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Why Man Break Up With Woman

Updated on September 29, 2014
She wants his attention.
She wants his attention. | Source

A Cruel Break-Up Scene

The woman says "OK. You don't want me any more. Fair enough! What if I find another guy, wouldn't you be hurt?

Watch this very powerful video about what can happen if we men aren't careful.

Security -Emotional and Physical

I wrote this hub to compliment my previous hub titled;

A Single Important Reason Why Men Walk Out Of A Love Relationship.

In my previous hub I talked about an important reason why a men walks out of a relationship. Here we talk about the one single important reason why a women walks out of a relationship.

Look at the photograph above. Can you guess what happening between the couple? Do you experience such a thing?

Ladies, do you feel sometimes that you are not being heard or being appreciated or protected? I'm sure many will say they do.

Guys out there. Do you know the reason why your women always gets on your nerves. At least that's what I commonly hear my male colleagues saying. Do we know why? Is the question we will answer in this hub.

Do you have time for her?
Do you have time for her? | Source
A break -up Scene
A break -up Scene | Source

In a relationship men crave for admiration. What about women? Women crave for security

I will tell you soon enough. The well accepted feminine nature has a weakness, softness, and delicateness about it. Things have changed a lot lately due to modernization and advancement in education and social status of women all over the world.

A woman whether rich, powerful or famous will always want trust, care and protection from her man. I don’t care if a woman argues against this statement. But it’s an undeniable medical and physiological fact. Why? Because these are the guarantees to her security in the relationship. Those that deny their feelings are the ones that are most hurt.

Men not interested any more
Men not interested any more | Source

Men Security needs Vs Women security needs

Men and women differ a lot physiologically and psychologically in their need for social security in a relationship.

But here we will concentrate on women and their need for physiological and psychological security in a relationship.


Simple steps to providing Emotional security to your women

Following are simple steps one can follow to provide security to a women, make her feel secured and nourish the relationship.

Do this,

1. Always make sure she is the most important women in your life and your world.

2. Make sure she gets the first priority listing in all you do

3. Make her feel proud. Compliment on good things she does infront of her friends

4. Never stop telling her how beautiful and a true friend she is and that you love her

5. Proves # 4 with your actions

6. Be loyal to her. Tell her you are hers and you will be forever hers.

Physical Security

1. Make sure there is enough money to run the household and that she has extra to spend on her personal belongings

2. Be there when she needs you for anything

3. Protect her from her enemies

4. Take her out for dates

5. Give her gifts

6. Keep clean and attractive for her

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"Ignorance of knowlede is the key to failure in any endures" Ian D Hetri


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      Ana 2 years ago

      Currently the newer coal fired power stations are very enlnorimentavly friendly. When you look up at the top of their smoke stacks you see that white plume? That is mostly all water vapor. The newer power plants capture most of the polutants (including CO2) before it is exhausted to the atmosphere. The coal is pulverized into a fine powder, as fine a talcum powder and injected into the fire box where 99% of it is burned up. The remainder ash is collected and turned into drywall material. The other exhaust chemicals are collected and sold to chemical companies. CO2 is collected and used by injecting it into oil wells to force more oil out of the oil shale, which is more economical than injecting water in to the wells. Not many power plants use fuel oil to run their boilers as it is way too expensive. Nuclear power is the way to go IMHO, but who wants a nuke in their home town?

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      Ian D Hetri 5 years ago from Papua New Guinea


      Thanks alot. Appreciate your time in commenting on my hub.

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      yssubramanyam 5 years ago from india, nellore. andhrapradesh

      good articulation. best hub.

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      Ian D Hetri 5 years ago from Papua New Guinea


      Thanks. Appreciate your comments

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      treevas1 5 years ago

      a beautiful creature ...

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      Ian D Hetri 5 years ago from Papua New Guinea


      I like the way you said it. Thanks alot for am insightful comment

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      yssubramanyam 5 years ago from india, nellore. andhrapradesh

      women is ocean of love . she will sacrifice every thing for sake of dear heart. she will under go all sorts of miseries for sake of dear heart. no barrier, unfortunately dishonesty of men and substandard treatment compels them to be reactive.

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      Ian D Hetri 5 years ago from Papua New Guinea


      Thanks for your comment. Taking into consideration your suggestion. Appreciate your comment

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      Brett Caulton 5 years ago from Thailand

      Interesting tips, you have some good advice. However, I think 'proving' your feelings via your actions needs to move up the list a little, after all "actions speak louder than words" ;-).

      Socially SHARING and voting this up.

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      Ian D Hetri 5 years ago from Papua New Guinea


      Thanks so much for commenting. What you said is true. Both partners are responsible for making the relationship work. I look forward for you coming back and reading more of the hubs I will produce in future about relationships.

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      Jen Christopherson 5 years ago from Oklahoma, USA

      This article I love!!! You have learned much about women! 0.o I wish I could meet men who not only believed in what you wrote here (except you need to add in her working with her partner... as HattieMattieMae said) but, also, take action based upon it!!! Thank you for writing this! I will be referring my male friends here!

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      Ian D Hetri 5 years ago from Papua New Guinea


      I agree with you about the financial part. But even if she works, the man has to support her with some money. The women has to do the same. All in the name to create a mutualistic balance in the relationship when it comes to sharing responsibilities.

      Thanks for dropping by and commenting.



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      HattieMattieMae 5 years ago from Limburg, Netherlands

      I agree with you 100%. The only one thing is the money part. I don't think it is totally up to a man to meet all her financial needs. For the most part is team work in today's world. Fortunately from being married even if a man does support a woman, I learned life brings many things that can happen. Such as loss of jobs, accidents,death, etc. A woman really needs to know how to take care of her self financially just in case hardships to come. :)