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10 Simple and Easy Steps to Move On

Updated on February 24, 2019
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Getting Started:


I know this is not going to be easy for you, but you should move on no matter what happens. Now, how can you move on? these are the ten things you must do.


First:


Start it with the help of "Crying" it helps to release the pain you feel inside your heart. some of us don't want to cry because they say that crying is just for kids. but you cannot resist the tears. believe me, it helps so much because it makes our body feel better about pain.

Second:

"Don't overthink" it makes you go think about so many things and it doesn't help you. it will only make you sadder, I know it's hard for you not to think of Him/Her but how can you move on if you're going to captive your self in the past?

Third:


"Ask for help"
ask for advice to the person you trust the most. You can also ask for help from your family, your mother, father or siblings. Cherish their advice just don't ask for help to the people you don't trust.

Fourth:

"Entertain yourself" there are so many things you can do. Play some sports, go to the gym, travel, hang out, watch movies, cook, read a book, clean, listen to music etc. spend time with yourself, that's the easiest way to forget your problems.

Fifth:


"Accept the truth"
if He or She doesn't love you anymore. You can not force someone to love you, like you and accept you. the truth will always set you free from the pain.

if you learned how to accept the truth it means you're matured enough.

Sixth:


"Enjoy every moment"
Do not waste your time laying down on one side doing nothing about your life. it's not the end, you can always try to love someone. love is limitless, you can love somebody as long as you want. but if you're hurting, then stop it and love someone else. Just get up.

Seventh:


"Be Patient"
always keep in mind that there's someone destined to love you, don't lose hope. love will suddenly come in time you do not expect. and that's going to be your one great love.

Eighth:

"Love yourself" yes love yourself before loving someone again, if you know how to take care of yourself then I believe that you also know how to take care of others.

Ninth:


"Turn pain into motivation"
be strong, believe in yourself but do not take vengeance. let them see that you are better than before.

Tenth:


"Be happy"
smile or laugh, you started your journey of moving on crying, now is the time to be happy because you have finally lost the things that afflicting your heart.

It's time to congratulate yourself and prepare to love again.

For me, love is the most important thing in the world. even if you have everything money, cars, and fame. without love, you'll still feel something empty inside you. so don't stop loving. live your life, be happy. your family loves you, somebody loves you.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2019 Raymart Norcio

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    • dashingscorpio profile image

      dashingscorpio 

      13 months ago from Chicago

      Sound advice.

      I'd probably make #5 my number one though. :)

      It's important to put things in perspective in order to move on.

      Accepting the truth keeps you from romanticizing the past as well as avoid getting your hopes up for a magical reconciliation.

      Your future lies ahead of you and not behind you.

      In order for your (ex) to have been "the one" she/he would have had to see (you) as being "the one". At the very least a "soulmate" is someone who actually wants to be with you!

      In a world with over 7 Billion people rejection just means: Next!

      Every ending is a new beginning!

      "Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary."

      - Oscar Wilde

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