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The best way to show your lady you love her

Updated on June 6, 2016

Wanting to make her happy

 Men, when you are in love there is nothing as wonderful as making your lady happy.  The way she beams when she smiles, her laugh, that twinkle in her eye... The "thank you" hugs and kisses.  It fills your heart and gives you a pride like no other. 

So just what is the best way to show your special lady that you love her?  How can you keep that smile on her face every day?  Once you know the secret - it is the easiest thing in the world to do!

Let's get started:

Step 1: Figure out what kind of lady you have!

 There are 5 different ways to show you care.  For the endless number of ways you can express your affection, they all boil down into these 5 categories:

  1. Physical Affection/Attention
  2. Quality Time
  3. Acts of Service
  4. Affirmation (compliments)
  5. Gifts

Once you figure out which one of these your lady likes best - you're goal of making her happy will be a cake walk!

Step 2: Do your homework

 There is a book called "The Five Love Languages". I have written a book review hub on it. Book Review of: "The Five Love Languages". If you are interested.

Once you know what you're looking for, you can begin to plan your strategy.  A woman who enjoys quality time will enjoy a gift of flowers, but not nearly as much as she would love sitting and watching the sun set with you.


Step 3: If you aren't sure - ASK

 Types of questions to ask would be those that help you determine what makes her more happy.

  1. Honey, would you rather have a back rub or have me do the dishes tonight? (now you're going to know if she is more of a physical attention or acts of service gal.)
  2. Darling, would you like a dozen roses and romantic card for Valentine's Day next year, or would you rather have me write you a poem about how beautiful you are?  (now you'll know if she likes gifts or affirmation more.)

Make comparisons to see which she picks the most often.  Most people generally have major followed by a close second.  Figure out what her list is from #1 all the way down to #5.

If her least favorite is gifts - you're going to save a lot of money and man hours trying to pick out those "perfect" gifts!

Make her happy: Her Way

Once you have determined which "love language" is your lady's primary group, please take a look at the corresponding article below for greater incite on how to make her happy her way.

Make her happy: The Physical Affection Way

Make her happy: The Acts of Service Way

Make her happy: The Affirmation Way

Make her happy: The Quality Time Way

Make her happy: The Gifts Giving Way


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    • Mom Kat profile image

      Mom Kat 7 years ago from USA

      samsons1 you always have such positive things to say when you visit my hubs :)

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      Sam 7 years ago from Tennessee

      up & beautiful! and this works for seniors also...