Relationship Gone Bad
Relationship Gone Bad
Long-distance relationships don't always work out
This is sad for both people and happened for the best of the couple.
They broke up before marriage and know what it is to have each other and not have each other in the best and the worst of times.
Time showed them they were not meant to be together. There was no understanding from one partner, while the other tried to explain the awkward behaviours experienced. The troubled partner refused to consider these actions. Their relationship became dramatic and harder to cope with over time spent together.
Two international people failed to understand each other’s situation and allowed for a misunderstanding in their relationship that quickly made the couple go their separate paths.
It has been a heartbreaker to lose one another and to feel such sadness to lose what they once had. The whole time they were together she was full of points.
Everything she felt didn’t go with her and did not happen as decided by her boyfriend. A relationship involves two honest people and sometimes you do not see the point in being together when in-laws are part of your relationship.
In this case, the in-laws were friendly, kind and happy, but the girlfriend didn’t think that was the way for parents to be in her presence of her. She did not get the family life her boyfriend had because she didn't have one.
His parents quickly accepted her without a doubt and felt she was the one for their son. Unfortunately, a year later, nothing seemed right for the couple.
The constant phone calls from the son’s father, while he spent time with his girlfriend, did not make their relationship feel pleasant and happy together.
The girlfriend feared the in-laws were in control of their son’s life and stepped away. She did not understand a father's love for a son and had no idea of family love, and life.
She had no experience in parental love.
Her insecurities took her another step forward to fend for herself. She refused help from her boyfriend and lied about her past and present to her boyfriend. The boyfriend much younger than she was the innocent one in this relationship.
They shared special memories of each other and not a simple way to have to let go of the relationship. There is nothing they can do to stay together due to the false hopes they had and the different plans they had that didn't coincide.
He had planned to go in a different direction while she has her plans involved in her direction. These paths do not cross and that changes the direction they chose to follow for themselves.
Here we have two people who thought they were in love and had discovered that there is nothing that can keep them together from the poor understanding of the girlfriend to the family culture.
Different cultures keep people apart, but if there is an understanding a couple would stay together to work out their differences. In this relationship, they chose to let go because of the little understanding they had for each other.
Without an understanding, not much can work out for two people and not everything is about love, or is it?
To love someone is to understand that someone as well. In this relationship not understanding each other is what leads to a breakup.
A way of life that did not bring these two together for a long time. In the beginning, it felt true that love would cover their backs for any mishaps. As time went by for the couple, they realized a long-distance relationship is not for them.
They couldn’t be there for each other when they needed to and the distance between them drifted to nothing at the end of their relationship. Such types of relationships allow for emptiness and in the end, love doesn’t prevail.
It went on for a year when they could see each other and realized one day this is it, nothing was positive in the relationship and she didn’t try to visit him as promised.
Everything in a relationship works from both sides and when one side works, and the other doesn’t, then it is time to search elsewhere for a partner. They had decided to go their separate paths.
People fall in love and have high expectations. One does not see for themselves what is good for them.
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