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How Can I Solve My Relationship Problems?

Updated on January 25, 2020
Healthy Relationship
Healthy Relationship

Fights and disagreements are usual in the relationships. Arguments happen when two persons spend a lot of time with each other. These arguments can be on big and small things, like failing to complete the chores or for food. Sometimes the problems are big and they can bring your relationship to end if not resolved timely. You can improve your relationships by handling the issues properly.

Having problems in a relationship may cause of stress-related diseases like depression and lower immunity. Sometimes it becomes too hard to deal with the issues and you need advice from some experts. If you feel that your relationship has some problem and you are not able to understand what to do then these 5 simple ways found by some relationship experts can help you to solve all related problems.

1. Initiate Discussion and Let your Partner Respond

Initiate to talk about the problem with your partner. If you don’t do that, you will never solve them. Don’t expect your partner to guess because he/she is not a magician. So tell your problem directly to your partner and discuss politely.

Also, let your partner talk and listen to him/her attentively. Half of the problem will be solved by doing this. You can better understand each other and find solutions to the problem.

2. Stop Blaming and Think About the Problem Together

Blaming your partner can increase your troubles in a relationship. Instead of proving yourself right and your partner wrong, think about the problem together. Consider both the opinions and find a solution accordingly. Always remember, things will only get better if you will do them together. It is a constructive way to handle any problem easily.

3. Always Say Yes to Help

Always say yes if your partner asks for help with anything even when you are angry with each other. Never impose your partner on what to do or what not to do. Instead, make efforts from your side to resolve a particular problem. It will also inspire your partner to do the same and help you to solve the issue. In the home chores always offer help from your side first. This is a good step to make your relationship stronger.

4. Take Care of Your Partner

Love and acceptance have an amazing power to make it easier to solve the problems in a relationship. Pay more attention to your partner and try to understand their feelings during a crisis. It will realize your partner how much you take care of him/her and they will try to end the problems as soon as possible.

5. Be Patient While Dealing with Problems

The patient is a good remedy for many problems especially during the conflicts in a relationship. Losing your patient may result in the worst situations. So, avoid raising voices, abusive words and quarrels to save your relationship.

Follow these 5 simple ways to solve your relationship problems and enjoy amazing love life.


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    • dashingscorpio profile image


      15 months ago from Chicago

      "Fights and disagreements are usual in the relationships. Arguments happen when two persons spend a lot of time with each other." Not necessarily!

      Incompatibility and a lack of shared values is the main cause.

      There is no amount of "communication" or "work" which can overcome being with someone who does not want what you want.

      If you or your partner has to change your core being to make a relationship (work) you're probably with the wrong person!

      The goal is to be with someone who shares your same values, wants the same things for the relationship, and naturally agrees with you on how to obtain those things.

      Compatibility trumps compromise!

      Like attracts like and opposites attract divorce attorneys!

      Younger couples tend to fight more than older couples because older couples are better at separating the "small stuff" from the major stuff. So called "power struggles" are often ego driven.

      It's unrealistic to expect someone to become who they are not. Generally people don't change unless (they) are unhappy.

      Life is too short to be trying to change water into the wine.

      The goal is to find someone who (already is) what you want.

      When it comes to love and relationships most of us (fail our way) to success. Very few people hit a homerun their first, second, third, or fourth time up at bat. If this were not the case we would all be married to our high school sweethearts!

      There are only two ways to experience joy and peace of mind in relationships. We either get what we want or we learn to be happy with what we have. Accept them (as is) or move on.

      "Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary.'

      - Oscar Wilde


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