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How To Become a Man Magnet?

Updated on July 2, 2013

10 Simple Tips for Becoming an Irresistible Woman.

There are women “Super attractors” who attract men with an innocent wink, they can charm a man with a single smile, how awesome is that! Seems like these women have some kind of super powers or they know some secrets that are hidden from other women. Men are flicking to them as a butterfly to a flower, I wonder what is the secret of super attraction?

I came up with an idea to question my male friends and to go out to observe “super attractors” behavior and to make some notes.

Becoming a Man Magnet isn’t difficult, if you follow these simple tips.

To summarize all my observations I made a list of top qualities that an irresistible woman should possess:

To be comfortable in your own body.

Know who you are, what you want, what you deserve, love your body.

To be feminine.

A feminine woman attracts men with her flirty nature.

To be happy.

Men find happy, smiling women irresistible. A warm smile shows that you are friendly, open to meet new people, have a positive outlook any man would want to get to know you better.

To dress like a lady.

Men like sophisticated women, who dress according to their age, who know how to stand out from the crowd and how to look irresistible.

To be compassionate.

A kind, compassionate, warm woman is what all men seeking for. This woman can be a great friend, wonderful girlfriend, reliable wife and caring mother.

To be a good listener.

Even though all men know that listening isn't woman's strong point, there are women who can listen and give a time to their partner to express his opinion. Having a conversation with such woman is a pleasure.

To be a good conversationalist.

Men find a woman who can keep the conversation going very interesting. With all rounded woman you will never be bored, you can discuss current events, your favorite movies, books, shows and have a great time.

To be active.

Go out to different events, or join an activity club, go to concerts, exhibitions, be around people, make new friends, staying at home won't improve your dating life. Men consider women who are genuinely busy intriguing.

To have own interests.

Men consider a woman with her own interests intriguing. Men love to discover, with a woman who has her own passion and interests a man will always have something to discover, you can share professional and personal experience and to have a wonderful time together.

To have good manners.

It's a foundation of any relationship. Look at people when you're talking to them, say “thank you” every time it's needed, don't interrupt other people, chew with your mouth closed, sit straight,etc.

See, it's not that difficult to charm a man, to be an irresistible woman, a man magnet. Start with loving yourself. You have to clearly understand why you want to be a man magnet? Is it because you want to find the right man or is it because you just like to flirt and to be the center of attention?

Good luck ladies!

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First impression can be made in a first few seconds, and it's very easy to fail when meeting new people because you both nervous and it's natural. But if you know your strong points, use them to charm a man or to make new friends.

To me the most valuable qualities in other people are their sincerity and honesty.

Ladies don't try to pretend someone you are not, perfect your own good sides and be genuine this is a tip from Amanda Jones for you.


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      Amanda Jones 4 years ago

      Thanks VVanNess for your comment, as time goes we forget to be Women, to be feminine, that's the worst thing. All men like positive, beautiful women so don't forget to take care of yourself, to be attractive for your husband.

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      Victoria Van Ness 4 years ago from Prescott Valley

      Nice. I'm married but would like to be more attractive to my own man. :) Thank you for the tips. It's easy to forget what we did to initially attract our husbands.

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      Amanda Jones 4 years ago

      Hi, I'm sorry that you have difficult situation with men in your area it's awful. I 100% agree with you, that you have to genuinely enjoy men company to flirt with them effectively, no matter for a reason or without a reason.

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      Yoleen Lucas 4 years ago from Big Island of Hawaii

      I have been on both extremes. As a rule, I'm not popular; however, young boys at snowboard camp really like me, and when I toured Europe, my group thought I was a man-eater!

      The reason I'm not popular is because I've mostly lived in areas where men were something to be feared. I grew up in a high crime area, and I currently live in a place that's rife with drugs and teen pregnancies.

      As for the places where I was a man magnet, when I'm at snowboard camp, I flirt outrageously with all males, regardless of whether or not their potential relationship matierial, and in Europe, I felt perfectly safe with men.

      I think the most important factor in being a man magnet is to genuinely enjoy their company. It worked for Anne Frank, and it's worked for me.

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      Amanda Jones 4 years ago

      Thanks for reading and commenting! Best wishes.

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      Amanda Jones 4 years ago

      Thank you so much kenneth avery, I don't like complicated phrases I like to express my thought in a most easy and laconic way, glad you enjoyed my hub. Feel free to read my other hubs.

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      Kenneth Avery 4 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama


      You were right. I thoroughly enjoyed this hub and if it's any indication as to your other hubs, then wow! I voted up and all across on this hub. You nailed your subject with such ease, I am intimidated.

      Love your style.

      Keep up the great work.

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      Amanda Jones 4 years ago

      Thanks James, I'm happy you enjoyed my hub!

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      James W. Nelson 4 years ago from eastern North Dakota

      Hi again, AmandaJon. I always know how I want to vote, but then I always check first to see how others have voted. I voted for the smile, absolutely, there is nothing on earth more beautiful than a pretty smile from a woman (well, maybe a sunrise like the one on my Facebook page.)

      Now, if you would just write a post on how to become a woman magnet....

      Again, thank you, and now I'm heading for to follow you,

      James W. Nelson

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      Amanda Jones 4 years ago

      Hi Grahm, thank you so much for your comment, I appreciate it. I know that not all men are the same as well as women. We actually have similar goals to find our soulmate and to be happy.

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      Graham Lee 4 years ago from Lancashire. England.

      Hi Amanda. A really nice and informative hub. Yes, most men want a woman to be herself. I hate it when I hear a woman referring to men with 'They're all the same' Men are not all the same, there are baddie's and goodie's of course there are. Most men are seeking a loving wife and family.


      Voted up and following.

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      Amanda Jones 4 years ago

      100% agree with you! A woman should always look fabulous, there is no excuse for a bad look.

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      H C Palting 4 years ago from East Coast

      This is a good hub. The one tip I wish more "women" would really think about is dressing like a lady. Many attempt to pass off things as dresses that are much closer to being shirts or wear things that are simply not the right size or style for their body type. This isn't flattering for anyone of any age.

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      Amanda Jones 4 years ago


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      dashingscorpio 4 years ago

      Very sound and practical tips! (voted up and useful)