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A letter to a Relative: Whom to be blamed?

Updated on May 19, 2013

A Letter to a Relative

Do you ask me why I am not visiting you? Why don’t I keep in touch with you?

I have answered these questions & more than these uncountable times, but in indirect way, mostly.

Yes, I did. I am fed up now. You always feel that you are superior & I am junior in all life fields. You mostly let me more frustrated, disappointed …..
You don’t like my way of speaking, my education, my skills. Even when I eat, you watch me & later you give tips about diet & ,etc.

I used to forgive again & again, now, I am not able – and don’t want – to remember all the pain you gave me.

Please, don’t blame. Is it fair enough after all what happened? Am I the person whom to be blamed!!??

I encourage you, appreciate you, respect you…while you, mostly, do opposite.

It is my destiny that you are my relative; I will come to visit you when I feel patient enough to communicate with you (if we can say it is a communication).

But whatever you do, one day you - kindly - helped me & I can’t forget that.

I keep convince myself that you hope for me better life, but you are not able to convince me in an acceptable way.

Thank you any way.

Source

Family Quotes

  • "Family is the most important thing in the world." ~ Princess Diana
  • "Where can a person be better than in the bosom of their family?" ~ Marmontel Gretry
  • "When you look at your life, the greatest happiness are family happiness." ~ Dr. Joyce Brothers
  • "After a good dinner one can forgive anybody, even one's own relations." ~ Oscar Wilde, A Woman of No Importance
  • "What can you do to promote world peace? Go home and love your family." ~ Mother Teresa
  • "Parents were the only ones obligated to love you; from the rest of the world you had to earn it." ~ Ann Brashares, Forever in Blue: The Fourth Summer of the Sisterhood
  • "Families, can't live with them, can't live without them .." ~ Tate Hallaway, Almost to Die For
  • "Family is not an important thing. It's everything." ~ Michael J. Fox
  • "My family is my strength and my weakness." ~ Aishwarya Rai
  • "The family you come from isn't as important as the family you're going to have." ~ Ring Lardner
  • "I don't think anyone has a normal family." ~ Edward Furlong
  • "A man can’t make a place for himself in the sun if he keeps taking refuge under the family tree." ~ Helen Keller
  • "Other things may change us, but we start and end with family." ~ Anthony Brandt

Thinking Again & Again

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Questions to Answer

  • Why do some of our relatives understate us?
  • Do you think that some people like to help you, but they do it the wrong way?
  • Do you forgive your relative for many mistake he/she does, because they are your relatives?
  • Do you think that some people understate us to satisfy their low self-esteem?
  • How much you should forgive others?
  • Is forgiving is better than cutting the relationship? At Last s/he is part of your family, & you do not want more stress for your family members.
  • Why do we,easily, speak about cutting relationships? There are other solutions, like reducing the communication with negative people.

Dear Reader

Please, share me any ideas / suggestions / hubs about this issue.

If you correct any English mistake of mine, it is highly appreciated.

Thank you

Do you prefer to cut the relation?

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