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Important Reason Why a Man Walks Out of a Love Relationship
I was having few drinks at the senior executive club few days ago with the company directors from Belgium when a colleague said this words “It sucks to have a wife that makes you feel like a stranger in your own house” My colleague is a highly respected, admired and a reputable manager in Hargy Oil Palm Limited, a agribusiness company under SIPEF group of companies based in Belgium.
That sentence inspired me to write this hub. I have long tried to establish the single most important reason why a man walks out of a relationship. Of course there are countless reasons why men walk out of relationships. But we want to be very specific here so that you don’t get yourself confused.
Obviously one of the first question that comes to the mind of a women when a relationship breaks is “What did I do to make him leave?
Just like using SEO to search for an answer of your choice in goggle, you have to do specific search. Ok! Open up your goggle browser and type in the question -Single Important Reason Why Men Walk Out Of A Relationship - What do you get? Millions of websites that gives you millions of reasons why a men walks out of a relationship. The question is “What answer is correct? To be at least accurate in your search in the countless search engines in internet, you follow certain steps that lead to what specific answer you’re looking for or a few of them you combine to build your own knowledge base.
Here is no different. Ask any single man living on this planet the question what is the single most Important Reason Why Men Walk out Of a Relationship? Again billion answers. Uh! Confuse and frustrated? Answers may vary from sex, finance, love, family, job, personal attributes, education, culture and the list is infinite.
The single most important reason that has been overlooked all this years is “Admiration”
You may be saying, Ok! What’s with the admiration that you are bluffing about?
I can prove beyond reasonable doubt that men crave for admiration in a relationship. We men long to have great sex life, better financial status, an adorable family, better education etc etc. Why? So that we can be admired not only those in the society but our wives or girlfriends.
A religious fanatic may tell me. We don’t seek admiration in the church. Great! I agree with you. But let me ask you this. The last time you delivered a great sermon and few members complimented “That was a great sermon” Did you feel anything at all or nothing? If you did feel a tingling kind of satisfaction deep within you? That feeling of satisfaction came about because of the approval you got from others. Why do they approve your action? Because they admire you or if not, what you did.
One wants to have some recognizable social status in the society. If not given that in the society, than that person will seek admiration from those very close to him. Be it close friends or family.
Attention and admiration is unquestionably the biggest need of a man in a relationship. How do you as a man feel when your woman doesn't appreciate what you provide be it sex, love, money and just about anything?
You feel unappreciated right! So you have highest tendency to look elsewhere. To the women, if your men don’t feel appreciated and admired, what is it there for him to stay?
Small things count.
· Do you laugh at his jokes as you used to when you first dated?
· Do you tell him how great he looks in his new shirt?
· When was the last time you kissed him and tell him what a great dad he was for taking the kids out when you went to visit your girlfriends?
· Do you give him a passionate, steamy sex like the first time you were dating or just a quickie because you have to go to work?
This hub makes a women look a slave here but that’s reality. There’s no such thing as a good man. A good man and a good relationship is built and it’s not hereditary.
Things To Ponder
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