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Give Roses to Love ones while they LIVE!!!

Updated on February 3, 2012

Today we live in a world that everybody says they love one another. I wonder just if they know the true meaning of love or do they just say it because everyone does? I think everyone needs to ask themselves do I really love this person. How far will my love go for him or her? Well let me tell you love is not just saying it but meaning what you said, love goes a very long way, it’s showing the person how much you care, value and love them.

By always being there for them, you may not be always available physically or financially but you can still be there in many different ways even if it’s just to call and say hello, how you doing? Or to drop in and look for someone who is sick, you can even send a nice text or something to cheer up that person. How many times we say we love GOD, and we despise people who live right among us? How can we love God whom we cannot see and hate our neighbour? It is so sad to see how people cannot help their neighbor or a family member but LOVES GOD. That is not love!! True love is;


Love will make us forgive and try to forget

Love will make us say that we are sorry

Love will make us think before we act or say something that we will regret

Love is putting you out of the way to help someone else.

Love is helping those who are less fortunate than you

Love is being kind to someone even if it’s to help an old person cross the road or to open a taxi door for someone.

Love is praying for someone who is sick or is in need of an answer for pray

Love is sharing what you have with others

Love is not being selfish and keeping all the good things to yourself

Love will make us try our uttermost best to love your enemies.

Love is making time for your family and friends

Love is saying a kind word to someone who is down to cheer them up.

Love is having reason, understanding and consideration for others.

Love will make you laugh when your friends laugh and cry when they do.

Too often we show our true love when the person we said we love died. Why do we always carry the biggest reet/flowers to the funeral homes? When we never took one flower to that person when they were alive? Why do we always write such a remarkable urology about how great that person was? Why do we always have to wait to go to a funeral to find out about that person’s life? When in truth and in fact that person might have lived next to us or with us for many years? Why do we cry so much at the funerals is it because we will genuinely miss that person or is it regrets of how we treated him or her before they died?

We should never wait until someone die to say all the kind things about them, because it makes absolutely no sense, they cannot hear or see you then. I plead with you let us do what‘s right before it’s too late, let us appreciate and love those around us before they go away. No one knows what tomorrow will bring so we must treat every day as our last. Give love ones there roses while they are alive!

Written by: Joanna Chandler

Copyright © 2012



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      Joanna Chandler 5 years ago from On planet Earth

      Oh yes I need all my roses now especially in times like these.

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      Joanna Chandler 6 years ago from On planet Earth

      Thanks alot Phoebe i appreciate your stop and read

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      Phoebe Pike 6 years ago

      I give flowers and roses to my fiance every chance I can. You wrote a very interesting hub. I give it four and a half stars. ^_-

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      Jackie Lynnley 6 years ago from The Beautiful South

      I stopped following you and started again, because I never got one notice and you have 3 new ones! Sorry, hope this fixes it. How have you been doing?

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      Joanna Chandler 6 years ago from On planet Earth

      Hello Finace Hub glad you came buy and yes i will check your hubs as soon as i get some times. Very busy this weekend gone i am now trying to catch up :)

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      Joanna Chandler 6 years ago from On planet Earth

      Hi Crystar how are you?

      Thanks so much for stopping by. See me soon on your side.

      A bit busy this weekend but i will be there by Monday plz God to read a hub or two

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      Crystar 6 years ago

      Hi Ladyfiddler! I like the way you talk abt LOVE.Yeah, I have to agree with you. Though I'm not that experience but I learn alot from my dearest brother & his sweet fiancee. My brother once told me if we really love that someone, we have to sacrifice alot and put aside our ego. Anyways, great hub! Voted up. God bless you.