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For the single guys

Updated on January 11, 2016

There are some guys your parents wouldn’t want to see you associate with, they are either tagged bad or some sort some negative status. However these guys are also attracted to women. Most women like the bad guys, a tough guy and a guy with multiple guts. Also at times, men are also attracted to women who can be very bad. I have seen so many ladies that are tagged bad so every single guy should watch out for the bad girl because she is not good for a wife rather a WICKED DOG

A serious commitment such as marriage is a life time contract and guys wouldn’t want to be jammed in a single cell forever. So when choosing a wife, it is very important to ignore the bad girl and go for the best match. Please do not be blinded by lust, you need a woman that you can count on 24/7, a woman who will watch your back even if it means lying down her own life; that is a wife. Someone you can see standing beside you in good times and in bad.

Five kinds of women you should not even think of ending up with:

1. ALWAYS HAVING ISSUES: This kind of woman is that kind that always has issues of different sorts, always in distress and every time you are the one helping her out. She complains more about how difficult things are for her yet she uses a very expensive cell phone and tunes her hair in an expensive salon, she spends more than she earns and whenever she is with you, she wants you to spend whether you are buoyant or not.

2. NEVER SATISFIED: This kind of woman is quite different from the always having issues kind although they share few similarities. However, she is never satisfied no matter how much you try to please her, you take care of all her bills yet she calls and ask you to buy her a phone card just minutes after giving her some pocket money. No she is not greedy but sees you as a jerk; guess you wouldn’t want this kind of woman to raise your kids.

3. THE PSYCHO: This kind of woman is always extremely beautiful, when dating her, you feel on top of the world because maybe she is a super model or working in a big organization, she is highly independent and doesn’t demand much from you but when it is buzz time, you go five shots and she go twelve shots, she can’t do without her cigar and also has problem with anger, she is high tempered and moody, she hugs you and the next minute she is biting your ears. Believe me; she will never get on well with your mum or relatives.

4. ALWAYS IN NEED: This kind of woman is always broke and believe me is naturally very stingy and you must constantly remind her that you are there for her yet she panics all the time because apart from her personal needs, her siblings are all dependent of you, in fact even before you show marriage interest, her relatives begin to call good in-law, this is a sign of pro longed extended family headache because her own family comes first. This kind of woman wants marriage before you both know more about each other and even if you have known for long, there is this sense of insecurity in her that without you, she can’t move forward. It is true that when you love someone, you want the whole of that person but that is not the case here because her feelings are not genuine.

5. PREFERS TO DRIVE YOU: There is no single problem with your woman driving you but those that take it as their right are nothing but the control freak, she wants to be your boss, she tells you exactly what she want and you must do it her own way. She doesn’t want your friends around and she decides when you give your parents arms, she wants to know where you are, who you are with and how many times you left your desk in the office to use the washroom. She demands for your password, your bank card pins even when you willingly want her to have all these infos, she demands that you give them to her because she considers you her lapdog.

All these kinds of women are very skillful on bed and although the No 5 kind withholds action because she says when .However, it is very important for guys to know that it is not always about what she does on bed and how she does it, bad girls are always the exact breeds that blows you off your feet but only to end up hurting you. It is not about the new generation girl, bad girls dates back to the start of this race, remember Delilah, Jezebel, Salome and even the original trouble maker EVE.

If you are dating any girl that falls into any of the five categories above, just turn around and back off because if you end up marrying her then your own case is OVER.


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    • Rossimobis profile image

      Chibuzo Melvin Mobis 2 years ago from Biafra

      Hey Jodah, no i didn't make dating sound fraught because i mentioned going for the best match, it is not that there are no good ones but this is just a tip of the ice bag and you know what i mean because you are married.

      I agree with you dashigscorpio, you made some fantastic points above because it is so true that some go after whatever they find pleasurable. Thanks for contributing.

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      dashingscorpio 2 years ago

      Everything you mentioned is true!

      However I believe there is someone for everyone. In other words there are men who "love" all of the types of women you mentioned!

      Some might argue those women remind them of their mothers or women who played a major role in their lives "formative years". They themselves may not know why they find such women attractive. They choose them on "auto pilot".

      As with a lot of women some men are also attracted to "drama".

      Level headed women are boring to them. These types of guys are often smart enough to marry such as woman but will find a mistress or "side chick" to fill that "drama void". Some guys will swear to you that the best sex is with a woman who is psycho! LOL!

      Life is a (personal) journey.

      I believe ultimately everyone has to do some serious introspective thinking to figure out who (they) are and what they want/need in a mate (before) they go out to pursue relationships. Those who don't are essentially doing the equivalent of going shopping without a list!

      They allow "impulsive connections" and "happenstance" to dictate their relationship choices.

      It's been said that men fall in love with their eyes and women all in love with their ears. However with age comes wisdom. Men learn that everything that glitters is not gold and women learn that actions speak louder than words.

      It's too bad most of us have to trade our youth to gain wisdom. Immaturity resolves around immediate or short-term thinking as oppose to long range goals. If one is only concerned with "right now" odds are they will go after whatever they find "pleasurable" in the moment. One man's opinion!:)

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      John Hansen 2 years ago from Queensland Australia

      Good to know about these five types of women Rossimobis. You make dating sound fraught with danger Fortunately I am married.