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Make her happy: The Physical Affection way
Before we get started:
There are 5 love languages everyone speaks. If you haven't found out what you're lady's love language is; please read: The Best Way to Show Your Lady You Love Her.
If you have already done that, and you know that your special sweet-heart is an Physical Affection Gal: Congratulations! Now, let's get started on figuring out the best ways to show her you care.
Showing your love with Physical Affection
Showing physical affection is not confined to the bedroom (sorry guys). There are endless ways to show your special someone how much you love them in this category:
- Holding hands
- A gentle brush on the arm when walking past
- Hugs and kisses during "hello" or "good-bye" moments
- putting your hand on her leg while driving (behave - we don't want accidents)
- neck massages - or back rubs (foot massages count too)
- verbalize how good it feels when she touches you a certain way.
- run a flower gently down her bare arm.
Any time you find an "opening" or "excuse" to make physical contact in a loving or playful way - do it. She feels love most through sense of touch. Speak with your hands & body.
This type of woman would rather spend the evening cuddled up next to you on the couch, playing "footsie" while watching a rented movie than going out to the theater.
Take her to a pool or lake for a date, swim together, splash water back and forth, find ways to "bump into" one another. Apply her sun screen for her. Offer to dry her off - determine your limits on this one, but you get the idea.
Have a romantic picnic in the woods together, where you can relax and sit close. Rub her arm or leg while talking. Lay back with your arm under her head to watch the clouds or listen to the birds.