When we get married; we get IN-LAWS.
Getting along with the spouse is a challenge and in laws become a cherry on the top of the relationship by their constant interference. Life sure, takes a toll on the husband and the wife. Who says, Marriage is fun and cosy and a bed of roses.
A Mother-in-law in either relationship can be a bitter yet sweetness personified person in every family. Men and Women have issues with their respective mother-in-law.
Man and Woman change roles in their lives such as becoming a spouse to someone then a parent and then in laws. But a mother-in-law plays her individual role very precisely where she is always in the lime-light.
Surprisingly, Each Woman sure knows how to play that role and she starts to picture it as soon as she becomes a mother!!
My thinking to the above issue is attributing to her becoming a mother and since she is the MOTHER of that child; she cannot let him/her go. She still feels that the child could make wrong decisions or bring about changes that could hurt him/her thus, wants to be around their each and every single move.
As an adult; we get so frustrated then, my question is that :-
WHY don't we learn from it and do not repeat it when we age?
Power of a Woman!
Oh! Woman when will we start to acknowledge the changes happening in our child's life once he/she gets married and just not want the change happen it OUR way!
Liberate ourselves from this bondage of over-protection which could become suffocating for our adult! Let us be aware of it now before they start to avoid us!