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What Men Want to Hear from Women

Updated on July 22, 2011

Michael Miu 苗僑偉

Jessica Hsuan & Michael Miu(HK Actress & Actor in a kissing scene)-He is hot!!!
Jessica Hsuan & Michael Miu(HK Actress & Actor in a kissing scene)-He is hot!!!

I heard that men are more of the physical creatures and women are more of the mental beasts. Is that true? I cannot speak for the men but I agree that women are more of the mental or emotional ones. Being a woman, I can tell you what men want to hear from women, whether is from a girlfriend or his wife. I think we all can relate to that.

1) I love you-Even the fact that you are in a relationship or in a marriage, he knows that you love him but he wants to hear it as well. It is reassuring to hear that for men.

2) You are tall, dark, and handsome-In other words, you are hot! Who does not want to hear that?

3) So happy that I found you-He is happy to be with you and wants to know that you are happy too.

4) Thank you- That would mean a lot in different ways. Thank you for being in my life. Thank you for helping out with the chores. Thank you for making me happy, etc.

5) You are special-Itbetter be. Yes, they want to be treated like a king. Hearing that makes him feel Wanted and needed.

6) I wonder what life would be like if we met ten years ago instead of now-Sometimes, men met women in their later years after a divorce and several grown children later. He would have the same question in mind.

We can go on and on. We probably can come up with a dozen more. I think you get the point. In general, men want to hear they are wanted and needed as well as women. I hope you enjoy reading my hub and feel free to give feedback.

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      Priscilla Chan 3 years ago from Normal, Illinois

      Thanks, Harishprasad. Glad that you enjoyed the article.

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      Harish Mamgain 3 years ago from India

      tim-tim, in this hub, you have defined flattery in six different ways and all these six ways are like six sweet arrows that penetrate heart of every man and make him mad. Lovely hub indeed ! : -)

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      Priscilla Chan 5 years ago from Normal, Illinois

      Sassywolf,thank you for taking your time to read my hub and commented on it!

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      Sassywolf 5 years ago from Utica,New York

      Thank you for your hub I find it so true but women also need to hear all of this as well.here is something I pulled off my fb that someone wrote it's helpful to both sexes to help all relationships!!

      ALL GUYS NEED TO READ THIS. -When she pulls away, pull her back. -When you see her start crying, just hold her and don't say a word. -When you see her walking, sneak up and hug her waist from behind. -When she's scared, protect her. -When she steals your favorite hoodie, let her wear it. -When she says that she loves you, she really does mean it. -When she grabs at your hands, hold hers and play w.........ith her fingers. -When she tells you a secret, keep it safe and untold. -When she looks at you in your eyes, don't look away until she does. -When she re-posts this bulletin, she wants you to read it. ? -When she's mad, hug her tight and don't let go. -When she says she's, okay don't believe it. -Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her. -Treat her like she's all that matters to you. -Watch her favorite movie with her even if you think it's stupid. -Don't talk about other girls around her. -Kiss her in the pouring rain. -When she runs up to you crying, the first thing you say is: "Whose butt am I kicking, baby?"

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      Alexander Thandi Ubani 6 years ago from Lagos

      Great hub. Always useful and handy. I love all the points made. Wonderful. Thank you

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      Priscilla Chan 6 years ago from Normal, Illinois

      Thank you for reading my hub, Wendy!

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      wendy87 6 years ago

      really true..

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      Priscilla Chan 6 years ago from Normal, Illinois

      Thank you for your comment, Melinda:)

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      msorensson 6 years ago

      I love that last part...it is romantic..

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      Priscilla Chan 7 years ago from Normal, Illinois

      internett1t3,thanks for reading my hub.

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      internett1t3 7 years ago from USA

      So true. Very great share.

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      Priscilla Chan 7 years ago from Normal, Illinois

      trsmith,glad you have the same point of view about men. Thansk for your comment:)

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      trsmith 7 years ago from Rapid City, SD

      Great Hub you are so right about what men want to hear. My man almost neads to hear it all the time and need to be shown my love but he is a great man and give it all back without question. Thank you

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      Priscilla Chan 7 years ago from Normal, Illinois

      magnoliazz,you are so right about them!I do appreciate men in general! Thank you for the comment. I am looking forward to read your hubs! Thank you so much for reading mine.

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      magnoliazz 7 years ago from Wisconsin

      In short, appreciate your man...which is kind of hard to do when they act like total idiots!!

      LOL...I'm a nurse, believe me I have seen it all! Men are a total pain to care for, the biggest babies you have ever seen. If they had to give birth the human race would end within a generation. I would rather have a woman patient any day of the week!

      In spite of all this, I know what you mean with this hub. Its like living in a fantasy world, but if you really want to get along with your man, you have to stroke his ego...like all the time! Especially when they are young, as they age, they get a little easier to deal with because they develop some emotional intelligence.

      Yes, in spite of all these things, I LOVE MEN!! Look around and see what they have done! The men built this country! All the roads and buidlings and big machines! It is the MEN who keep our country free, they go out and fight the wars so that we can have a better life here at home!

      Yes, our American men are the very best in the world! The women live in the lap of luxery because of their hard working men. We have never known a day of hunger because our men grow enough food for the entire world. All these things are true, but it is also true that in America, and probably most other countries too, the women were standing behind their men, caring for them so that they could do these amazing things. I guess God knew what he was doing when he created men and women to work together as a team!

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      Priscilla Chan 7 years ago from Normal, Illinois

      snow_white88, thanks for visiting my hub and your comment. It is true that sometimes we think about us and forget about them:)

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      snow_white88 7 years ago

      interesting and good to know! some times as women we like to think "me me me me" and forget there is also "him him him him!" I know for sure guys enjoy such compliments! thanks for sharing.

      snow.x

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      Priscilla Chan 7 years ago from Normal, Illinois

      You are funny,festersporling1. To be honest with you, I think in Chinese Culture,they prefer people in lighter skin in general. This is not to offend anyone, so please don't start sending me hate mail, LOL.

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      Daniel Christian 7 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

      I kind of like to think I at least got the tall and handsome going. I am pretty white so I don't fit the stereo type of tall, dark and handsome. Haha. So it has always sort of bugged me. Damn, why can't I be a few shades darker. :)

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      Priscilla Chan 7 years ago from Normal, Illinois

      Thanks,Denny for stopping by. Looking forward to read your hubs.

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      Denny Saloon 7 years ago from Surabaya, Indonesia

      Great ! This is wonderful article.

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      Priscilla Chan 7 years ago from Normal, Illinois

      Thanks for letting me know,DorriOlds. I will look into it. Thanks for visiting my hub.

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      DorriOlds 7 years ago from Chelsea, New York City, NY

      I liked the common sense in your hub about being very thoughtful to the man in your life. I don't know if you know but when i clicked to read your hub there was a triple X ad about Asian women. I found that offensive and wanted to let you know it was there. I liked reading your hub tho.

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      Priscilla Chan 7 years ago from Normal, Illinois

      Yes,dyesebel10. It is so true that we both want to hear nice things. Sometimes I think we are both fooling ourselves, LOL. Thanks for stopping by.

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      dyesebel10 7 years ago from USA

      I think it's the same way.. women also want to hear those special words from men.

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      Priscilla Chan 7 years ago from Normal, Illinois

      Thanks Sherie!It is true that sometimes we just need to let them know and to reassure them! Thanks for visiting:)

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      Sherie Ljaoie 7 years ago

      This is so interesting and true ..most of the time we as women dont realize men need positive reassurance and nurturing too ;) .Great job Tim-Tim!

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      Priscilla Chan 7 years ago from Normal, Illinois

      What a nice comment/compliment,chrismarva.Thanks you:)

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      chrismarva 7 years ago

      You are right about what men want to hear and you are what men want to see when they are hearing it.

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      Priscilla Chan 7 years ago from Normal, Illinois

      Thanks,carolina muscle. Communication is important. Perhaps you can help by telling a woman what you want to hear:)

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      carolina muscle 7 years ago from Charlotte, North Carolina

      I'd be happy to help.. any questions, just ask! :-)

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      Priscilla Chan 7 years ago from Normal, Illinois

      Thanks,carolina muscle. I am looking forward to get your insight to get fit as well:)

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      carolina muscle 7 years ago from Charlotte, North Carolina

      I really think you got a line on us, here. Well thought out post! Thanks!

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      Priscilla Chan 7 years ago from Normal, Illinois

      Michael,it is true that everyone needs to hear that. Thanks for stopping by.

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      Micky Dee 7 years ago

      Thanks Tim-Tim. Everybody needs that.

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      Priscilla Chan 7 years ago from Normal, Illinois

      Thanks, Mr Nice. I sure will, right now.

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      Mr Nice 7 years ago from North America

      Hi tim-tim,

      Interesting topic and good write up, keep writing good

      hubs. Please visit my hubs too.

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      Priscilla Chan 7 years ago from Normal, Illinois

      You are funny, Michael:) Thanks for being my loyal friend!

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      Priscilla Chan 7 years ago from Normal, Illinois

      Thanks for your comment,creativeone59. It is always nice to hear from you. I need to catch up with my reading and writing, LOL. Happy New Year!

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      Michael 7 years ago

      I don't think a man could have put it together better. It is right on. I am printing this out and giving it to everyone I know. Thanks

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      benny Faye Douglass 7 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thanks for a great hub, Thanks for sharing. Godspeed. creativeone59