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One Reason Women Do Not Understand Men

Updated on June 8, 2015

Skirts are for Women

Vin Diesel, Kanye West, and several other male celebrities wore skirts in a fast and furious media blitz. Graying the boundaries between gender identifiers.
Vin Diesel, Kanye West, and several other male celebrities wore skirts in a fast and furious media blitz. Graying the boundaries between gender identifiers. | Source

Women have become a pawn in a wicked game

One of the long terms plans of Satanists is to completely control the raising and education of children. One of the last stages in this plan is to destroy family. Part of this effort is "feminism", a sometimes violent, very often times aggressive and contrary indoctrination. It is sometimes subtle, other times confrontational.

Update (June 2015): We now see they are teaching in some schools that there is a gender scale. In others, they tell children there is no such thing as gender.

Examples: In a movie or commercial, a man is shown to fail at something... then the woman quickly performs the task. One example is the cartoon movie Monsters vs Aliens. A meteor shoots down and is noticed by a young couple in a car: a svelt girl and a husky jock wearing his letterman's jacket. A meteor zips overhead. The teen boy is terrified, and falls and breaks his ankle. His thin date picks him up and runs to see what has happened. In the entire scene, traditional male-female roles are reversed. Throughout the entire film, you will notice the men are a bit stupid, and the women are cool headed.

The cartoon movie Brave did the same. See the trailer below.

Blurring the Line between Masculine and Feminine

In Sweden, the government is now removing the word dualities which separate genders: his/her, he/she...are all being replaced with a generic word which refers to both genders, an "it" word. And, in Alberta, the system has now actually introduced gender-neutral terms: xe, xem, and xyr. When I grew up, we had gender neutral terms. In context, one could easily discern that "he" meant either he or she. Example, speaking to a co-ed class. "If any student answers the extra credit problem correctly, he will receive 10 points." In the 70's, that meant any female or male. Everyone knew it, too.

In California, a bill passed which makes it illegal to use the following words, or their associated terms, in school text books: "family, mother, father, sister, siblings, mommy, daddy..." The same bill also established that any boy who thinks he is a girl can use the girls' locker room. Any girl who thinks she is really a boy can also shower up with the boys. Schools will also be required to provide a third set of restrooms: for gender neutral groups like transvestites. (Tip to legislators: this is not going to help those kids!)

In Sweden, it is illegal to say anything other than positive about homosexuality. In America, everyone has equal rights under the law. Except two special groups. First, gays have special laws which give them more rights than others. These are called "Anti hate crime" laws. Second, anti hate crime laws are written generically- except for the specific mention of "Christian" groups. So, gays have more protections, Christians have fewer.

Dilution of the Importance of Marriage and Family

All across America, "activist judges" are ruling contrary to the will of the people after voting has been counted, and gay marriage is becoming legal. In California, Governor Schwarzenegger and now Governor Brown have refused to defend Proposition 8. Private citizens donate to pay a team of lawyers to defend the desire of Californians. In Sweden, once gay marriage was recognized, marriage between males and females plummeted. Polls showed that the youth saw marriage as nothing special- just a legal status.

This is all an attack on family. This is why women are becoming hostile toward men. It is being programmed into them by planned (conspired, to be exact) theater.

Men must Pee like Girls- New Laws

Have you recently heard people complaining about how men pee on the floor when urinating? Guess what: the ultimate goal of this is to make it illegal to pee standing up; they want men to pee sitting down just like the girls. Don't laugh... such a law is already passed in Germany! That's right: German men must sit down to pee like women do when using public toilets. Similar laws are proposed in Sweden (they are really losing there) and in Europe as well.

Even the argument about leaving the seat up is started intentionally to rally women against men. Tell me, why is it that men don't accuse women of leaving the seat down? Statistically speaking, the chance of a man coming in to find the seat up or down is the same as for a woman to come in and find the seat up or down. Would it not be fair for both sexes to just leave it like they used it? My wife is from Ukraine, where feminism has not taken root. I sometimes intentionally leave the seat up to see what she will say. And, she has never said one thing about it. She is not offended because there is no offense in leaving the seat up or down. Unless someone was programmed to believe it is an offensive, discourteous act, they will not be bothered.

Holding Open a Door is Sexist- But only if a Man Holds it for a Woman

If the toilet seat example does not clarify the idea of a negative schema impacting interpretation, here is another example. Most men have experienced this. Everyone, men and women both, tend to hold open a door as they pass through. This prevents it from smacking the next person behind them. It's a reciprocating courtesy practiced by nearly everyone. One day, I hold the door for the person behind me. Another day, the person ahead of me keeps it open for me, quid pro quo.

Once in a while, however, a man will hold open the door for a woman who has been told this is a derogatory, bigoted action, the work of a misogynist. In my own life, I have twice been severely lectured by a feminist who informed me that she was "strong enough to open the door" without my assistance. In one case, I had not even observed whether a man or woman was behind me. I only knew a person was there. In the other (I was single then), the girl was pretty and I held the door hoping she would think me polite and give a smile or a thank you. Instead, I was lambasted. In neither case did I think, "Oh, this helpless, weak female will be trapped outside unless I hold the door."

Honestly, ladies, none of us men believe you will be trapped outside, unable to open the door, prevented from entering, unless one of us superior men uses his man-muscles to leverage open the portal for your dainty passage. Most of the time, it is common courtesy. Other times, it might be hopeful flirting.

Just remember this: Men also hold the door for other men (sad to report, some of this may also be flirting *sigh*).

This trailer for BRAVE shows strong women, and fat, arrogant, and wifty men.


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    • Man from Modesto profile imageAUTHOR

      Man from Modesto 

      6 years ago from Kiev, Ukraine (formerly Modesto, California)

      Yes, the "feminist" movement is exactly the opposite of feminine anything. It is designed to blur the line between female and male. This is why the government so heavily pushes laws that reduce the difference. California's "mommy daddy" SB 777 requires schools to provide special restrooms for gender confused children. It also says any boy who feels he is a girl can shower in the girls' locker room, and vice versa. It made it illegal to use the words "mother, father, family" and other family words in text books. That is why two mommies and two daddies is so heavily promoted.

      These kinds of laws are only being pushed in Christian nations. They do not exist in Islamic or pagan countries.

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      Judy Specht 

      6 years ago from California

      The bullying of men is indeed troubling. If men really want to make a stink about bathrooms they should talk about the way women dispose of used feminine hygiene products. That is way worse than urine on the floor. If you go into a women's dorm rooms they are frequently pig pens. What worries me is there are so many young men no longer have any desire for women who graduate from college because they are so hostile.

    • Man from Modesto profile imageAUTHOR

      Man from Modesto 

      6 years ago from Kiev, Ukraine (formerly Modesto, California)


      Thanks for sounding off.


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      Levertis Steele 

      6 years ago from Southern Clime

      Man from Modesto:

      You wrote, "Have you recently heard people complaining about how men pee on the floor when urinating? Guess what: the ultimate goal of this is to make it illegal to pee standing up; they want men to pee sitting down just like the girls. Don't laugh... such a law is already passed in Germany! That's right: German men must sit down to pee like women do when using public toilets."

      When men start mopping and sanitizing floors at home and in public, maybe they can stand up again. When our baby boys were too short to stand and use the toilet, they sat until they were tall enough. So, when men learn how to aim, they can stand again, too. Men who are very impotent and have begun to "recede" may need to sit to keep from wetting their pants and shoes. This is about common sense, not male egos.

      Women often stand over a toilet in public places for sanitary reasons. Who wants to take a quick relief by sitting on a public toilet? Sometimes women make a mess, too. So, both should use a seat cover and sit. Both sit when they have a BM, don't they, or do men stand? Is that feminine? I think that men can be overly sensitive, or they already have problems with their sexuality. So, they would rather blame someone else for their insecurities. No real man will become effeminate because he is required to sit. Anyway, who will be hired to monitor public restroom behaviors to make sure that laws are obeyed?

      When my husband and I had young children, we lived in a small three-bedroom apartment with one bathroom. So, we had to share our toilet with our guests. I became so annoyed when male guests urinated on the seat and floor. I found it necessary to go into the restroom after each male to check it and clean when necessary. I could not fail to do this because I did not want our children or others to walk into a mess. My husband thought that I was rude. So, I bought a framed sign at Wal-mart and hung it over our toilet. This was the message on it: "We aim to please. You AIM too, please!" It registered in the minds of some, but others apparently did not read it. I find it very annoying to walk into a restroom and find myself walking in a pool of urine, looking at feces in a toilet and paper towels all over the floor. Some people are just ridiculous, especially in some public facilities.

      When some men, women too, use the restroom, one can hear the flush of a toilet but never water running to wash hands. That's annoying. So, many restaurants have begun to post sanitizer at the head of a buffet line. Some use it and others do not. There should be a requirement for all to sanitize before serving themselves at a buffet. Maybe that would help to minimize many common viral diseases.

      I do hear men all over the globe talking about their concerns about being treated like girls. This does concern me. I do not want men to be uncomfortable about these things. I realize the value of real men, but I must say that I think that they are sometimes too sensitive about the issue. I also believe that people in societies put forth effort to change men and women, mostly certain men such as those of a particular race. It happened to black men who were enslaved. It happened to the Jews during the holocaust. It happened to many others, and is still happening today. Consider the many women who are modern-day sex slaves. People are constantly running games and trying to manipulate minds. I would be dense to think that this is not true. This is a fine reason why all men should raise their own sons and teach them to be men. The truth is that this is not just happening to men of a certain race or all men. It happens to women and children, too. People all over the world spend countless hours playing mind games for various reasons. It is a pandemic that has victimized all races and genders in one way or another.

      An example would be some Asian women who have been the desire of many men who want them for sexual reasons. This is not to say that all people who marry Asian are doing it for ill reasons. I am referring to those who have ill intentions. The men are so desperate that they have resorted to ordering them by post. The women are so desperate for a prosperous life that they have begun to advertise themselves via the media. So, men are not the only ones being manipulated.

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      Angela Brummer 

      6 years ago from Lincoln, Nebraska

      I love that women are now being portrayed as the hero in many of the movies. "The Paper bag Princess", is a great book to read to daughters, she of course if the hero in the book. But, I like the common courtesy extended by men. Great article.

    • neeta chauhan profile image

      neeta chauhan 

      6 years ago from Pakistan

      Hi Modesto,

      You are more then welcome. I am glad that you have liked

      my answer and thanks for your well wishes.....

    • Man from Modesto profile imageAUTHOR

      Man from Modesto 

      6 years ago from Kiev, Ukraine (formerly Modesto, California)


      Thank you for this post! This is exactly what I am talking about: men have been painted with this broad, rough brush. Fact is, many of the world's greatest poets and song writers are men. I love my wife intensely, I love children, too. Most of the men I have have known in my life feel the same way. Once you reject what you have been taught by Hollywood, you will be able to see the good men, who are everywhere.

      Be sure to pray that God will match you to a good man, and that he will see all the goodness and beauty in you (IN you). Peace.

    • neeta chauhan profile image

      neeta chauhan 

      6 years ago from Pakistan

      Because they do not possess a loving, tender heart and do not

      have the time and patience to understand a woman , they just feel her phsyically

      not mentally true partners are the one who look in the same direction.


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