- Gender and Relationships
How To Deal With A Homewrecking Female
Do Not Touch My Man !
I must start telling you that if a man cheats on you I don’t think he is worth fighting for. Why would you want someone who does not respect you? Worse still, if you manage to get rid of the other woman now, how do you know that there is not going to be another one in a couple of months or years?
However, I understand that for several reasons you might want your man back. Personally I wouldn’t take him back but I would take great pleasure in ruining his new relationship. It is not that I am a vengeful person; not really, I suppose I am just plain bad. So here I am to give you a few pointers to get rid of “the other woman” in his life.
Restore your self esteem
I believe that the first step towards getting rid of the other woman is to recover your self esteem. Stop believing that you are the victim in the situation. Prepare yourself to win the battle thinking that you have already won it.
Usually when a woman discovers that she is being cheated on, this is a hard blow to her self-esteem. It might be difficult to come out of your surprise and disappointment, but you need to convince yourself that you are worthy, that you deserve to live in a welcoming home, you do not deserve to be ignored or mistreated. You will need to awaken the woman within your self and regain your strength.
5 Basic RulesTo Get Rid Of “The Other Woman” In His Life.
- Do not let him know that you know that he is having an affair. Play the innocent so he will not suspect you of any strange happenings.
- Do not contact the other woman directly. She has already chosen to go out with your man and nothing that you say is going to make her change her mind, so it is not worth the humiliation of talking to her, pleading to leave your man.
- Learn as much as you can about your enemy. Your first strategic strength should be the power of seeing, hearing and knowing your enemy. Your second strength should be using what you know to attack.
- Be subtle, canny and active.
- Make your attacks random so she does not suspect it is you.
A Few Words About Infidelity
Some Things You Can Do Once You Know The Other Woman And You Have Enough Information About Her:
- Put her name in a call girl advert and post it in the call cabins around her home and workplace. If you are lucky enough to find a photo of her, Photoshop her photo and put it in the advert.
- Call to her work place at lunch time saying that you are from the uro-genital clinic and you need to leave an urgent personal message for Miss xx “Her Chlamydia tests were positive and she needs to make an appointment at the clinic to get treatment as soon as possible”
- Create an account with her name and details at a dating agency, the more desperate her case the better, and then post a link to her Facebook account.
- Paint her car with an “I am a bitch sign”
- Make them fight. A few ideas are:
- Send her flowers with a personal invitation for dinner in a very far away restaurant, sign with your man’s name. She will be waiting there all night. Even better if you request her to dress slutty in your card!
- Ask a male friend to phone her when she is with your man. After the second call, he will start to be suspicious.
- Text her naughty messages when she is with your man, pretending to be a someone she met at the gym or the train.
A Few More Ideas To Make Her Life "Unpleasant"
- Make her believe your man is having an affair with another woman. That will hurt her!
- Ask a male friend to invite her somewhere and then appear at the same place with your man.
- Order some gifts for her with your man’s credit card. Make it look as if it was she who made the orders. More than likely he won’t like her using his credit card without his permission.
- Call his work several times a day when he is not in and leave messages with her name. Try to make her sound as annoying as you can. He will get upset that she is phoning him at work to control him.
- Tell him you are getting some strange calls.
- Tell him you have seen a woman with her description wandering around your house. Play the innocent, pretend you are scared that she might be complicit with someone trying to rob in your neighbourhood.
- Send her a message from his mobile “I am desperate to make love to you again my blond sex bomb” if she is brunette she will think that he made a mistake and they will have an argument about it. Do not forget to delete the message from his phone.
Once you are satisfied with making her life hell and their relationship hellish enough to make them want to join a monastery, you can dump him and tell him you are not interested in him anymore. The odds are that we will come back begging…
Enjoy your victory!
© 2010 Anath