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How To Make Her So Special

Updated on March 5, 2010

I like give suggestion. Gender & relationship is my favorite category. I like something mysterious and love is also mysterious for me. The more we pursue the meaning of love makes us curious. How the love will affect a relationship if there is no mutual understanding between. Every person has a different type. In other side woman want something romantic. And I think not all men have a romantic soul. This is become dilemma. My friends said. "Although I am not romantic guy, but I give my heart to her".

Why men can not be romantic. because they were not usual. If forced will brought bad effect for him. because it was only to show it in front of the couple. while his heart refused. Things like this can be trained with the sensitivity of the heart.

Although both have eyes, ears, nose, mouth, two arms and two legs. But it is no difference between men and women. and usually involve the emotional things. Some man are sometimes less in attention, especially regarding about simple things . maybe because of it men and women was created by God to complement each other. Although sometimes he less in attention and do not care about simple things , but the attention to women for something detailed, still would make him felt special. There are many ways that can be used to make her so special. I'll write detailed special for you all. I hope this hub useful for us. For someone who still single or someone who had married could try these tips.

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Some tips for you

  • Take her to the places you've never visited both.

  • Praise the face and body which are less preferred.
  • Kissed her with love.
  • Give her much attention with sincerely and loving.
  • Dress up and perform special for her.
  • Not jealous and suspicious.
  • Renting DVDs and watching together.
  • Slowly wiped her feet with the soles of your feet when you're eating in a restaurant with her. but other people do not know about this.
  • Call her in the morning when you are out of town and told to her if you so miss her so much.
  • Send short messages using tender words. But do not show the impression that you are too over-acting and thirsty in attention.
  • Drink a cup of coffee with her in terrace of the house and talk about things of interest.
  • Support her plans and dreams.
  • Tell that you are very proud of her.
  • Cook for her, whatever with the taste. The important thing is that you made it by yourself. Love will give a delicious taste. When the taste is really delicious this give a plus point.
  • Give a gentle massage on her shoulders when she looked tired.
  • Listen to any complaints of her either work or other problems. Be loyal listener for her. by giving attention and enthusiasm, even better if we could help by giving solutions.
  • Giving small gifts or cards at the unexpected moment . Don't wait her birthday or Valentines Day.
  • Call her to simply remind if she has eaten or not.
  • Take the time to accompany her shopping. We can choose clothes for her. Remember her favorite color.
  • Cut her nails. We will feel closer to her at that time.
  • Invite her with joke. This makes a pleasant atmosphere. We can laugh together.
  • Not too demanding, give some freedom for her with good responsibility.

  • Write a love letter to her, the more often more better.

  • Save pictures in your wallet. let her know your reply that you save her picture in there. Maybe it look cliche, but it good to strengthen love. She will always be remembered wherever we go.

  • Love her unconditionally. in other words, accept her  in full, complete with all her weakness.

  • Do not give him an ultimatum or threaten her. Touch her heart gently.

  • Do not always make you as the main topic of conversation. But give her the same portion.

  • Karaoke together, choose the romantic song. Better we can duet with her. I think this is beautiful moment for us. Voice is number two, the important thing is the sing must go on….

  • Kissing her eyebrows.

  • Stroked her hair and neck.

  • Calling her with a special name, which is known only by you both.

  • Hug her suddenly from behind.

  • Taking picture together, we can do this in the photo box. You can choose weird style without shame when it seen by other people.  And you can save the result.

  • Do not force her in a hurry to make a commitment if she's not ready.

Do we act like this ? I don't think so. he was too appreciate. Until one woman is not enough

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I hope we can learn from this hub. Star from small things, maybe we do not expect that little things will make her be happy and make her so special in front of us. Treat her better than before is one way to express our love and make the relationship getting warm.

I think many hubbers have a lot of experience in the past the sweetness of life and also maintain their relationship. I think many hubbers have a lot of experience in the past the sweetness of life and also maintain their relationship. And maybe I'll learn much from you all. I am glad if you give a comment about this hub. Thanks

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    As a man I really admire woman. I was born in the beautiful word cause a woman. of course she is my mom. Sometimes I can't thought with a man action who waste the woman. I realize that many of man have a big ego. And the other side woman want to be loved and woman liked the romantic situation, How to keep the warm relationship if there's no understanding between man and woman. As a man I want to give the best for my couple. And this is naturally as a man. With one condition, we must put aside our selfish sense.


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    • prasetio30 profile image

      prasetio30 7 years ago from malang-indonesia

      My friend, vocalcoach. Thanks for coming and share your thought about this topic. Some of my friends said that I am romantic person. Personally, I really adore woman. That's why I want to share this with us. I agree with you about this information useful for men and women. They should know that romantic can be created in all moments. That's keep the relationship always on fire. I am impressed with your comment. Your vote really appreciated. Take care!

      Love and peace,

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      Audrey Hunt 7 years ago from Idyllwild Ca.

      If all of my ex's lived up to this wonderful hub - they would not be ex's :) Valuable information for both men and women. Few men have the beautiful and giving heart that you possess, prasetio. I rated up, useful, awesome and beautiful!!! God bless - vocalcoach

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      prasetio30 7 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thank you very much, Kamran100 for give your vote. I hope we can treat our partner very well and this information useful for us. Love and peace!

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      Kamran100 7 years ago

      fantastic hub. awesome tips for feel special for partner..there is a lot of good information how we can treat with a woman..rate up!

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Madam kahleranderson for your kindness to visit this hub. I am glad you share your thought about this topic. As a man I really adore woman, including you. That's why I dedicated this hub to woman entire the world, especially for hubbers. You made me impressed again. I hope you like this hub. Always keep in touch is the important things. I hope you always healthy....amen. God bless you!

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      v_kahleranderson 8 years ago from San Jose, California

      This hub hit the nail on the head, Prasetio30. Women still love to receive flowers; we appreciate hearing gentle words of praise. And - yes! - we love to hear compliments on body parts that we, ourselves, are most critical of.

      This was a VERY good hub!

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      As a man why I should pretend to public that I really appreciate and adore to woman. I think there's no wrong with that. And why I so afraid to be tender. I know the woman heart, they need support. thank you very much, Pollyannalana.

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      Pollyannalana 8 years ago from US

      You have a beautiful heart I can feel, and most men are so afraid to be tender when all it would do is make them more happy than they could know, a real man understands these things, so glad to read you and feel your kindred spirit.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks hypnosis4u2 for your appreciation to this hub. I try give the best for woman. And I think as a man we can do that. God bless you!

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      hypnosis4u2 8 years ago from Massachusetts

      I enjoyed reading you hub and the obvious admiration you have for women. I know a few guys that can do with spending some time with you.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Ghost Whisper 77 and Sage Williams for giving your time to visit this hub and give beautiful comment.

      For Ghost Whisper 77, I also hope that was you. I am glad you liked this hub. I really impressed. Thank you!

      Sage Williams, I am just ordinary person, but I am concern and really adore woman. I amg lad if this hub really benefit for us.

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      Sage Williams 8 years ago

      prasetio - You are a wonderful compassionate person. You write from the heart with much wisdom and insight. I love your style of writing and I absolutely loved this hub. You are so right on so many things. Your tips and suggestions are truly remarkable.

      Thank you for such a heartwarming and knowledgeable hub.


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      The IGNITER vs Corrupted Governments 8 years ago from The U.S. Government protects Nazi War Criminals

      What a beautiful sweet hub prasetio! Yes, little things matter! Love the hammock sweet! I wish that was me! ;)

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Micky for coming to this hub and share your thought here. I think you have a lot of experience in life and I should learn much from you. I am glad you liked this hub and thanks for your support. God bless you!

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      Micky Dee 8 years ago

      I wish I were still alive to participate. Thank you Prasetio! You know how to treat a lady! Take care!

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks alexandriaruthk, BkCreative and AARON99 for coming to this hub.

      I hope this idea bring happiness for woman and for man you have to give your pure heart to woman. And I hope the best for us.

      For BkCreative thanks for share, I agree with you between husband and wife should support each other.

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      AARON99 8 years ago

      Simply the great ideas. Keep writing.

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      BkCreative 8 years ago from Brooklyn, New York City

      I read somewhere a saying for new husbands 'The sweeter the husband the sweeter the wife.' It seems to work.

      Thanks so much for your kind thoughts and for writing them down!


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      alexandriaruthk 8 years ago from US

      I like all the images and the way you say it, You are a great lover!

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Janny, I understand with this case. I think most of woman in the world want to be the ONE. And I choose one woman in my life. I don't want to cheat her by chasing the passion. Most of guy think that "sex" is number one. And they can buy this pleasure to satisfied the passion. But for me....thanks...I don't think so!

      Thanks janny for share your thought here.

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      JannyC 8 years ago

      Nice work. Im more the guy with three women and I one of the women. I dont want to one of many I want to be THE one.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks anglnwu for supporting this hub. I am glad you have wonderful husband. And I think he love you very much. I am glad if he want practiced some of my tips above. You will be lucky wife, I hope so. Thanks

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      anglnwu 8 years ago

      Wow, so many great ideas. Now, my husband should read this! Like you say, to each his own--the idea is to be sensitive to each other's needs. Love the way you put the ideas across. Thanks for sharing. Rate it up.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Your welcome,Sandy. I hope you always loved by your husband and become a special one for him....amen

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      Sandy Mertens 8 years ago from Wisconsin, USA

      Thanks for the information.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks breakfastpop, nancy, poetlorraine, Pamela, and my brother Mystique1957 for giving nice comment and supporting to this hub.

      I am not so special but I try to give special to her. This is the point of this hub. Woman is a gift, and God create woman as a partner of man. As a man we should care with God creation like a woman. I hope it can be increasing our spirituality.

      I got a great input from Pamela. Woman should be thinking to please man also. This is kind of "take and give".

      My bother Mystique1957 , you are right. Romanticism is still the very best. I think you can do that. I believe you.

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      Mystique1957 8 years ago from Caracas-Venezuela

      My man Prasetio...

      Great hub! We think very much alike! Sometimes I thought of myself as cheesy and out of fashion, but romanticism is still the very best. Lovely hub, my brother!

      Thumbs up!

      warmest regards and blessings,


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      Pamela Oglesby 8 years ago from United States

      Prasetio, What a lovely hub and full of wonderful ideas. If a man did half those things his woman would be just thinking of ways to please him also. Very good hub.

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      poetlorraine 8 years ago

      i so love your style of writing...... nice to see you again.

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      nancy_30 8 years ago from Georgia

      Great hub. It has some really great tips for men. Keep up the good work.

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      breakfastpop 8 years ago

      Wonderful and thoughtful hub loaded with great advice.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Hello and Pete Maida for coming to this hub.

      Hello, This is just only about heart. When we give our heart and place it in the right situation, the relationship will flow like a water. And I hope this idea will woke up ourselves and doing the best for our couple.

      Pete, this is so sweet. Believe me you are romantic person. Very rare people doing this like you do. And you had done it well. Send my warm greeting to your wife. I think she is the wife for you. I hope your relationship will "life" forever...amen.


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      Pete Maida 8 years ago

      Well I must be a different kind of man. I have always enjoyed the romantic things. After twenty years Cathy and I still holds hands when we walk in the mall. We still kiss in public and we never go to sleep without saying I love you.

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      Hello, hello, 8 years ago from London, UK

      A really great hub. I wish people would go back to these thoughts and ideas. I am sure relationships would be better for it. It is the thought, repect and caring that counts and that you put in it right through. Thank you for a wonderful hub

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Darlene for giving your time to visit this hub and give a beautiful comment also.

      I am not a perfect person. But I try to give something useful for us. Your comment very touching my heart. I am very impressed. It would be nice to meet you in reality. But for me know you in hubpages is a gift for me. I am glad become your friend.

      You also appreciate what I am saying trough the hub. My spirit as a teacher always want to give something benefit like a knowledge will never end. Again.....thanks Darlene. My pray always with you.

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      Darlene Sabella 8 years ago from Hello, my name is Toast and Jam, I live in the forest with my dog named Sam ...

      I always enjoy your hubs, you have a wonderful charming generous heart, so kind and thoughtfuf. We all learn from each other, and we all become good friends reading each others hubs. It is possible to know a person from what they write about. Excellent job and I am happy to know you...Relationships can be very complicated...

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks carolina for your comment.

      I think he just a lucky guy and use his handsomeness to get woman more than one. Back to topic. Thanks for your appreciation. I think you can make your wife so special by your muscle. And I believe you love her very much.

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      carolina muscle 8 years ago from Charlotte, North Carolina

      I think you got some great ideas here... now, HOW did that guy get those three girls again? LOL


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