Why Do Men Get Caught Wearing Panties?
Caught wearing thongs on their faces...
Men caught wearing panties can find great wrath and furious anger rained down upon them by angry wives, girlfriends, and homophobes who mistake wearing lingerie for being gay. Being caught whilst wearing panties can be a secret fantasy for many men who wear lingerie simply because their main attraction to lingerie isn't for the look, or the feel, its the breaking of a taboo.
On the other side of the coin, a man may decide to get himself caught in panties simply because he does not want to live a lie anymore. He wants those nearest and dearest to him to know that he wears women's lingerie, but he does not know how to slip it into general conversation. “I say darling, would you pass the sugar? By the way, I just love the feel of a silk thong against my cheeks.”
It's a difficult discussion to have at the best of times, and though I've provided some guidance and encouragement for men to be open about their lingerie wearing with their partners, here and here, sometimes the passive-agressive 'oops, are those MY panties on the floor' just seems easier for all concerned.
For taboo breakers, the thrill of just wearing lingerie gets tiring eventually. Like any activity, if repeated sufficient times, it becomes boring and mundane. Just another day of slipping on a pair of frilly knickers and a lace trimmed camisole. But now imagine what would happen if someone happened to catch a peek of that lingerie? What if a little lace peeked out from under the shirt? What if he bent over and his red satin panties were exposed? Ah! That gets the juices flowing again. Taboo breakers may find it enough just to imagine what it might be like to be caught wearing lingerie, but some of them invariably go on to leaving one shirt button unfastened or wearing a looser pair of pants that slips down a little at strategic times. The results of this sort of thing range from giggles, to strange looks to being fired from your job for sexual harassment. Please, pick your times and places for exploring public lingerie wearing.
For men who want to live their lives in the open, similar tactics are possible, but they are less likely to be so brazen about things. They may 'chicken out' at the last moment and quickly rebutton their shirt, perhaps even race upstairs to change before the wife gets home. Eventually however, he gets caught. He may not even intend to get caught. Perhaps he forgets a pair of panties in the wash basket, or leaves them under the bed where they are found the next time his girlfriend vacuums. Getting caught this way almost always results in accusations of infidelity first and foremost, and can destroy a relationship.
Moral of the story? Sometimes its better to disclose your lingerie wearing rather than 'getting caught' at it like a naughty child.
