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To find Your Boyfriend

Updated on February 2, 2010

Perfect Three

To Find Your Boyfriend Simply Follow The Perfect 3

How I personally chose my partner was for three things or what I term ‘The Perfect Three’.

·Love - I love this person not for his looks, straightness or money but because I love them for being them and because its what is inside that counts..

·Trust - I can trust this person to be as faithful and monogamous to me and only me as I am to them and only them.

·Happiness -  Do I have true happiness with this person and they have true happiness with me and its not one sided but mutual as much as the other two.


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      TheRainDancer 8 years ago from Eastern Shore, MD

      Sounds like a good recipe to me. Too many people get stuck on looks, which fade, social status, which can drop, and what they can get from the other person instead of what they can do for the other person. Relationships are about give and take, but I think people focus too much on the taking and not on the giving. And if you cannot trust someone, how can you truly be happy with them. Happiness is a state of being, not something that should come and go. I can have a happy moment or two or twenty with someone I do not trust, but their untrustworthy personality will never create an environment of happiness. That's probably why so many hold on to bad relationships, they are happy for the moment and convince themselves things aren't that bad. If you're crying more than smiling, things are definitely that bad...

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      Callum 8 years ago from Edinburgh, Scotland, UK (At Home With My Wonderful Partner)

      thank you earnestshub, I think they are the most important factors to any relationship because it has to be mutual and not one sided like most are at the moment and people need to stop following media and follow their hearts xx

      Common sense really x

      Thankyou x

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      earnestshub 8 years ago from Melbourne Australia

      Good criteria. Love, trust and happiness is a great way to view what is important in relationships.