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How to Make Your Girlfriend Love You (Even More)

Updated on September 26, 2012

As the cliché goes: "It takes two to tango," and your future wife might be your present girlfriend.

Men are prone to heartaches, and like women they cast doubts about the sincerity and love poured on them by their girlfriends. If you have a girlfriend don’t be too sure that you’ll keep her for good, that is, for a lifetime. Nothing lasts unless you made the necessary things to make the love between you binding and everlasting as you keep the feelings for each stronger more than ever. It all boils down on how you keep the relationship works whilst you are carrying out the duties of a very responsible and loving boyfriend.

Here are some tips or pointers to keep the love between the two of you enduring:

Let her know that you have personal ambitions to achieve and dreams to make come true. Don’t make this as a weakness on your part, but rather a strength. Showing her that you are not weak, by striving hard to have a bright future.This will make your girlfriend fall in love with you further, besides most girls prefer security over good looks and physical features. Don’t forget to let her feel that she is part of that great goal you have, though.

Keep interested at all times. Girls love to talk and I mean, they do it a lot, well for most of them so as to speak, hehehe. Listen to every word she utter thoroughly and with genuine sincerity. Lending your ear to her will certainly make her feel that you are sincere and you really care for her.

Don’t take your girl for granted. Majority of girls nowadays are insecure, so it is a must for you to get rid of the insecurities on her. Show her always the right path and respect her personality and ideas at all times.

Spend “quantity and quality” time with her. The time you invest on a relationship is actually a way of getting to know each other very well like each other's weaknesses and strengths. Quality time is the way to let her feel that she is very important to your life as you shower her with tender loving care while the two of you is having a meal or snack at your favorite restaurant, telling unending stories and jokes, and doing other memorable things together.

Get back to the basics often. Flowers, chocolates and love letters are time-tested weapons in subduing your girlfriend’s battlegrounds, nyahahaha, these are also effective, as a way of a potent peace offering when both of you are ensnared with misunderstandings, heated arguments and quarrels.

When things get shaky and volatile settle the difference the quickest time possible, but be sure to have the right time in doing so. Let her cool for few hours, then when it is time to strike, do anything just to shake-off her temper and anger, like making jokes (funny or corny go ahead), or by simply being so sweet just to tame her, and say sorry and ask her why she got angry with you, to discern what moves you'll do next to subdue the fire. Don’t let the next day comes without solving conflicts and differences. It is better to lose some measure of pride sometimes than to lose a precious girlfriend.

If you have some more ideas to share go ahead feel free to posts them as comments I will be very glad to add it here in this article.

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