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How To Deal With A Homewrecking Female

Updated on October 2, 2015

Do Not Touch My Man !

I must start telling you that if a man cheats on you I don’t think he is worth fighting for. Why would you want someone who does not respect you? Worse still, if you manage to get rid of the other woman now, how do you know that there is not going to be another one in a couple of months or years?

However, I understand that for several reasons you might want your man back. Personally I wouldn’t take him back but I would take great pleasure in ruining his new relationship. It is not that I am a vengeful person; not really, I suppose I am just plain bad. So here I am to give you a few pointers to get rid of “the other woman” in his life.

Restore your self esteem

I believe that the first step towards getting rid of the other woman is to recover your self esteem. Stop believing that you are the victim in the situation. Prepare yourself to win the battle thinking that you have already won it.

Usually when a woman discovers that she is being cheated on, this is a hard blow to her self-esteem. It might be difficult to come out of your surprise and disappointment, but you need to convince yourself that you are worthy, that you deserve to live in a welcoming home, you do not deserve to be ignored or mistreated. You will need to awaken the woman within your self and regain your strength.

5 Basic RulesTo Get Rid Of “The Other Woman” In His Life.

  1. Do not let him know that you know that he is having an affair. Play the innocent so he will not suspect you of any strange happenings.
  2. Do not contact the other woman directly. She has already chosen to go out with your man and nothing that you say is going to make her change her mind, so it is not worth the humiliation of talking to her, pleading to leave your man.
  3. Learn as much as you can about your enemy. Your first strategic strength should be the power of seeing, hearing and knowing your enemy. Your second strength should be using what you know to attack.
  4. Be subtle, canny and active.
  5. Make your attacks random so she does not suspect it is you.

Some Things You Can Do Once You Know The Other Woman And You Have Enough Information About Her:

  1. Put her name in a call girl advert and post it in the call cabins around her home and workplace. If you are lucky enough to find a photo of her, Photoshop her photo and put it in the advert.
  2. Call to her work place at lunch time saying that you are from the uro-genital clinic and you need to leave an urgent personal message for Miss xx “Her Chlamydia tests were positive and she needs to make an appointment at the clinic to get treatment as soon as possible”
  3. Create an account with her name and details at a dating agency, the more desperate her case the better, and then post a link to her Facebook account.
  4. Paint her car with an “I am a bitch sign”
  5. Make them fight. A few ideas are:
  • Send her flowers with a personal invitation for dinner in a very far away restaurant, sign with your man’s name. She will be waiting there all night. Even better if you request her to dress slutty in your card!
  • Ask a male friend to phone her when she is with your man. After the second call, he will start to be suspicious.
  • Text her naughty messages when she is with your man, pretending to be a someone she met at the gym or the train.

A Few More Ideas To Make Her Life "Unpleasant"

  1. Make her believe your man is having an affair with another woman. That will hurt her!
  2. Ask a male friend to invite her somewhere and then appear at the same place with your man.
  3. Order some gifts for her with your man’s credit card. Make it look as if it was she who made the orders. More than likely he won’t like her using his credit card without his permission.
  4. Call his work several times a day when he is not in and leave messages with her name. Try to make her sound as annoying as you can. He will get upset that she is phoning him at work to control him.
  5. Tell him you are getting some strange calls.
  6. Tell him you have seen a woman with her description wandering around your house. Play the innocent, pretend you are scared that she might be complicit with someone trying to rob in your neighbourhood.
  7. Send her a message from his mobile “I am desperate to make love to you again my blond sex bomb” if she is brunette she will think that he made a mistake and they will have an argument about it. Do not forget to delete the message from his phone.

Once you are satisfied with making her life hell and their relationship hellish enough to make them want to join a monastery, you can dump him and tell him you are not interested in him anymore. The odds are that we will come back begging…

Enjoy your victory!

© 2010 Anath


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    • Levertis Steele profile image

      Levertis Steele 

      5 years ago from Southern Clime

      I once thought about doing a couple of these things before I divorced my first husband, but I was afraid to do them. He left the woman who came between us and became engaged to marry again before our divorce was final. His prospective in-laws, the father a minister who would marry them and his wife, sent out invitations to the wedding, again, before our divorce was final. I feel certain that the bride's parents did not have a clue about his marital status, but the bride did. My husband was so sure that we would be divorced in a matter of weeks. I thought about confronting her parents to shame and embarrass my husband and his bride-to-be before her church family. I thought about appearing at their church before the final divorce decree and making the announcement, but I just could not do it. I suppose I was too ready to move on to bother with that. If this had happened during my early grieving period, I would have been terrible!

      Now, when I look back, I am glad that I did not do it. It was not long after their marriage that his sister-in-law told me that they were having difficulty. I was thankful that I was not the wife. All is a ghost of the past that seems more like a faint dream than a reality, and I seldom think about it.

      This hub is so funny! I must say that a woman needs to be very crafty to carry any of these out successfully. If she makes the wrong move, she could get the butt whiping of the century to carry into her new life, and that would not be very funny. :D

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      7 years ago from Lost in America

      I saw the beginning of this in the answer section, and WOW, I bet your a heck of a chess player! I have found karma (not your other poster but 'Karma') will get them in the long run!

      It's SO TRUE, if a man has that "wandering eye" and he either left a girl for another girl, he ALREADY had a wandering eye! He just FOLLOWED IT, and followed through with it! It's sad. And those women who believe they cheat ONCE, but won't again.. they're so sadly mistaken. Like anything, they just learn from their mistakes and don't make the same one twice! The ol' trial and error theory! lol. Great hub! Hope it wakes someone up out there!

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      7 years ago

      i agree

    • stacies29 profile image


      8 years ago from Washington DC

      I am with it, girl these homewreckers are terrible, they deserve evrything they get

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      8 years ago

      Well for starters a certain pizza delivery place is about to deliver 8 pizza's to her home..............................................

    • Anath profile imageAUTHOR


      8 years ago

      good luck and enjoy, Karma...

    • Anath profile imageAUTHOR


      9 years ago

      share it Runway, you can both have a lot of fun. I remember following my friend's husband one night, we got caught in the most amusing situations. Thankfully for my friend we never found out anything bad, but we had a lot of fun playing the detectives LOL

    • Runway profile image


      9 years ago from New York

      Ha, ha, ha, this is funny! I need to share this with my friend who had this crazy girl take her boyfriend!

    • Anath profile imageAUTHOR


      9 years ago

      you know what they say stricktlydating... "good girls go to heaven, bad girls have fun" :-)

    • stricktlydating profile image


      9 years ago from Australia

      Oh my goodness! That is so wrong but I can see how tempting that would be! So long as you went and dumped him afterwards! Classic!

    • Anath profile imageAUTHOR


      9 years ago

      LOL, there you are Pamela99, revenge can be fun :)

      I am not too much into vengenace neither terced ojos, but don't get me cross...

    • terced ojos profile image

      terced ojos 

      9 years ago from

      Hmmmm...I'm not much into vengeance but if I was I would certainly try some of these things. I got goosebumps as this fragment of a line ran through my mind..."a woman scorned..." BRRRRRrrrrrrr.

    • Pamela99 profile image

      Pamela Oglesby 

      9 years ago from Sunny Florida

      This was a great hub. I loved the revenge moves. After all payback should be hell. I got a lot of laughs with this hub.

    • Anath profile imageAUTHOR


      9 years ago

      That sounds like a good thrill BkCreative. I think that there is nothing wrong in getting even as long as no one is seriously harmed. Like you say, we need to solve our problems the best way we can without having to fall into violence. Now if "solving" that problem is also fun... all the better :)

      LOL, I really hope you don't need to use this tips emievil. Good luck and all the best!

    • BkCreative profile image


      9 years ago from Brooklyn, New York City

      You know I've watched a variety of 'vengeance films' from all over the world - and people do some really effective and creative things. Here, in the US we are told that we are just supposed to call a lawyer - what? Or we just go out and shoot everybody. Wrong, wrong, wrong. Be creative.

      First let me say - I'm with you - I'll have nothing to do with a liar or a cheater and that is in any kind of relationship, I demand better. OK - but here is an example of getting even in a Russian film.

      This woman had to get even with this guy that did her wrong. She was a manager at an amusement park - so she had a couple thuggish friends bring him to the amusement park - and she strapped him into a roller coaster and sent him off - why? She knew he had a weak heart! Wow! Quite the heat-pounding lesson. He didn't die - just had some pain put in his heart too - and he knew never to mess with her again. Foreign films seem to exact a justice, American films - well, pull out the gun. It's just not creative.

      Hey, we know now that we have to solve all our own problems. We're not supposed to use guns - but surely we are not supposed to just sit there and be abused.

      Thanks for a fun hub to start my hub day!


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