for her and insisted I take her picture holding her certificate.
Olivia has a wonderful story in process about her favorite subject: wolves. In the meantime, Grandma Dee is envious of the little bugger. Olivia doesn’t yet understand or appreciate the raw talent she has or her dynamite potential. And if that weren’t enough to turn me green, my poetry submissions did not win one thing!
I’m so proud of all of the writers in our family and enjoy supporting them in their talent. I believe part of what makes it so enjoyable is the common thread we all share.
My Aunt: a published author, source of inspiration and support
A Final Note: Loretta Giacoletto, married to my maternal uncle, is a published writer and author of short stories and mainstream and women’s novels. Information about her two novels, Lethal Play and Family Deceptions can be found through her blog at www.lorettagiacoletto.com and are available through www.smashwords.com and www.amazon.com Along with my own family members, she has been a source of support and inspiration for me.
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Blessed you are to be in a writing family, Denise! A happy thanksgiving!
Great hub, it is so nice to have family members with the same interest. It will be great fun reading each others writings and getting feedback. Writing is a great common bond! Voted up, interesting, useful and very inspirational.
It is good to see this fine piece of work continuing to get reader attention. Very few have ever done a better job than Denise does here to bring readers into a real-life story of how writing energies can flower forth with just a little sustained encouragement, and in this case not with results in only one woman, but in the whole family of writers she has managed to motivate and inspire, and in her role as mother, who knows what else she did to contribute to these creative results.
Continuing prayers, Denise, and best wishes.
How have I not noticed this beautiful new photo of yours ?.....:-}
Denise, No apologies are necessary, for I understand delayed responses. My faithful computer of 7+ years crashed towards the end of last year and cannot reasonably be resuscitated (I parcelled its parts to happy homes: monitor to my friends' computer loving stepson so he has his own sleek TV; tower, keyboard, etc., for resale in a nice shop; I kept the hard drive). While I ponder its successor, I'm using library and friends' computers. With such unpredictable access, my responses are unfortunately delayed.
I love your comment: "When I dream of wolves I pay careful attention to what is going on in my life...there is always a message."
That is beautiful, Denise! With their timeless symbolism, wolves make incredible messengers. I am not aware of ever dreaming of wolves, despite my longstanding fascination with them. Perhaps some day! In the meantime, if they aren't too personal, I hope that you may share some of your dream experiences.
Kind regards, Stessily
Denise, Wolves have such fascinating mythological associations that they are always interesting subjects; I think that we can never read or see enough about them! Olivia is very blessed indeed to be supported --- especially by her Grandma Dee :-) --- in her creative endeavours. I look forward to one day seeing her wolf story in print! An electric typewriter is a wonderful Christmas present for a young budding writer.
I also meant to express disappointment about your poetry submissions not receiving any mention with Writers Digest. Your poetry is engaging, distinctive, effective, lyrical, so I expect that you WILL receive recognition some day soon.
Thanks again for sharing and for inspiring.
Kind regards, Stessily
Wow....quite a reading material for me. Its inspiring really.
What other people try, Denise, you accomplish!
Denise, Thank you for referencing this hub in your response to my comment on your lovely birthday tribute for Grace Elizabeth. This is fascinating and inspirational. I think that it would be so great for your daughter Christa and all your grandchildren to become hubbers!:-) Writing at a young age is so exciting. I wrote my first (and only so far!) novel in adolescence, and although unfortunately it has been lost over time, I still remember vividly the thrill and passion and focus of writing, of capturing words that flowed and flowed.
That is so fortuitous that you attended that IWWG workshop and that it was a perfect fit. Hannalore Hahn has inspired so many to search within themselves for the words waiting to be expressed. I have been intending to read her memoir, On the Way to Feed the Swans, for many moons now, and I appreciate the reminder, through your hub, to find time for it this year.
Thank you for sharing your journey as a writer, as a poet.
Wow Denise - you have such a beautiful family, you are truly blessed,I am glad that eveyone is doing well with their writing and I wish you and yours only the best.
I remember making efforts at astrotraveling, on Mackinac Island. I read a book. Maybe Denise gave it to me. I kept falling asleep before I could get anywhere.
A wonderful hub Denise, such a talented family. You should be very proud.
Awesome,awesome hub Denise.
It's just wonderful to have a family interest that you all enjoy and do so well.
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Awesome piece Mom! But what about Aunt Loretta? I've never heard that story about you reading to Grandpa. Olivia started reading around 4 as well and I remember her dictating stories for me to write down before she could write herself. You probably forgot but she received "best writer" in the 4th grade mock elections last year. Her current teacher has mentioned nominating her for Kaleidoscope. She is currently, like her Grandma, very into "dreams". Making reference to flying. I swear she is your twin! Also, do you remember when I won the young authors award in 4th grade in Mr. Brown's class?
Thank you for sharing this story. I enjoyed it very much.
I am new to Hubpages but am so glad I found it.
This hub is awesome and beautiful. How special to have so many talented writers in one family and to be able to share a love of reading and writing with each other.
I will definitely be checking their hubs out as I so enjoy reading all of your work.
It's cool that your discovery of Hubpages was synchronistic and mysterious- something that was apparantly meant to be!
A family of talented scribes and writing certainly seems like a family tradition. I enjoyed reading this delightful hub and thanks for sharing these personal thoughts.
God bless you Denise and your scribing family!
There sure is a lot of writing talent in your family. I liked the story of your dad finding you reading comics. My son did the same kind of thing to me. I was reading to him and he told me, "shut up mom, let me do it." I did, thinking he'd make up stories about the pictures, but he read the next 10 pages or so word for word. Suprised the #$% out of me. (I'm not that good of mom about reading every day even, just got a real bright boy.)
So wonderful of you to share this here, I really wish more people had this kind of support group from there own loved ones. You are all truely blessed, I do believe that I have this support but I am not so lucky as to live with and have these family members so very close to me, I still am blessed to have them however. Very touching, stuff here I adore it! A.B.
What a beautiful circle of women you have in your own family! Writing I think is something you either are born to do or you aren't, like painting or any other art. Sure you can learn it, but the passion to keep going and keep writing is something that is either with you or not. Thank you for sharing your inspirations and your support. Wishing you all success and wonderful days ahead!
You have quite a circle of creative and supportive women - in your writing group and in your family. I like your description of your nervousness as you entered the writing group for the first time... and the fact that you didn't let nervousness and negative past experiences stop you. Thanks for sharing part of your story Denise.
Mrs. Denise
I highly appreciate your talented educated family.
My suggestion for you all to start your owm circle of women to support others, like many women supported you in the workshops in Santa Cruz.
Many women need the support from nice active people like you.
Hope to read Olivia works, sure you will succeed to improve her raw talent.
Happy day.
Very inspirational! You move me to continue to write, maybe one day on my books.
Now that's a circle to be proud of and embrace always. Great read, well done! :) Katie
I hope you and your circle write on!
It is always good to put a face to a writer, so thank you for sharing yours Denise. I could relate to your fear of entering a group of women and instead being pleasantly surprised by the support of fellow writers.
How wonderful to see the continuation of yourself, your children and grandchildren, practicing such an uplifting, educational and satisfying pastime :-)
Hi Denise, Good morning to you and your excellent hub here. I came from the opposite situation, all I wanted to be was a scientist when I grew up. But, couldn't do the Math...love this hub and your circle of women, brillently write, cheers to you and rate up Love & peace darski
I add my wow to nighthag's! You have talented family. You are also a talented writer and I am glad to read that you decided to embrace your abilities again through the women's circle. Will check out your sister's hubs.
I am stuck, cannot seem to write, not even for my book. I guess the muse will show up again when I least expect it.
BTW, nice to see a photo of you, you look great! :)
Wow, That is a lot of writing talent to be surrounded with, you are very blessed with your family and I wish you all much luck here.
a great inspiring read thank you for sharing
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