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Tips for a Happy and Successful Marriage Life - Part II

Updated on July 06, 2011

Qualities of a Happily Married Couple

This article is in continuation of previous article which describes various intimacy tips for a successful marriage life. In this article, you will find some qualities that you can develop to have a successful and happy married life. Everyone wants their marriage life to be happy. Some couples are just perfect for each other. They understand each other’s feelings, emotions, needs and desires. This does not mean that they do not have problems in their married life, but they know how to tackle such problems and make their partner happy. There are some qualities which you must possess for making your married life smooth and happy.

Tips for a Successful Marriage

1. 'Trust' and 'Loyalty' are two important and major factors that could strength any relationship. Never lie to your partner and also never try to hide things that he/she is supposed to know. Be loyal to your partner and have trust on him/her.

2. As it is said that no one is perfect in this world, which means that everyone has some positive and some negative qualities. Accept your partner as he/she is. If you don’t like any of your partner’s habit then you can always tell him/her politely to improve on that habit. Adjustment is what makes the relationship healthy.

3. Support your partner in every phase of life. Try to know each other’s needs and priorities, share responsibilities and take each other’s opinion in whatever you do. This will reflect your care and concern about your partner.

4. Never argue with your partner or never say anything bad to him/her in front of others, as this would make him feel insulted and would really hurt. If your partner has done something wrong, then instead of saying anything in front of anyone, say when you both are alone. Always respect your partner in front of friends and relatives.

5. Always treat each other’s family and friends with respect you might not like some of your partner’s friends and relatives, but always show respect to them because you love your partner and they are your partner’s friends and relatives.

6. If you have done something wrong then there is no harm in apologizing and accepting your fault. Don’t let your ego come in between your relationship – just say ‘Sorry’.

7. The most important thing is to control your anger if your partner is also angry. If your partner is angry then instead of arguing and fighting with him/her, it would be better to calm down yourself. Give your partner some space and time so that his/her mood can get relaxed. It would be better if you never bring issues of the past during any argument.

These are some of the qualities that can create magic for you. If you don’t have these qualities, then you need not worry, you can start developing them from today onwards. These qualities are not very hard to develop but might take some time. Once you have developed them, just see the difference in your married life. It will become more beautiful and romantic.

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      Anamika S 7 years ago from Mumbai - Maharashtra, India

      Nice Hub! Your observation is quite right on this subject.Thanks for sharing!

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      Anuj Agarwal 7 years ago from Noida

      Thanks for the comment Anamika.

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      Philent 7 years ago

      I love your sensitivity. I bet you are a good husband. =)

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      Anuj Agarwal 7 years ago from Noida

      Thanks Philent for the lovely comment.

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      Philent 7 years ago

      Congratulations to both of us for having 50 fans. I'm your 50th and your my 50th, very nice. =)

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      Anuj Agarwal 7 years ago from Noida

      Yup and Congrats to you too. :)

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      Cindy Frye 7 years ago

      I agree with your article. I also think that people need to realize, going into a marriage, that's it's NOT a 50/50 deal. There will be times when the divide will be 60/40 or in difficult times, 80/20. The point is that the trials and tribulations of a happy, healthy marriage are going to be there no matter what. As long as both people realize that there will be times when they're going to have to carry more of the load than at other times and vice versa, that's when true balance occurs.

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      Anuj Agarwal 7 years ago from Noida

      Thanks for sharing your views Cindy.

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      lyla 7 years ago from India

      Great tips! Very practical as well..I totally agree with Cindy's views!Thanks for sharing. :)

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      Anuj Agarwal 7 years ago from Noida

      Thanks for the comment lyla.

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      samuel ramos sr 6 years ago

      great incouragement for every husband and wife,.

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      Anuj Agarwal 6 years ago from Noida

      Thanks for the kind comment Samuel.

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      Ambreen memon 6 years ago from riyadh KSA

      wonderful tips,i think these will be very useful if anyone try it with sincerity.

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      Anuj Agarwal 6 years ago from Noida

      @Ambreen - If both husband and wife will follow these tips, I think there would be very less fights in between.

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      Sun-Girl 5 years ago from Nigeria

      Interesting article and i believe all you said.

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      Anuj Agarwal 5 years ago from Noida

      Thanks for dropping by Sun-Girl.

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      TALII GIMANA TAPAKO 5 years ago

      Love the tips. Did learnt something i didnt know. Really helpful.

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      Anuj Agarwal 5 years ago from Noida

      Glad to know that you learned more tips to have a successful marriage life.

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      Anuj Agarwal 4 years ago from Noida

      You are absolutely correct and thanks for dropping by.

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      Luna 2 years ago

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