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Fun Ways for Couples to Get to Know Each Other

Updated on June 16, 2017

Getting to know specific things about your partner can be very fun, exciting and surprising. It is worth asking questions to get to know them in a more personal way. You will find out things about them that may seem very shocking, but good or different. Here is a list of ways to get to know your partner.

1. Life Moments/Events- Share with each other childhood moments, stories from school days, college, memorable events, events that change their lives, embarrassing moments, funniest moments, times when you were afraid, disappointed, hurt, etc.

2. Dates- Ask about your partner's very first date, the place he/she went to, how old were they, the most horrible date they ever have, what is the best date or what you consider the best dates.

3. Jobs - First Job, best and worst jobs and what or who inspired them to pursue the job or career that he/she is now in.

4. Talk about real life role models, mentors, people who inspired him/her and those they consider heroes in their lives over the years.


5. Ask about foods- these are favorite foods for breakfast, lunch and dinner, fruits you like, vegetables you like, favorite type of pizza, favorite brand of coffee, favorite snacks, favorite restaurants, types of foods you like- Italian, Mexican, Indian, Mediterrean etc. foods you dislike and restaurants you dislike, favorite dessert, ice cream, preferred drink,

6. Music- ask about favorite romantic songs, pop song, country songs, favorite music band as a teen and favorite music artist and why they are considered their best?

7. TV/Movies- favorite talk show, cooking shows, favorite adventurous movie, favorite romantic movie, favorite suspense, thriller, comedy novies, favorite actor, actress, celebrities you do not like.

8. Quotes- discuss quotes that inspire you, quotes from famous people about life, love, happiness, success etc., your own definition of love when you were younger and now as an adult, how would you define love.

9. Money- the most expensive thing you ever bought, any loans you could not pay, any present financial debt, are you spender or saver.

10. Places- vacation spots you visited while growing up, cities and countries you want to visit or possibly desire to live one day.

11. Miscellaneous- what's the one thing no one knows about you, how would you describe yourself, how would others describe you, what factors contribute to a good relationship, favorite color, flower, perfume, book,etc.

12. Likes/Dislikes- things you like and dislike about yourself, things you like about your partner, what you like and dislike about your family, things you dislike at restaurants, dislike about people, your country, etc.

13. Activities- fun activities you enjoy, things you do in your spare time, hobbies, sports, etc.

14. Opinions/Views- opinions on drugs, alcohol, pornography, gambling, abortion, and so forth.


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    • Janellegems profile image

      Janellegems 4 years ago from United States

      Thank you so much. I appreciate your comment.

    • HaileyAdams profile image

      Hailey 4 years ago

      cool hub, really fun ways to know your partner, will try to use them in future. thanks for your ideas.

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      John Paolo B.Magdaluyo 4 years ago from Philippine

      nice hub there, found it useful for my future relationshp