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Rihanna and The Dress: The Bigger Issues Concerning Women and Their Sexuality

Updated on June 6, 2014
Rihanna and the dress
Rihanna and the dress

I was going to circumvent this discussion because I didn't feel the need to project my opinion. However, after having a terribly maddening discussion with someone, I realized how damaging our words can be in relation to women's sexuality, and how society still holds out-dated patriarchal views.

Rihanna made a choice to wear her see-through gown made out of over 200,000 Swarovski diamonds for an event honoring her fashion acumen. She boldly photographed herself on instagram and has received a lot of attention (good and bad) about her dress.

My first question is, why is a woman's body still received with such contention? We live in a world where a nipple can cause such controversy. Scratch that- a WOMAN'S nipple can cause such controversy. It's a nipple. Every mammal on earth, from what I learned in 3rd grade science class, has nipples. Artists, writers and poets have used female bodies to represent earth, life, renewal, and love. But when the nipple is shown by a young, attractive, self-made artist then it has a completely different connotation. It's sexual. It becomes dirty. It becomes pornographic. The last I checked, Rihanna wasn't having sex on the red carpet. She was walking. I didn't get the memo that walking while having breasts was a form of pornography. Why are women's bodies considered pornographic for being what they are? Yes, we have nipples. Grow up.

There is a hypocritical notion in all this that I need to point out. What do we decide as being too sexual? Are a woman's legs too sexy? Or is it only if they are long, tall, and belong to a young beautiful female? Society seems to never associate sexuality with someone who they deem as less than attractive, older, and/or overweight. Society assigns sexuality to whoever fits the "standard" and when that female does revel in her sexuality she is denounced as being too overtly sexual. Too riské. A whore.


Virgin-Whore Complex

I believe everyone is familiar with this idea, but for those who are not, I will explain in few words. The virgin-whore complex is how women are viewed by our heavily patriarchal society. A woman cannot be sexual without "losing" her self-respect, nor can a "good" woman be viewed as sexually active. Women are divided into two simple categories as if though there is nothing else that makes her a whole person. Her intelligence, her character, her determination, her ambition are not important. Society places women into these overly simplistic opposing poles and are portrayed as either the good girl, or the bad girl.

And so, because Rihanna chose to expose a nipple and her derrière she's being called "slut", "whore", "trashy" and all these other words as if she's the first and only woman to have ever donned a scantily clad outfit. Men and women have been reacting as if though she's tearing our national fabric apart. I disagree. What's worse for our society is to have such a didactic, short-sighted view of women. What's worse is to have men call out a woman, shame her, and then turn around to have their ravenous sexual desires fulfilled by the same women they are shaming. It's another typical hypocritical notion that exists, and is far more damaging to our society than a visible nipple.

This leads me to another issue that I have with the conversations and debates surrounding Rihanna and her dress. The reason I even chose to write this hub was because earlier today I was debating about her dress with another woman, and her response saddened me and reminded me that our society has not progressed as much as we like to think it has. After I gave my rebuttal, she said something along the lines of "well, don't get upset when your boyfriend leaves you for a woman who dresses that way, because you no longer will be sexy for him." This is such a pervasive and accepted notion that is all so wrong. To project the culpability on the other woman instead of your husband or boyfriend is just another way that society blames the woman! As if the man was the innocent victim of a "sexless" and unhappy relationship with a prudish woman (virgin) and sought the companionship of another woman (whore) to feed his needs and ego. Once again it pits the women against each other, instead of projecting the blame where it well deserves to be.

  • Instead of telling women "DON'T GET RAPED", we should be teaching men "DON'T RAPE." Our language and usage of words is important, and we have to change the way we say things if we want to continue progressing as a society.

Justifying Misogynistic Views

In preparation for this hub, I was reading other articles about Rihanna and her dress, and I came upon a Huffpost article that incensed me once more. In the article, the author discusses why Rihanna's dress undermines feminism. At one point in her article she ponders why Rihanna would continue to display her ample assets on instagram while continuing to receive disgusting and sexually aggressive posts on her pictures. Once again, it becomes the fault of the WOMAN that men act in such manner. It aligns so perfectly with the "women are asking for it" notion, that I was flummoxed the author didn't realize it before publishing her article. Rihanna, and as such, no woman, is "asking for it" because of how she dresses or acts. She acts and dresses the way she wants to because it is her body, and it belongs to no one else but her.

Josephine Baker
Josephine Baker
Miley Cyrus
Miley Cyrus

The Issue of Race and Sexuality

Many people were unaware that Rihanna's dress was inspired by the great Josephine Baker. Baker was popular around the world for her singing and dancing in the 20's, and was also active in the civil rights movement. She was known to dance seductively and would sometimes perform topless. American audiences at the time were not as accepting of Baker because they were not keen on accepting a sexually confident Black entertainer. They labeled her many derogatory names, including the highly offensive "Negro wench." This sort of racism and sexism is still present today, as we've seen with the reactions Rihanna and her dress have evoked.

Why can Miley Cyrus twerk her way to feminist status, but Rihanna can't? It begs the question, why is it when white women twerk or dance seductively, it's labeled as fun, cute, and a confident execution of a female's sexual freedom. But when black women twerk, it's labeled as smut, ghetto, ratchet?

Whether or not you agree that Miley Cyrus is a feminist (I don't even want to venture into that conversation), I take issue with the fact that Black women, and possibly all other women of color, get criticized for expressing their sexuality, because there is an underlying notion that has been around for a long time before Rihanna and her dress.

Black women are portrayed as highly sexualized beings, and so if a woman like Rihanna is to express her sexuality she is confirming those same stereotypes that have permeated our society and culture. But if she doesn't express her sexuality, what agency does she have to control her body and sexuality? It is a double edge sword, and one that I feel might be present in our society for many more years to come. You can read more about this here.

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Final Words

While I think that the whole discussion with Rihanna and her dress will die down shortly, the main issue of gender, sexuality, and race will continue on much after. These types of discussions have to be done with intelligence and well-informed facts. So let's discuss. What do you think of Rihanna's dress? And why?


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    Kiss andTales 

    4 years ago

    Again people exercise their own power of right and wrong issues. Many will think it is wrong ,and many will say it is ok , and will defend her right to dress like this. Where is the law that says indecent exposure? Money talks , but money can be temporary. This tells us the how good morals are dwindling to a small number.

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    Howard Schneider 

    4 years ago from Parsippany, New Jersey

    I agree that patriarchy is clearly alive and well in this country and all over the world. You are right that it has deep religious connections like Adam and Eve. Excellent Hub, Maria-Arg.

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    4 years ago from New York City

    @Jonaive Agreed-Thank your for your response and feedback!

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    4 years ago

    Awesome hub! I agree with everything you said. Our society truly hasn't escaped patriarchy — yet. It's a wonder why some people think we have. Sure, we have progressed a lot but we have a long way to go.

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    4 years ago from New York City

    @MGSingh It's interesting that in another culture/religion a woman's body is considered to be a gateway to salvation/heaven/nirvana. It is fundamentally different than the 3 major monotheistic religions. Thank you for your reply!

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    4 years ago from New York City

    @gmwilliams I completely agree with you. A woman's body is still viewed as a gateway of sin; That our bodies are inherently the cause of the fall of Adam and Eve. These unfounded myths continue to permeate our society, it's pretty ridiculous. Thank you for your beautiful response!

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    MG Singh 

    4 years ago from Singapore

    As per Tantra, a womans body is to be worshiped to reach Moksha or salvation. One must grow out of a puritan attitude that is the hallmark of Christianity. Nice hub and voted up

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    Grace Marguerite Williams 

    4 years ago from the Greatest City In The World-New York City, New York

    There are still undercurrents of misogyny and Puritanism in American society regarding women's bodies and women's sexuality. According to religionists, tradtionalists, fundamentalists, and other conservatives, a woman's body is viewed as temptation and a source of sin. It is these pundits' contention that exposure of a woman's body will led to more and further temptation. They further assert that no "decent" nor "moral" woman would think of exposing her body. They are of the opinion that since a woman's body is temptation to the male hence that is "bad" or "sinful", modesty in a woman is deemed as proper and virtuous.

    There is an underlying Biblical premise that since Eve, women have been the source of temptation. There are those who feel that a woman who is highly sexually confident is threatening and upsetting to the societal status quo. It is the consensus that a woman must be demure/modest i.e. ashamed of her body and to be "in her place" so to speak. The strong woman who is sexually confident and is not ashamed of her body is viewed to be problematic, bold, and tawdry i.e. immodest.

    Many religious fundamentalists and other conservatives advocate a return to modesty i.e. a girl/woman being ashamed of her physical feminine attribute, covering herself up. Sexuality, particularly women's sexuality has been and continues to be a contentious and controversial issue, even in this postmoder Western culture. In the Middle East and in Muslim countries, the issue of a woman's body is highly contested and fundamentalistic Muslims have issued extreme modesty in clothing via the burka. This is an excellent hub, voted UP.


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