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I want to go home...

Updated on December 19, 2012

Home is where the heart is...Home is where my memories are whether; they be good or bad. Home is where I can put up my feet without any hesitations. Home is where I can cry out loud if sad or laugh out loud if happy. Those 4 walls can take in all my nonsense without judging me. I can be myself and be a natural and care free and no worries about what those 4 walls will think about me...WHY? Why do I think that home is where I am my coziest and safe?

We all are taught that the walls are non-living things made of bricks and cement. These non living things have no feelings and do not need air to breathe and water to hydrate. Non-living things are going to stand stationary (unless hit by a natural disaster) without a blink. Maybe knowing that the home we live in; the walls that we are free in; are deaf, dumb, blind, and without feelings so, we can be as free as possible; since our little secret won't be spilled out thus, we have a "don't care" attitude within those 4 walls. Those 4 walls cannot give me comfort since it does not have passion, emotions or a heart.

I wish I had the same "don't care" attitude towards the world and be as clean as I would be sitting at home than outside; with no pretexts of someone judging me and I getting perturbed by their remarks. I should be ME when I am outside of the house just as I am myself when inside the 4 walls. This kind of attitude will make me happy and content in whatever situation I am in and I don't have to go rushing into those 4 walls of mine where I have to rewind myself and go through the series of events which made me feel uncomfortable.

Life is short, and Time is money. Ask a patient who has been given couple of months to live and he will tell you the essence of time and life. Why do we have to live in that pretext of being judged. We are individuals and we gotta have a different opinion and that's what makes us different and unique. We can be as free in the world as we are in those 4 walls and believe me, life will be more fun loving and less stressful.

I know I am going to work on those guidelines and show the world my true colors so; that at the end of the day, when I am heading home. I am NOT going home with a heavy heart but a happy and content one who is going to those 4 walls to rest and take up another day with a different new challenge.

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    • rajan jolly profile image

      Rajan Singh Jolly 

      5 years ago from From Mumbai, presently in Jalandhar,INDIA.

      You are right Ruchira. I know why I love my home it's so non judgemental and I can't stand judgemental people one bit.

      Voted up.

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      Thelma Alberts 

      6 years ago from Germany

      You are right. Home is where our heart is. I have 2 of these homes. Thanks for sharing. Have a lovely weekend!

    • Ruchira profile imageAUTHOR

      Ruchira 

      6 years ago from United States

      thanks urmila. yes, we should avoid a life of pretense.

      cheers!

    • urmilashukla23 profile image

      Urmila 

      6 years ago from Rancho Cucamonga,CA, USA

      Agree, life is too short and we should enjoy each moment not even inside the 4 walls but outside with our true color. Loved it. Voted up!

    • Ruchira profile imageAUTHOR

      Ruchira 

      6 years ago from United States

      Thank you Nithya and Mary. Appreciate your feedback.

      Cheers!

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      Mary Hyatt 

      6 years ago from Florida

      This is one of the most beautiful and inspirational Hubs I have ever read. I voted it UP, etc.

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      Nithya Venkat 

      6 years ago from Dubai

      Home is where the heart is - how true. We can do what we want without anybody judging us and be relaxed. Great hub.

    • Ruchira profile imageAUTHOR

      Ruchira 

      6 years ago from United States

      Thanks ahorseback. I too find solace in my home!

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      ahorseback 

      6 years ago

      I often dream of a day of hardly ever leaving my home !.......very nice write!.....:-}

    • Ruchira profile imageAUTHOR

      Ruchira 

      7 years ago from United States

      Well said Neeleshkulkarni. I agree that we should be ourselves outside and inside of our homes but, alas I am still trying thus, the above hub :)

      Thank you for your precious comment :)

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      neeleshkulkarni 

      7 years ago from new delhi

      of course one should always be oneself wherever one is but then being a part of society means there are always some restrictions on ones behaviour which is why we need a home.

      a home to take another perspective is not a grouping of dead walls but a place which is alive because of the emotional attachments we have with the walls because of the number of times the walls have stood by us through grief and joy.

      i rememeber the words of the poet javed akthar who while speaking of the room he was brought up in and which he has aways thought of as his home said"woh kamara baat karta tha"(that room would talk to me)

      so try and be as natural in the real world as possible but when you can't, do not fret, just come back home and let the walls talk to you.

    • Ruchira profile imageAUTHOR

      Ruchira 

      7 years ago from United States

      @epigramman...you never cease to amaze me by your kind words :)

      I am glad you find my writing inspiring and intoxicating. Thanks once again!

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      epigramman 

      7 years ago

      ...well this is an essential meditation on the most beautiful place in the world - home - whether it's a physical place or in one's mind - and your hallowed hubspace feels like home to me - because your writing is always provocative, intoxicating and inspiring ....

    • Ruchira profile imageAUTHOR

      Ruchira 

      7 years ago from United States

      thank you toknowinfo for such indepth appreciation :) Truely appreciated it :)

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      toknowinfo 

      7 years ago

      This was a very nice hub. You speak words of truth and messages of hope. Well written and an enjoyable read.

    • Ruchira profile imageAUTHOR

      Ruchira 

      7 years ago from United States

      thanks vyju...ALWAYS appreciate input from friends :)

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      vyjayanthi 

      7 years ago

      This was a very though provoking article...well put!

    • Ruchira profile imageAUTHOR

      Ruchira 

      7 years ago from United States

      thank you devi for taking the time to read and comment appreciate it!

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      Devi 

      7 years ago

      Ruchira.. excellent message. This is some thing I think about often. Truly glad to read such a nice hub and I really wish everyone could be like that and not be judged :)

    • Ruchira profile imageAUTHOR

      Ruchira 

      7 years ago from United States

      Thanks Kimberly...appreciate you taking the time to read and comment :)

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      kaltopsyd 

      7 years ago from Trinidad originally, but now in the USA

      I agree, beautiful Hub. There's nothing like home. :)

    • Ruchira profile imageAUTHOR

      Ruchira 

      7 years ago from United States

      thank you jane...appreciate your comments!

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      Jane 

      7 years ago

      Beautiful message conveyed by this hub and well written :)

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