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How to Date Someone Attractive If You Are Ugly

Updated on July 29, 2013

Date Anyone You Want

Do looks matter?

You can bet your buns they don’t.

Some might disagree, but I know better.

I’ve seen it time and time again. The ugly duckling snags the handsome Prince. The poor soul enchants the generous soul. The old one dates the much younger hot one.

How can this be?

How do they get the person they want to like, love and even marry them when they look totally different?

The truth is you can have a love relationship with any type of person you want regardless of how you look.

Intimacy starts within the heart. Looks are only the bells and whistles. They might get someone’s attention in the beginning, but it won’t last long unless you or your admirer is after a superficial relationship. Physical attraction fades whereas true love based on similar interests can last a lifetime.

First, you don’t have to show all your body to get a guy or girls attention. You don’t have to have the loudest laugh, wear the shortest skirt or tightest T-shirt to attract Mr. or Ms. Right. If you’re trying to uncover all to get someone’s attention, then that person isn’t interested in the first place, and you are wasting your time. Learn what you need to do to date someone attractive even if you think you’re ugly in this hub


How to Date Someone Attractive

1. Be Attractive

There is nothing more beautiful than self-love. No matter what you look like, you should practice self care daily. You should be happy about love and love life. People that love life and themselves exude confidence and charisma. Start to see yourself as others see you. Do people find you attractive? Do they like being around you? If they do, then don’t stress and continue to do what you are doing. If not, make changes and become more likable and approachable.

2. Know Your Core Values

What are you interested in? What do you believe in? What are you against? What do you like to do in your spare time? Do you want or like children?

3. Know What You Want

If you want to date someone attractive, then you must determine what attractive means to you and stick to it. What one person thinks is beautiful may not be attractive to another person. For example, short guys with long hair may be desirable to you, but not to others. Girls with long legs might be what you want, or you might be more attracted to brains than brawn.

4. Find Your Mate

Now that you know yourself and know what you want, strike out to find an attractive mate. The best place to find someone with similar interests is at events. Meet people at events where you are doing things that you want to do. For example, if you like to bowl, go bowling and make friends with beautiful people that love bowling just as much as you do.

Use these tips to find and date someone attractive even if you are ugly. You don’t have to be a carbon copy to attract someone that you find appealing; you just have to make a connection. Be attractive, know what you want and don’t want in a relationship is the easiest way to attract an attractive mate. Get started today because dating is not daunting. Do it today.


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      Devika Primić 

      5 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      First of all looks don't matter if someone fancies you then you shouldn't be feeling left out thought an interesting thought.


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