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Where has the dream man gone?

Updated on April 12, 2009

The Dream man is still in the dream.

 The dream man has gotten lost in reality, I guess that is why he is still the dream man.  I honestly do not know what type of men women dream about, I just wonder why they dreaming when all the men that are going to be here at this time are here now.  Seriously, I always root for people to find that "perfect" some one.  I believe that there are true soul mates but you really have to want to find the other person.  Accepting them for who they are in truth not in imagination is what will reveal the dream man or woman.  There is a thing called reality and it states that you cannot create your own dream person. Tow people must meet each other half way for there to be a proper connection.

If you are a fault finder, forget it the dream man will never exist for you.  His big fault wil be that he is the dream person but he did not show up in time or he is now too perfeect and you will not know what to do. If you are a I will wait for him to come, forget it, he won't show up.  He will have so far to travel by the time he gets there he will forget he is the dream man. In other words ladies and gentlemen have to meet each other half way.

There is so much to do in the world now a days, the dream man is probably on the computer looking for dream lady. I was on one site looking for dream lady, she was on the same site looking for dream man, but we never met on line.  We were introduced through mutual friends, it funny how things work sometimes. 

Wait how about this, maybe the dream man is thinking with all this pressure to perform at work, financial concerns, health maintenance, friends, family, other associates and constituents I am tired. If dream lady is not inspiring enough I will quit my dream man job and go in the woods to become a sage.  Or how about this some person focus on their independence and desires so much that they forget their dream person was there and has feeling.

The attraction and commitment level has to be mutual or forget some one will get burned out of the relationship.  Communication should be open and there should be a common goal.

This dream man is off the market, I just wanted to give some insight pertaining to how some men think.  If I become a dream man run away, then I will send an email from an undisclosed location to tell you why I ran.  I do not plan on running, beside dream lady won't let me.



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    • shibashake profile image

      shibashake 8 years ago

      When you grow up reading and watching Cinderella, Snow White, Sleeping Beauty, or some other princess story, it is easy to fall into the "dream man" or "dream prince" scenario. I totally agree with what you say, but currently, our culture, and popular media really pushes the dream man concept. It is difficult not to be affected by something that is so pervasive, especially for young women.

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      marisuewrites 8 years ago from USA

      A good analysis for dream lovers...if we keep our dreams reasonable and don't expect perfection, there are many good prospects out there for us!!

      You said "Communication should be open and there should be a common goal. " and that is one of the most important components of a relationship.

      great hub!! =))

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      Cindy Vine 8 years ago from Cape Town

      Thanks for answering my request, Darrell!