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Where Can One Find A Future Spouse

Updated on June 21, 2011
Happy couple
Happy couple


I am aware of your desire to be in the arms of someone that cares and loves you, and not just loving you for the sake of dating and romance, but for building a future home together. Remember, it is not all places or locations that you can find a spouse or at least stand a more chances of meeting a potential wife or husband, so where can one find a future spouse?

Finding a husband or wife is not so easy neither is it too difficult, if you know how and where to search for a spouse. I know what is boiling in your mind right now, so don’t hiss yet, you may be right with the ideology and belief that wife or husband can be found anywhere but wait a minute, do you know that not all places have more possibilities of meeting a future wife or husband? This has a very simple explanation and reason.

Let me ask you, when you go to a nightclub, do you always wish to meet a true love or potential spouse? Of course no, you probably hope to meet a fling partner or to have a one night stand, but when you go to a wedding ceremony as a single guy or lady, you feel jealous and obliged to be in that same mood, you start imagining yourself in such situation, therefore, your marital instincts starts to build up, positioning you on a high expectation to meet a potential spouse.

Now, let us go back to where one can find a future spouse. Where can you find a potential husband or wife?

attend other people's wedding
attend other people's wedding

1.     Wedding ceremonies

If for any reason or reasons, you have been avoiding this, start now to develop the habit of attending other people’s wedding ceremonies if you probably desire to get married in the nearest future. You don’t only stand a chance of meeting a potential spouse, you also learn a lot, and it helps to ignite the spirit of matrimony in you.

And when you attend a wedding ceremony, don’t be too timid or too bold, make sure you appear in your real self, and learn to smile, not just frowning till the wedding is over, even though you may be overwhelmed or jealous (especially the ladies), it is a normal feeling, smile and feel alive, this may help you attract a potential spouse.

2. Social clubs

Social clubs have always been a point of connection for people right from the ages, but most searching singles have not come to realize this powerful tool. Take for instance, ROTARACT or ROTARY Club, it brings together men, women, ladies and gents of various classes and backgrounds in one atmosphere of fellowshipping together. If you make good use of clubs like this, be it a Gym club, business or charity clubs, you stand a greater chance of meeting a future spouse of same social belief.

Church is a good place to look for a spouse
Church is a good place to look for a spouse

2. Religious Worship Places

I am not going to over emphasize on this because I am aware that you already know much about this. For instance, the Christians, Churches are good places to connect with a potential spouse, if you utilize it well and commit yourself to the activities.

3. Business Seminars or Summits

This is another good location to look out for a future spouse, if you want to connect with somebody of your personality and orientation.

4. Work Places

This is better in a large working environment with multiple sections or departments. It may not be advisable in a secluded or small working environment to avoid distractions and blackmail. But if you are good in playing indoor romance, this might be a place for you to meet your future spouse.

5. School Alumni Associations

This is another exceptional place to search for a future spouse, and one significant thing about this option, is the ease of initiating friendship. Remember, every member is excited to have passed through the school in question, so they are proud and happy to interact with their fellow alumnus. If you make proper use of this, you are more likely going to meet your future spouse.

visitation to a hospital may link you up
visitation to a hospital may link you up

6. Hospitals

If you are the type that finds it difficult or filthy to visit people in sick bed, please have a change of heart today because you might be missing to connect with your future spouse. Please I want you to note that everything I wrote here was based on experience and true life events, and if not for the sake of space, I would have gone into details in narrating some true life stories of people I know and heard about, that met their present spouse through a hospital visitation. You can read further about the reasons you ought to be paying visits to those in hospital sick bed, Hospital Visitations DoYou Visit Those In Sick Bed?

In conclusion, I want to use this as an opportunity to encourage you to make out time for hospital visitations, your visit may help someone recover quicker than expected, and one great thing about meeting someone through a hospital visitation, is the fact that they will always have you at heart, and you also get to know them more unlike when you meet someone in a party, you only know their flashy aspect of life, what about the interior?

Online relationship: if you desire to meet a potential spouse through online, I suggest you stay away from romance sites, most people come there for ulterior motives, some profiles are also fake and fraudulent, beware!

The best way to date online is to join a niche site with purposeful agenda like: political discussion, fashion matters, diet and exercise forum, advisory centers, etc. Through individual contributions of the members, you can figure out their personalities and orientation, which will help you to initiate a friendship network with someone that shares similar opinion with you, which can eventually lead to something intimate if you play your card well. Good luck guys, meet you at Cast A Personal Love Spell.

Have you or someone you know found a spouse through any of the above mediums?

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