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"Get a divorce don't kill"
"Get a divorce, don't kill"
"Get a Divorce, don't kill your spouse"
Mark chapter 10 - 4 : Moses suffered to write a bill of divorcemnet and put her away. Divorce isn't just about putting her away, somethimes we have to put him away.
Deuteronomy chapter 5 - 17 : Thou shalt not kill.
We all fall in love and get married for better or for worse, and we live together happily for a while. Things start to change and it's not for the better. At one point or another, we finally come to the conclusion that after a marriage of counseling, and trying to save it. We come to the realization that there's nothing left to save.
If both parties are in agreement that the marriage is beyond repair, then the next thing is ending it, especially if there is has been pain caused from your spouse. There are occasions that people marry for the money, and this is a bad situations because the spouse wants to get his or her share of the money.
If you ever watched the next 48 hours or 20/20 you know what happen to these people, when greed take over. The sad thing about these particular scenarios is one of the spouses always end up dead because of the greed from the other spouse. I think spouses thinking in this manner has a loose screw somewhere. These greedy hungry men or women, go as far as hiring people to kill their spouse, and it's all because of the love of money.
I think the simplest and most logical thing to do is to get a settlement from the other spouse instead of killing him or her off. If there are children involved, I don't think, they we even consider the children. all they're seeing is the dollar signs. Children should be considered regardless because they'll have to live with the fact, that one parent killed the other parent and there's no way around it.
If the spouse we're divorcing has enough money, then just maybe you will be given a substantial amount of money for your up keep. If you have your spouse killed, you're the first person to be under suspicion for the murder, whether you did it or not. Is it worth you losing everything in your life. When you married this person you had some love and respect for him or her, so why not have enough of the same to let him or her go.
We're messing up, our spouses life and the life of our children if we kill them, and your life in the process. No one wins in this situation, not your spouse, your kids and certainly not you. Killing anyone because of money is dumb, because you want be free to spend any of it. You'll behind bars. Take my advice, get a divorce and get a life, by sparing your spouses life.
Benny Faye Douglass